PETER SHANKMAN

Follow Friday: “People who PISS ME OFF” Edition

This Follow Friday is inspired by, and dedicated to, all the people who piss me off – IN A GOOD WAY. There’s something about them that encourages me, causes me to work harder, run faster, live better, face down my fears, and/or believe in myself when I’m afraid I can’t.

They’re like the trainer who you hope you don’t get, because you know he or she is gonna kick your ass, but you’re so happy after the workout is over, because you’ve DONE IT.

They’re like the hard teacher who busts your ass until the last day, when he tell you he’s proud of you, and you realize it was all worth it.

They piss you off because they move you out of your comfort zone. I wholeheartedly recommend you follow every single person on this list.

So to those on this list, you piss me off. Thank you for that.

@clayman – Greg Clayman publishes The Daily, the iPad-only newspaper, part of Rupert Murdoch’s empire. Greg and I met when he was the head of Upoc, an early predecessor to Twitter. I’ve always admired his work ethic, his ability to know what’s going on before it happens, and his networking prowess. You think I talk to everyone? You should meet Greg.

@flyingwithfish and @johnnyjet – Steve Frischling and John Discala are two of the few people I know who travel more than I do. Whenever I get into a rut, I tend to read their tweets to remind myself that for as much as I’ve traveled, there’s still a whole world out there that I have yet to explore, and that gets me right bcd out of it.

@avflox – Anaiis Flox was a no-brainer-whatsoever add to this list. She’s a truly gifted writer, who writes predominately about sex and sexuality for several major outlets. I’ve met her several times. She’s a classic enigma. I love reading her, in the same way we all secretly love reading “Fleshbot,” and never tell anyone. Anaiis makes it on to this list because she reminds me to never be afraid to speak your mind about that which you’re passionate, even if other people are afraid to, or if it offends social norms. The worst part? She usually shows up in my stream as I’m sitting on a plane with an old proper woman as my seatmate, requiring me to force quit Tweetdeck lest I get a “talking to” for the entire flight. And of course, that pisses me off.

@insidehoops – I went to high school with Jeff Lechiner, and we were both sort of oddballs. Now, Jeff runs Inside Hoops, one of the top Basketball sites on the web. He works from anywhere, landing wherever he happens to be to publish. He’s another one who reminds me that a rut is just temporary, if I happen to be in one. And I’m not even that much of a basketball fan!

@nycswim @nyrr @crossfitjournal @trinityboxing, nyrrmaryruns, paulajradcliffe @usatriathlon – These should all be self-explanatory. When you need motivation to not eat that fourth slice of pizza, read these guys. They piss me off because I want that fourth slice of pizza, and I don’t have it.

@bfas reminds me to take a few seconds out of every day and do something good for someone else, whether a person, place, or animal.

@garyvee @chrisbrogan @unmarketing @jasonkeath @thebrandbuilder @samewen – These guys, all of whom I respect and admire, piss me the hell off. They constantly remind me that no matter how good we are, we’re all just one step away from humility. They’re so good at what they do that they keep me humble, because we do the same thing. They’re my yardsticks. We should all have yardsticks, both personal and professional, that tell us a) not to believe our own hype, and b) to constantly be upping our game.

@vocuschairman and @SaasCMO – Rick Rudman, CEO of Vocus, and Bill Wagner, CMO of Vocus, constantly pound one rule into my head: It ain’t about “Cool.” It’s about “Revenue.” I preach that as well. Their tweets keep me grounded when my feet lift just a little too high from the floor.

@joefernandez – Joe Fernandez is the CEO and Cofounder of Klout. Read his Twitter bio. We should all be trying to do that.

@ArmyGK – The Army Golden Knights Parachute Team reminds me that no one can do it alone. We’re all responsible for our own actions, but when you work with others, and you’re all professional, you can achieve greatness every day.

Finally, @breakingnews (who I’m sure you all follow already) reminds us that it’s not always about us. It’s about all of us as a collective. We should never forget that.

Tell me who I’m missing? Who pisses you off in the same way? Let me know, and I’ll try and include them in the next edition.

