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		<title>When You Should Bend The Rules (Or, how to blow a 7-year business relationship in a day)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 09:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter Shankman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In general, &#8220;the rules&#8221; fall into two categories. &#8220;For our safety,&#8221; or &#8220;for gain.&#8221; By &#8220;for gain,&#8221; I mean for a company&#8217;s gain &#8211; i.e., &#8220;We can&#8217;t give out more than one sample because we&#8217;ll lose money.&#8221; In general, the rules make sense. Except for the TSA. Their rules never make sense. But &#8211; Part of succeeding in business has to involve knowing when the bend, or even break the rules. There will never be a rule that can be designed for every single situation without fail. Every situation is different, and anyone in charge of enforcing the rules needs to understand that. No business will thrive (or even survive) if they don&#8217;t know when to bend or break a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In general, &#8220;the rules&#8221; fall into two categories. &#8220;For our safety,&#8221; or &#8220;for gain.&#8221; By &#8220;for gain,&#8221; I mean for a company&#8217;s gain &#8211; i.e., &#8220;We can&#8217;t give out more than one sample because we&#8217;ll lose money.&#8221; In general, the rules make sense. Except for the TSA. Their rules never make sense.</p>
<p>But &#8211; Part of succeeding in business has to involve knowing when the bend, or even break the rules. There will never be a rule that can be designed for every single situation without fail. Every situation is different, and anyone in charge of enforcing the rules needs to understand that. No business will thrive (or even survive) if they don&#8217;t know when to bend or break a rule.</p>
<p>With that said, allow me to introduce you to<a href="http://www.thehelena.com/"> The Helena</a>. A gorgeous &#8220;green&#8221; rental building on 57th Street, with beautiful unobstructed views of the Hudson River, sunset, and New Jersey, it&#8217;s a place I called home for seven years prior to buying my new apartment near Times Square a few months ago. As anyone who ever visited me knows, it&#8217;s by all accounts, a stunning building, if not a little far west.</p>
<p>I moved in back when the building wasn&#8217;t even finished yet. I was the third tenant in the entire building, and the only tenant on my floor for close to eight months, because mine was the only apartment on the floor that was finished. I spent the first six months there listening to the wind rattle through the building, since my apartment was the only one on the floor to have windows installed.</p>
<p>I fell in love with the building, with the doormen and porters, with the garage attendants and the neighbors. Everything about the building was awesome, and I told anyone who would listen how great it was. I am personally responsible for bringing in at least six tenants over my time in the building.</p>
<p>When I bought my new apartment, I still had a few months left on my lease. I went to the management office to ask if I could be let out of my lease early, explaining that I was in one of the coveted two-bedroom apartments, that could be easily rented out, since every time my lease came up for renewal, I&#8217;d get a note from management asking if I was leaving, since they always have people ready to take a two-bedroom.</p>
<p>In no uncertain terms, I was told &#8220;no.&#8221; &#8220;Oh, those are really hard to rent,&#8221; said Jim Manning, the head of the leasing office. &#8220;Funny, I said &#8211; you always said you had people looking.&#8221; &#8220;Oh,&#8221; he said, &#8220;Well, that was before.&#8221; Before what, I don&#8217;t know, but whatever.</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s the funny part &#8211; Letting me out of my lease early is NOT the rule I&#8217;m talking about bending. </strong>I signed a lease, and I bought my new apartment knowing I still had a few months left. That&#8217;s fine &#8211; That&#8217;s my problem, not theirs.</p>
<p>At around the same time, one of my closest friends, Becca, came home to her place downtown after a business trip to find that a pipe had burst in a neighbors apartment, flooding her apartment, ruining most of her stuff, and making her place unlivable. Her landlord was unwilling to help her, and she needed a place to stay. I&#8217;ve known Becca forever, and immediately offered her my apartment for as long as she needed it, since I wasn&#8217;t living there anymore, but was still paying rent. She took me up on my offer, and paid me the same amount of rent she was paying in her old place each month. While I wasn&#8217;t breaking even, it was better than having to fork out the entire rent for an unused place, and I was able to help a friend. Win-win.</p>
<p>Management knew she was there, knew who she was, and had no problem with it whatsoever. Seemed to work out pretty well.</p>
<p>Fast forward to a month left on my lease. Becca tells me she wouldn&#8217;t mind taking the lease over from me when I leave. I figure this to be a win for The Helena &#8211; Becca&#8217;s already proven herself to be a trustworthy tenant, all that would be necessary would be to transfer the lease, or even have her fill out a new one for her. Everyone wins.</p>
<p>I mention this to the leasing office at the Helena, and they start the paperwork. Here&#8217;s where it gets insane: Her former landlord, who she&#8217;s suing because he failed to fix the apartment she was in, refuses to sign one piece of paper saying she lived there. Legally, he wasn&#8217;t even allowed to do that &#8211; if someone lived somewhere, that&#8217;s a fact. That you&#8217;re being sued by that tenant shouldn&#8217;t matter. But he didn&#8217;t. Becca had all the other paperwork done, has excellent credit, and explained to management why that piece of paper wasn&#8217;t turned in. I even called and let them know that I trusted her, that I&#8217;d been there for years without a problem, that she was there for several months without a problem.</p>
<p>The result from The Helena: &#8220;Sorry, the rules require us to have that document.&#8221;</p>
<p>*Blank stare.*</p>
<p>So let&#8217;s understand: In an effort to follow the &#8220;rules,&#8221; The Helena did the following:</p>
<p>1) They lost a trusted tenant who already had a good history with the building.<br />
2) They angered one of their oldest tenants, who continues to have the ability to recommend that apartment building.<br />
3) They fostered bad-will (as opposed to goodwill) by adhering to a rule that didn&#8217;t benefit anyone.<br />
4) They did nothing to help an already damaged leasing office reputation. (See screenshot below)</p>
<p>So Becca&#8217;s credit was flawless. I vouched for her (as a seven-year tenant with no negative issues in seven years.) She had already become friends with the doormen and porters, and everyone knew her. She was an asset to the building. The Helena decided none of this mattered, because they &#8220;had to follow the rules.&#8221;</p>
<p>Bad move, Helena. Bad move.</p>
<p><strong>When to Bend the Rules<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Bend the rules when the only benefit of following the rule is to say &#8220;I followed the rules.&#8221; As I said earlier, no rule can be right for every situation. In this case, there was no downside in bending that one rule. The Helena chose not to, and it cost them a ton more than they gained. Know the reasons why you&#8217;re following rules, and know when to bend them.<strong> </strong></p>
<p>Bend the rules when the benefit outweighs the negatives. I would have continued to say great things about The Helena, and I would have continued to recommend it to people. Becca would have done the same. Instead, the opposite happened.</p>
<p>Bend the rules when you have the opportunity to foster goodwill, and even remove some negativity about your brand. Check out the two comments on FourSquare about The Helena (neither left by me:)</p>
<p><a href="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//helena-sleazy1.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4287" title="helena-sleazy" src="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//helena-sleazy1.png" alt="" width="440" height="229" /></a>So they already had this against them. A simple act of goodwill, that wouldn&#8217;t have cost them anything could have gone far to void these comments. If you see &#8220;Wow, leasing office went out of their way to help me, can&#8217;t recommend them enough,&#8221; that would neutralize, if not invalidate the comments above. By not doing that, you&#8217;ve only reinforced the comments above.</p>
<p>Finally, <strong>bend the rules just to be a good human being.</strong> You&#8217;re the manager of the leasing office. One of the ways you become manager is by demonstrating you have the ability to think critically, not just to act like a robot. You&#8217;re in charge because you can make decisions that benefit the company, not just decisions that go &#8220;by the book.&#8221;</p>
<p>In the end, it comes down to common sense. Know when to be a machine, and know when to be a human being. Leaning one way or another can have ripples for years to come. In this case, the ripples are negative. I get asked by people all the time where to live in Manhattan. There are lots of luxury rental buildings I could recommend. Sadly, The Helena will no longer be one of them.</p>
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		<title>Lessons a Month After Merging my Facebook Personal and Fan Pages</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 09:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter Shankman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bit over a month ago, I was contacted by Facebook, asking if I&#8217;d like to &#8220;merge&#8221; my &#8220;fan&#8221; page (I&#8217;m STILL not comfortable calling it that) with my &#8220;personal&#8221; page on Facebook, and turn my &#8220;fans&#8221; into &#8220;subscribers.&#8221; Facebook&#8217;s logic there was that I&#8217;d only have to post all my content in one place, and could determine which content was &#8220;public,&#8221; (i.e., subscribers, the world, etc.,) and which I kept only for my &#8220;friends.&#8221; I volunteered to give it a shot, even after being told there was no turning back &#8211; i.e., my &#8220;Fan page&#8221; would disappear, and I couldn&#8217;t bring it back. After asking a ton of questions (and to Facebook&#8217;s credit, the person who reached out to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A bit over a month ago, I was contacted by Facebook, asking if I&#8217;d like to &#8220;merge&#8221; my &#8220;fan&#8221; page (I&#8217;m STILL not comfortable calling it that) with my &#8220;personal&#8221; page on Facebook, and turn my &#8220;fans&#8221; into &#8220;subscribers.&#8221; Facebook&#8217;s logic there was that I&#8217;d only have to post all my content in one place, and could determine which content was &#8220;public,&#8221; (i.e., subscribers, the world, etc.,) and which I kept only for my &#8220;friends.&#8221;</p>