July 8th, 2011 08:35 AM
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Peter,

Thanks, as always, for your kind words and support of our mission. We won’t reach a time of No More Homeless Pets without great supporters like you.

Jon Dunn
Best Friends Animal Society
@BFAS

July 8th, 2011 09:32 AM
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I’ll be sure to piss you off more often. ;)

July 8th, 2011 10:07 AM
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I really need to up my birthday shenanigans for you.

July 8th, 2011 10:31 AM
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Nice! I’m glad I piss someone off

July 8th, 2011 11:22 AM
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I like your viewpoint Peter. When I come hope b*itching about a disagreement I’ve had with a friend, my boyfriened sometimes doesn’t understand why I keep company with them. I choose their company because they do not always agree with me, I think we all need others who will offer another opinion, tell us when we are wrong and challenge us to improve. Those ‘bobble-head’ friends will just re-enforce your bad decisions.

July 8th, 2011 11:54 AM
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YOU piss me off, Peter! What an inspiration you are! Keep up the good work. I share your writings all the time with people.

July 8th, 2011 03:19 PM
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Hello, Peter,

Seth Godin pisses me off every day with his blog. It is why his blog is the home page for my all of my Internet browsers. Doing so forces me to read him every day, get pissed off, and then get inspired/ reach higher/ try harder.

July 8th, 2011 05:17 PM
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I second Timothy Yee’s vote for Seth Godin. They he doesn’t really piss me off because he is consistently (and often cleverly) positive. A great way to start the day!

July 8th, 2011 05:55 PM
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Ok, that is a great post. I think I need to follow some of these people who piss you off…maybe they will piss me off too! =)

July 8th, 2011 07:13 PM
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I agree with Lara; you piss me off, Peter! It would be so nice to think of you as some kind of super-human, but you tell us things like how you don’t actually want to work out at 5 AM all the time but you do it anyway, or how you don’t eat four slices of pizza even when you want to, or even how you backslid with your AYTTP for a few weeks… but you got yourself back on track… and if you can do it, why can’t I?

Every morning when my alarm goes off at 6 (I used to have to drag myself out of bed at 7:30 until a few weeks ago), so I can go do this thing you call running (which I always swore I would hate but actually kinda don’t) you piss me off because I know you got out of bed so I have to do it to. You’ve shown me that the only way to be better is to just be better. Nobody is super-human; some people just have more self-discipline than others because they put their minds to their task and decide that they can do it. Thanks for the inspiration, and thanks for being real.

(And by the way, awesome post.)

July 8th, 2011 09:27 PM
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Ditto Lara on this part:
Every morning when my alarm goes off at 6 …
I am getting up ealrier because of you & by the time Alexander gets up, I am halfway done with my workout. When I am done, I can make him breakfast, b/c Edward is usually still asleep (that’s a whole other rant!).

I really miss you & wish that you would visit!

July 8th, 2011 10:22 PM
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You are awesome, but so is Jane Friedman. @janefriedman She’s a great addition to this list…

July 9th, 2011 07:34 AM
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Yes, sometimes you piss me off!! Awesome!!

July 10th, 2011 12:10 PM
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Thanks for the kind inclusion Peter. Honored to be listed by someone I look to for business insights.

July 10th, 2011 06:03 PM
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Thanks, Peter, for introducing me to some inspiring new ‘friends’ to follow and learn from! I hope they piss me off just as much as they did you ;)

July 11th, 2011 08:10 PM
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I just used your blog for my “Professional Writing-Blog Analysis” for ENG 311! I plan to follow more often…Thanks Mr. Shankman!

Jordan

July 11th, 2011 08:55 PM
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Classic post, and I’ve always admired the fact you have no problem speaking your mind about matters. Pissing people off means you’ve inspired them to think and hopefully, take action in their life..

July 11th, 2011 10:33 PM
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Sounds to me like you are one lucky pissed off bastard for having so many people in your life to keep you both motivated and grounded. I’m sure you have pissed off one or two folks yourself. ;)

July 22nd, 2011 07:46 PM
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Well then Seth Godin also pisses me off….as does Mitch Joel.

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