<p>I volunteered to give it a shot, even after being told there was no turning back &#8211; i.e., my &#8220;Fan page&#8221; would disappear, and I couldn&#8217;t bring it back.</p>
<p>After asking a ton of questions (and to Facebook&#8217;s credit, the person who reached out to me answered every single one, no matter how basic or stupid they seemed,) I told Facebook to flip the switch.</p>
<p>Within 24 hours, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/petershankman">http://facebook.com/petershankman</a> redirected to my personal page, and my &#8220;Fan page&#8221; was no more.</p>
<p>A little over a month later, here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned from that transformation.</p>
<p>Overall, I&#8217;m happy with the change. There&#8217;s no doubt that it&#8217;s easier to update one page vs. two, and it&#8217;s most definitely easier to update Facebook via mobile, which, lets be honest, is where a decent amount of content happens. Before the merger, I&#8217;d have to email photos to a specific email address and hope they made it &#8211; I couldn&#8217;t tag or add location until I got back to a laptop. So there&#8217;s no doubt that being able to fully utilize the Facebook Droid App for all that it&#8217;s made to do (tagging, location, and privacy) is a big bonus.</p>
<p><strong>Positives</strong>:</p>
<p>1) <strong>Probably the most important, the merger to one page means I&#8217;m more likely to post more quality content.</strong> I never truly realized the value of the Facebook App on my Droid until my pages were merged. Because there was no support for Fan Pages (yes, you could email to a private address, but nothing like what you can do with the app &#8211; tagging, location, etc.) I was more than likely to take a photo and Tweet it out, or save it to post on my fan page if I remembered later or the next day. In other words, if I was away from my laptop when I wanted to share content, those on my &#8220;fan page&#8221; got the short end of the stick. With the merged page, I have over 50,000 subscribers (formerly fans) in addition to my &#8220;friends&#8221; who now can see my content in real time, tagged and geo-tagged, as long as I make sure the content is public. As someone whose <a href="http://blog.century21.com/2011/11/how-to-succeed-in-business-peter-shankmans-rules/" target="_blank">mantra</a> is &#8220;having an audience is a privilege, not a right,&#8221; I can&#8217;t stress enough the power of this change: Facebook has taken away all the previous barriers that crippled my fan page when I was mobile, and I can truly offer my audience the best content I have, as it happens. At an event and spot a celeb? I can post and tag. At the airport with four hours to kill and want to offer anyone who knows me and happens to be there access to the airline lounge as my guest? Can do it in a heartbeat. The ability to use the mobile apps to share content and choose what level of sharing I want is definitely the best result of the new merged format.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4271" title="mergedcontentoptions" src="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//mergedcontentoptions.png" alt="" width="449" height="345" />2) <strong>Truly &#8220;owning&#8221; privacy, (to the extent anyone actually can on Facebook,) means I&#8217;m more aware of everything I post. </strong>Huh? &#8220;Of course you&#8217;re aware of it, Peter, you&#8217;re posting it!&#8221; Not quite. Think about it: You post a photo or a joke to your personal page &#8211; You can do it without thinking &#8211; &#8220;It&#8217;s my personal page, I can do whatever I want.&#8221; Posting to a fan page? Same logic applies in a different format: &#8220;My fans are a step removed from my &#8220;friends,&#8221; I can only post &#8220;this type&#8221; of content.&#8221; It&#8217;s an easy rule from both sides, and it&#8217;s easy to get into a rut with it. <strong>But there&#8217;s the problem: </strong>We&#8217;re lured into thinking in only one of two ways &#8211; &#8220;personal&#8221; or &#8220;fan.&#8221; That gets boring fast, and prevents you from engaging your audience anywhere near your full potential. <strong>Because I have to decide for who I&#8217;m posting every time I post on the merged page, I&#8217;m more likely to really <em>think</em> about my content. <em>Does this content really matter to my fans? Am I just posting to show off or to hear my own voice? Will this be relevant to people who have never met me personally?</em></strong> All these questions come into play with every post I make, whether a status update, photo, video, or link. And while you might be thinking that it&#8217;s a pain in the ass, in fact, it&#8217;s the opposite &#8211; It makes me ask if what I&#8217;m sharing is really worth my audience&#8217;s time. And that&#8217;s how we should always be thinking about our voice: Putting our audience&#8217;s needs before ours.</p>
<p><strong>Negatives:</strong></p>
<p>There&#8217;s really only one negative that stands out, and I&#8217;ve learned how to compensate for it.<strong> When your pages are merged, and you have both &#8220;friends&#8221; and &#8220;subscribers,&#8221; only friends can post on your wall. </strong>On a fan page, any fan could start a conversation. With subscribers, only confirmed friends can. When I first noticed this, within 12 hours of the changeover, I was mortified &#8211; I emailed and asked why, and the answer was an obvious one, to avoid spam posts. I get it, but I was still concerned that I was stifling my audience&#8217;s ability to talk to me &#8211; to reach out and start a conversation. Over the next week or so, I realized that if you focus on figuring out the best way to communicate with your audience, them not being able to post on your wall isn&#8217;t <em>that</em> important. I do hope Facebook changes their logic here and lets subscribers post like they could before as fans. Even if it means you have to scrub spam daily, I think it&#8217;s worth it. But until that happens, I&#8217;ve learned that as long as I give my subscribers the ability to comment on all my content I make public, then my audience doesn&#8217;t feel stifled. I also ask probing questions that people <em>want</em> to answer in the comments &#8211; Anything from asking about their evening plans to asking if anyone has great images of their last vacation.</p>
<p>To make up for the lack of wall interaction on the part of subscribers, it does mean I have to post a bit more &#8211; But that&#8217;s not a bad thing, if you post with your audience in mind. I also believe that Facebook will offer the option for subscribers to post on walls of &#8220;merged&#8221; pages soon enough &#8211; I don&#8217;t see a downside to it. They can already do it on fan pages, and Facebook&#8217;s spam algorithms are certainly decent enough. So I think that&#8217;s just a matter of time.</p>
<p><strong>Is the merge right for every brand out there?</strong></p>
<p><strong>No. </strong>The fact is, there are tons of large companies who have several people who manage their online brand, or are too big to be associated with one person. Any large company comes to mind &#8211; A car company &#8211; Any national or international brand &#8211; You get the idea. They need to keep their &#8220;fan&#8221; pages as they are. They&#8217;re a true &#8220;Brand.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think the problem is that with the advent of Social Media, everyone thinks they&#8217;re a &#8220;brand.&#8221; And in some sense, they are. But in the sense of a &#8220;fan page,&#8221; Facebook is right in making this change. A &#8220;Brand&#8221; of a person, a celebrity, or the like, should be &#8220;them.&#8221; A &#8220;fan page&#8221; is a misnomer &#8211; It should be a page about them &#8211; One page, they can adjust to make public the content they want public, and private the content they want private. Much like in real life, if you think about it. And that&#8217;s smart. So for every brand? No. For most people/celebrities/public figures who have &#8220;fan pages?&#8221; Yes. It&#8217;s time to convert.</p>
<p><strong>End result:</strong></p>
<p>Am I happy I made the change? Yes. The ability to post all my content to one place and decide on the fly who gets to see it in real time is a lifesaver &#8211; and I&#8217;ve definitely noticed <em>my interaction and engagement from subscribers is higher now than when they were just fans on the &#8220;fan page.</em>&#8221; Remember this, too: I&#8217;ve always said that it&#8217;s only a matter of time until the line between our &#8220;personal&#8221; and &#8220;professional&#8221; brand goes away, and it&#8217;ll be up to us to choose what gets posted in our world. I think this is another step towards that happening for those who aren&#8217;t &#8220;corporations,&#8221; but rather, who live in that mixture between who they are, and the professional brand they&#8217;re trying to cultivate. Facebook&#8217;s merger option should help anyone in that space, and as long as we&#8217;re smart enough to realize we should be there, this is a benefit, no doubt.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Thoughts? Comments? As always, I want to hear them. Leave them below. And by the way &#8211; If you&#8217;re not a subscriber to me on Facebook, you can fix that <a href="http://www.facebook.com/petershankman" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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		<title>EXCLUSIVE: Ever Want to Play Angry Birds in Real Life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 10:15:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter Shankman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Any Angry Birds junkies in the house? &#8220;Hi, my name is Peter, and I&#8217;ve spent countless hours playing Angry Birds, when I should have been working.&#8221; I think we can all relate. But rather than give you the guidance and help you need to break your Angry Birds addiction, I&#8217;m here to feed it. What if you didn&#8217;t just have to play Angry Birds on your iPad, Droid, iPhone, Browser, Computer, or other device? What if you could play it live, in real life, in your living room? Flinging Angry Birds into houses of Pigs right from your couch? Or on the Kitchen Table? Flinging Angry Birds at the cat? Why not! You all know K&#8217;NEX, right? You&#8217;ve been playing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Any Angry Birds junkies in the house?</p>
<p>&#8220;Hi, my name is Peter, and I&#8217;ve spent countless hours playing Angry Birds, when I should have been working.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think we can all relate.</p>
<p>But rather than give you the guidance and help you need to break your Angry Birds addiction, I&#8217;m here to feed it. What if you didn&#8217;t just have to play Angry Birds on your iPad, Droid, iPhone, Browser, Computer, or other device?</p>
<p>What if you could play it live, in real life, in your living room? Flinging Angry Birds into houses of Pigs right from your couch? Or on the Kitchen Table? Flinging Angry Birds at the cat? Why not!</p>
<p>You all know <a href="http://knex.com/" target="_blank">K&#8217;NEX</a>, right? You&#8217;ve been playing with them since you were a kid. Well, you&#8217;ll soon be able to build and play with characters from Angry Birds, with new licensed building toys by K’NEX<sup>®</sup>. Rovio, the creator of the globally successful Angry Birds franchise, and K’NEX, the only US Construction toy company focused on Building Worlds Kids Love™, are pleased to announce this new partnership to create a line of building toys inspired by Angry Birds.</p>
<p><a href="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//angry_birds_25set1-1-1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4184" title="angry_birds_25set1-1-1" src="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//angry_birds_25set1-1-1-300x264.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="264" /></a>The relationship combines the award-winning K’NEX building system with beloved Angry Birds characters, bringing them from the smartphone to the construction aisle for the first time. With more than 600 million downloads, Angry Birds is the #1 mobile game worldwide and appeals to male and female audiences across multiple age ranges.</p>
<p>Yes. This DOES mean that you&#8217;ll now be able to build every single level of Angry Birds in the real world, and shoot them down over and over again. It means missing family dinners, school and work deadlines, and important moments in your life, like your wedding, birthdays, and your child&#8217;s first steps.</p>
<p>This is ANGRY BIRDS IN REAL LIFE! I honestly don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anything better.</p>
<p>While K’NEX will provide a sneak peek of the products at NY Toy Fair in February 2012, the K’NEX Angry Birds product line will not be widely available until Fall 2012. Building sets will include the most popular Angry Birds characters, buildable launchers and other recognizable elements from the game. I&#8217;ll be at Toy Fair, and will tweet first photos of the launch.</p>
<p>This is probably the most exciting thing I can recall since my parents bought me Tinker Toys when I was four, and I jammed one of the pieces up my nose.</p>
<p>Be honest in the comments below &#8211; Who&#8217;s rushing out to buy one as soon as they&#8217;re available?</p>
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		<title>How To Avoid Being A Victim, Anywhere, Any time.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 00:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter Shankman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was born and raised in Manhattan. As such, I have a built-in situational awareness barometer that helps keep me safe. It&#8217;s a sixth sense that city-kids have. We just &#8220;know&#8221; when things aren&#8217;t right. If we listen to our gut, we can stay out of trouble almost 100% of the time. However, I grew up in the 80s, when New York City didn&#8217;t have the same &#8220;Sex and the City&#8221; siren&#8217;s call that it has now. In the past ten years, I&#8217;ve seen more people come to NYC without a clue in their heads &#8211; Doing the most irresponsible stuff known to man (or woman.) Taking the subway home at 2am, drunk off their ass. Pulling out their $600 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was born and raised in Manhattan. As such, I have a built-in situational awareness barometer that helps keep me safe. It&#8217;s a sixth sense that city-kids have. We just &#8220;know&#8221; when things aren&#8217;t right. If we listen to our gut, we can stay out of trouble almost 100% of the time.</p>
<p>However, I grew up in the 80s, when New York City didn&#8217;t have the same &#8220;Sex and the City&#8221; siren&#8217;s call that it has now. In the past ten years, I&#8217;ve seen more people come to NYC without a clue in their heads &#8211; Doing the most irresponsible stuff known to man (or woman.) Taking the subway home at 2am, drunk off their ass. Pulling out their $600 iPhone on the A train at midnight. Lost in their iPad, reading away, completely oblivious to their surroundings, and the dangers that exist.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve wanted to write this post for a long, long time. If it helps one person, or prevents one mugging, (or something worse) it&#8217;s been totally worth it. I encourage you to Tweet it out, Facebook it, and pass it along to friends, family, and coworkers. There&#8217;s nothing worse than being a victim in a situation where you totally and completely didn&#8217;t have to. Sharing buttons are at the bottom for your convenience.</p>
<p>I want to thank <a href="http://www.twitter.com/tyfrancis">Ty Francis</a> (if you think a 6&#8217;1&#8243; former head of security for some of Southampton&#8217;s toughest clubs doesn&#8217;t have any good safety tips, think again) as well as retired Law Enforcement Officer Clement Tang for their most valuable tips that have made this article as helpful as it is.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m breaking this article down into different sections, but know this &#8211; There&#8217;s not one section in here that <em>can&#8217;t</em> help you. Read it. Please. If we can prevent one more NY Post Headline that screams about how a young woman left a bar at 3am and wound up dead, we couldn&#8217;t ask for anything better from this article below.</p>
<p><strong>General Safety Tips you should always follow, whether you live in a big city or a small town.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Don’t develop a pattern of behavior</strong>.</p>
<ul>
<li>A pattern is what allows bad guys to plan an attack or ambush. It allows  them to track your comings and goings. So they can plan when they can  safely break into your apartment.</li>
<li>Vary the times you come and go.</li>
<li>Vary your routes to work, school, gym and coffeehouse</li>
<li>Ever notice that when President Obama goes for a run, or even travels anywhere, he never goes the same route twice? There&#8217;s a very logical reason for that. Patterns can get you in trouble. Don&#8217;t have them.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Know your surroundings</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Beware of what is <em>normal</em> in your neighborhood…or anyplace you frequent.</li>
<li>Is that a new car on the street?</li>
<li>Have those guys always hung out on that corner?</li>
<li>Knowing what is normal allows you to notice the changes.  Noticing changes makes you more aware of potential dangers.  Those changes will cue you as to when something unexpected might be about to happen</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>We have a &#8220;gut&#8221; for a reason. 99.9% of the time, going against it is bad form.</strong></p>
<p>The number one clue that something isn&#8217;t right will more than likely come from inside of you. Your gut &#8211; That &#8220;something doesn&#8217;t seem ok here&#8221; feeling you get in your stomach. <strong>Don&#8217;t ignore it!</strong> There&#8217;s a reason we have those feelings. They&#8217;re ingrained from primal instincts, from millions of years ago, when we&#8217;d turn around and find a Tyrannosaurus Rex walking behind us, sizing us up for lunch.  <strong>DO NOT IGNORE YOUR GUT. </strong>If something doesn&#8217;t seem right, it probably isn&#8217;t. Trust your gut. You have it for a reason.</p>
<p><strong>Situational Awareness is your best friend. Not using it turns your surroundings into your worst enemy.</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Yes, it&#8217;s fun to play Angry Birds on the subway. But don&#8217;t you think people are looking for those who are doing exactly that? If you&#8217;re busy throwing birds at pigs, or landing planes, or even reading a book on your device, the following things are happening:<img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-4141 alignleft" title="angry-birds" src="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//angry-birds-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></li>
<li>You&#8217;re focused almost entirely on whatever you&#8217;re doing, and not on your surroundings.</li>
<li>You&#8217;re not holding onto your device with any level of strength &#8211; Rather, you&#8217;re just resting it on your hands. You can&#8217;t fling birds or turn pages if you&#8217;re grasping onto a device, so you don&#8217;t do it. Instead, you just rest it there, just waiting for someone to grab it and run off the train at the next open stop.</li>
<li>This isn&#8217;t limited to transportation. Using your phone while walking down the street is just as bad &#8211; It&#8217;s so easy for someone going the other way to focus on your device, grab it, and be in a running start while you&#8217;re still like &#8220;What the hell just happened?&#8221; The thief is already ten feet away <em>and running</em> by the time you turn around and even realize what&#8217;s going on. Good luck catching up and getting your device back.</li>
<li>In the end, I know we&#8217;re not going to stop using our devices in public places. That would defeat the entire purpose of the device. What we <em>can</em> do, though, is at least be more aware of our surroundings when we do it. Can we look up for a second after every level and just assess our situation? That&#8217;s not that hard to do.</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>Have your keys in your hands</strong></p>
<p>Whether going to your car, work or apartment, have your keys in your hand before you approach the door. This allows you quicker access through the door and avoids the major distraction of fumbling for keys as you reach the door. An attack is most likely to occur when you stop at a door and try to find your keys.  Your head will be down and you will neither be looking around or listen for unusual sounds (like steps coming your way).  Attacking a victim at this time also has the advantage of gaining access to whatever you were about to enter. Also, being hit with a large set of keys can often discourage an attack and holding the keys between your fingers and punching someone with them can make them very unhappy.</p>
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<p><strong>Small things we should all do, but rarely do.<br />
</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Wherever you are, a small powerful flashlight is one of the most important things you can have.  Even with something as innocent as a power outage, think of all the places you’ll be on any given day that have no outside windows to let in light…hallways, stairs, elevators.  A flashlight will always allow you to find your way to a safer place.</li>
<li>In that same vein, don’t fall into the movie plot setup of investigating noises in the dark…that is why you have a cell phone and know how to call 911 (or just walk away)</li>
<li>A whistle or other noisemaker is your friend. Attach a small whistle onto your keychain. There. Now it&#8217;s always there. Do NOT be afraid to use it to attract attention.</li>
<li>Instead of yelling &#8220;HELP&#8221; when something goes wrong, yell &#8220;FIRE!&#8221; <a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Win-a-Street-Fight" target="_blank">People are more likely to respond to &#8220;Fire&#8221; than to &#8220;help.&#8221;</a></li>
</ul>
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<p><strong>Have a buddy system</strong></p>
<p>This doesn’t mean you always have to take a buddy when you go somewhere.  It means letting someone know when you are doing something different or going someplace you haven’t been before… Also, when you plan to return.  It doesn’t mean where to start looking for the body when you are kidnapped (although it does help), but it can be very useful if should you be stranded or injured in an area that doesn’t have cell coverage. You think it&#8217;s an exaggeration? Some very logical examples that could easily happen to you</p>
<ul>
<li>You leave work late one night, and get stuck in the elevator, long after everyone else has gone home.</li>
<li>You fall asleep on the subway and wake up lost (or worse, in the yards. I&#8217;ve seen it happen.)</li>
<li>You get in a car wreck and skid off the road, down a 200 foot hill into a ravine, hidden from sight of the road.</li>
<li>You get sick. Your appendix bursts. You hit your head. You name it.</li>
</ul>
<p>Know the people in your neighborhood. When I&#8217;m walking to the gym in the dark at 5am, there&#8217;s a homeless man on the corner of 46th Street. I bring him a cup of coffee each morning. In turn, he keeps an eye on me in the dark. It&#8217;s a good trade. Do you know the people in your neighborhood? Can you call for them if you&#8217;re running away from trouble?</p>
<p><strong>Don’t look like a Victim </strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Victims of violent crimes like a mugging or robbery call attention to themselves by either being oblivious to their surroundings (defenseless) or by looking helpless (unable to defend themselves).</li>
<li>Walk down a street with your head up and looking around.  Don’t hug either side of the sidewalk…especially not the inside where you have to pass close to doorways. For God&#8217;s sake, don&#8217;t text and walk at the same time. You&#8217;re screaming out &#8220;ROB ME!&#8221;</li>
<li>Don’t stare (it can be taken as a challenge) but don’t be afraid to look at people (it isn’t an elevator).  You can nod or smile if you’d like, but beware of offering an unintended invitation.</li>
</ul>
<p>At the end of the day, personal security and situational awareness comes down to not being clueless. I encourage you all to not be clueless.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t be clueless</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Yes, it is a wonderful new world out there to explore.  But try to pay attention to the unusual when out walking.</li>
<li>Has that person been behind you for a while?</li>
<li>Do they stop when you stop and continue when you do?</li>
<li>Do they look away when you turn to look at them?</li>
<li>The easiest thing to do is go into a public place, like a coffee shop or an eatery, and have a seat…if they stop too, you might consider calling 911 and have them check out your stalker.</li>
<li>The worst thing to do is continue on your way is it takes you to a less traveled area…if you can’t stop; take a longer but busier route.</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear your tips, as well. Please post them in the comments below.</p>
<p>Stay sharp, stay aware, and stay safe, my friends.</p>
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		<title>Be it Coffee, Cocaine, or Cardio &#8211; Are We All Just Addicts?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter Shankman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This isn&#8217;t a social media or marketing post. If you&#8217;re looking for that, check back in a few days, I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll have something for you. This is a personal post. You ever meet someone at the gym who does nothing but Cardio? Daily? Like, every single day, you show up at the gym, and they&#8217;re on the bike or the stairmaster, biking or climbing to some invisible goal known only to them? What&#8217;s the difference between them, and the person who smokes two packs a day, other than the former has much better lung capacity than the latter? I submit, not much difference at all. I say we&#8217;re all slaves to some addiction, whether we call it an addiction [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This isn&#8217;t a social media or marketing post. If you&#8217;re looking for that, check back in a few days, I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll have something for you. This is a personal post.</p>
<p>You ever meet someone at the gym who does nothing but Cardio? Daily? Like, every single day, you show up at the gym, and they&#8217;re on the bike or the stairmaster, biking or climbing to some invisible goal known only to them? What&#8217;s the difference between them, and the person who smokes two packs a day, other than the former has much better lung capacity than the latter?</p>
<p>I submit, not much difference at all. I say we&#8217;re all slaves to some addiction, whether we call it an addiction or not, whether the government classifies it as a <a href="http://www.deadiversion.usdoj.gov/schedules/index.html" target="_blank">schedule one drug</a>, or just someone with the appropriate <a href="http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/" target="_blank">BMI</a>. to our height. We&#8217;re all addicts.</p>
<p>I wanted a drink tonight. No real reason, I just felt like having a drink to take the edge off. But, if you&#8217;ve been following my <a href="http://www.ayeartotenpercent.com" target="_blank">other blog</a>, you know I&#8217;m in the middle of a <a href="http://ayeartotenpercent.com/category/12-day-protein-diet/" target="_blank">12-day protein-only diet</a>. Of course, alcohol is banned from said diet. So I can&#8217;t drink. And that&#8217;s fine. I didn&#8217;t break my diet, nor did I go and inhale a pizza. Instead, I went out for a walk, and stopped by Dunkin Donuts for a large black coffee. As I walked through my city, I sipped my coffee, letting one addiction take the place of another.</p>
<p>Am I an alcoholic? Of course not. Nor am I a coffee addict. But, I <em>needed something.</em> Some sort of fix, something to put in my system and make me feel ok. Does that make me an addict of some sort? I believe it does. And for what it&#8217;s worth, I believe we&#8217;re all the same in that regard. We all need something to make us feel &#8220;whole,&#8221; when the need arises.</p>
<p>For me, tonight, it was coffee and a long walk. Healthy? Of course. Healthier than two shots and a burger? No doubt. But now, as I sit at a friend&#8217;s house, typing madly on his computer, a nice glaze of sweat under my shirt from my long walk, I feel the caffeine from the coffee, and the endorphins from the walk kicking in. And I feel good. I feel&#8230; Well, there is no better way to say it. I feel &#8220;good.&#8221; I feel like I&#8217;d feel had I just done two shots with a friend at a local bar.</p>
<p>While one is healthier than the other, I find it interesting that they&#8217;re essentially, psychologically, no different. Physically, of course they are, and that&#8217;s why we don&#8217;t label people who drink coffee and work out as &#8220;addicts.&#8221; It&#8217;s socially acceptable to walk (hell, it&#8217;s even promoted by the government) and it&#8217;s &#8220;ok&#8221; to drink coffee.</p>
<p>So where&#8217;s the problem? Perhaps the problem is in the fact that we&#8217;re not good at realizing that, even though we could be totally healthy in our pursuits of a better body, or in our calorie counts, we&#8217;re no more than one or two steps away from the negative cycle path of addiction &#8211; i.e., sitting at the bar, lighting a cigarette, or doing something worse &#8211; because deep down, we all want to feel &#8220;whole.&#8221;</p>
<p>So how do we keep ourselves on the &#8220;good&#8221; side of addiction? I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s possible. I don&#8217;t know if any &#8220;addiction&#8221; is good for us &#8211; Sure, physically, the training I do for my Ironman is considered &#8220;healthy&#8221; (if not insane,) but why am I doing it? To prove to myself that I can, sure. But I also do it for the high &#8211; the high I get from finishing, the high I get from accomplishment, the mental and most definitely physical high I get from completion &#8211; when every muscle hurts, but I cross the finish line. My question is simple: How is being addicted to that any better psychologically than being addicted to drinking or drugs?</p>
<div id="attachment_4030" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4030" title="comparison" src="http://shankman.com/wp-content/uploads//comparison-300x171.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="171" /><p class="wp-caption-text">What&#39;s the real difference?</p></div>
<p>Now look, I&#8217;ve never thought of myself as an addict of any kind. I&#8217;ve never been in rehab, and I&#8217;m not a doctor. So please don&#8217;t come down on me with the standard comments of &#8220;Oh, you don&#8217;t know, it&#8217;s totally different,&#8221; etc. I don&#8217;t know the difference. But I do know that the high I have right now from my walk and coffee, the high that&#8217;s propelling me to write this blog post at 100 miles per hour, is no different than how I felt last Wednesday night, when I met my fiancee and some friends for drinks at a local bar.</p>
<p>So I guess the purpose of this post is this &#8211; Whether it be cardio, cigarettes, booze, or something else&#8230; Am I an addict? Is there a certain type of person prone to addiction, and I&#8217;m one of them? Are there people who are just able to &#8220;always&#8221; feel good, without any needed outside influences? As far as I can tell, humans aren&#8217;t capable of being like that. I&#8217;ve never met one. Perhaps I&#8217;m not looking hard enough. Hell, it could even be work &#8211; Ever hear of a workaholic? The only beings on this earth I&#8217;ve seen who don&#8217;t need that are animals. A dog doesn&#8217;t come home from the park and say &#8220;Wow, that was a hard day of chasing squirrels, I need a drink.&#8221; My cat has never looked at me and said &#8220;My sister is driving me crazy, I&#8217;m going to the gym.&#8221; What is it about humans that makes us different?</p>
<p>And I guess lastly&#8230; I guess I&#8217;m lucky that my addictions tend towards the &#8220;benign&#8221; side &#8211; coffee, cardio, Ironman races, etc. But I wonder &#8211; Is that just upbringing? If I&#8217;d been exposed to other things at an earlier age, would I be on the flip-side of that? The side that&#8217;s looked down upon by society? And what really differentiates those on the &#8220;benign side&#8221; with those on the other side? In the end, whether it&#8217;s affection, drugs, sweat, or paperwork&#8230; Aren&#8217;t we all addicted to something?</p>
<p>As always, would love your comments.</p>
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