PETER SHANKMAN

How to Get Paid What You’re Worth

One of my biggest problems is figuring out how much to charge, whether it be for speaking, consulting, or any of my services. I suspect a lot of us have that problem.

We don’t want to overcharge, lest we don’t get the client/gig/project, but then, we don’t want to undercharge, hating ourselves while we’re doing it, knowing that the client would have easily paid more. I used to err on the side of undercharging, and I hated myself for it. I still do, sometimes.

It’s frustrating. I’ve seen it happen out of business situations, as well – Paying six dollars for that trinket in Thailand, knowing that I probably could have negotiated my way down to four. It’s really a pain in the ass, huh?

So how do you make sure to get the right price, whether you’re selling your services, or buying a trinket in some exotic foreign land?

Here are my suggestions for making sure you get paid (or pay) what you’re (it’s) worth:

1) First and foremost: You can always come down in price. You can NEVER go up. If the client wants you, they’ll counter with their offer. In many cultures, the first offer is the opening to let you know that they’re interested – If you accept it, you’re looked way, way down upon. You can always come down from your initial price quote – but I don’t remember the last time you could go up: “OK, We accept your $15,000 keynote fee.” “Yeah, well, I’d now like to charge you $20,000.” Not gonna happen. You can always come down. You can never go back up.

2) How much is your time worth? I’m not going to get into my rant of a few months ago as to why free is not the same as being taken advantage of, but I’ll just say this: How much is your time worth? Sit down and figure it out. Come up with your budget, and if you want to find out how much your time is worth, simply divide your budget by the number of hours you want to work. That’s your starting/break-even point. From then, simply figure out how much more you want to make to decide your profit-level. This takes constant re-jiggering, and changes client by client. But it’s a good start.

3) Sometimes, taking a job for a little less will actually net you a lot more. If I’m keynoting a conference that has tons of other people who choose keynotes for conferences, you know that I’m going to charge a bit less. Why? Because I want to guarantee I get the gig, and then wow 300/500/1000 potential other gig-hiring people with my greatness on stage. This has worked for me countless times – It’s an awesome way to make sure you get the gig – But don’t undercharge by too much. Ten percent will usually do it. And the calculation is easy: If you make enough money on the gigs you pick up from discounting by 10%, there’s your calculation. It’s a win.

4) Finally, you’re worth as much as you believe yourself to be worth. Many friends have asked me how I made the leap from speaking for free to getting paid to do it. Simple: I asked to be paid. Granted, I started out at a very small percentage of what I make now, but you’ve gotta start somewhere. Simply ask. You’d be amazed what comes from asking. Just starting to make that leap? Try this:

“Hey, can you speak at our seminar next month? You’d be perfect for us!”
“Thanks so much for asking, I’d love to! My speaking fee is $1,000. Since it’s in town, there’s no need to include travel or any other costs, so it’d be a flat $1k.”
“Well, I don’t know if we can afford that, I’d have to ask the board.”
“OK, you ask them – I’ll be here – Hope we can make this work. Thanks again for thinking of me!”

Yes, it’s scary to do. But it’s necessary, and more often than not, they’re going to come back to you with a “Yes.”

Look at it this way: Chances are, someone is making money from the conference at which you’ve been asked to speak. If that’s the case, doesn’t it seem a bit unfair that it’s not you, since you’re the one people are paying to see?

Any other tips for getting paid what you’re worth? Leave them in the comments for all to see!

Written on a Macbook Air on the MTA N Downtown local train, between 57th Street and 8th Street. Written in Ommwriter, and copied to WordPress.

  • http://www.rachelrodgerslaw.com Rachel Rodgers

    What service professional doesn’t struggle with this? I do think dropping your price can be a problem, too. Mainly because it makes your services come across as lousy. I remember asking a personal trainer his fees. The fee was reasonable but I wasn’t ready to commit so I told him I would get back to him in a few weeks. He immediately dropped his price by $100 and immediately I no longer wanted to work with him. The fact that he was quick to drop his price made me feel like his services weren’t worth any of my money.

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  • Leanna

    Stop talking after you’ve said your fee, otherwise you’ll just talk yourself right out of it. Sometimes I use that on people if I want to pay less. I don’t say anything after they’ve said their fee, and then they get nervous trying to fill the silence and start saying “well, but I could do this price, or maybe we could lower it, I’m will to work with you on the fee…” If they would just be quiet, and they have something I want, I’m most likely going to pay the first fee they quote me.

  • http://www.orvilleparker.com Orville Parker

    Hi Peter,

    I think this is something a lot of us wrestle with from time to time. I know in 2010 this was one of the challenges I had in my business.

    However, by the end of the year I had developed the mindset that I believe me to view my value in the proper way. So now, I am committed to only getting paid what I feel I am worth.

    However, from time to time I might to decide to do a project that pays me less than I think I should get paid, in order to position myself to profit higher on the back end.

  • Stephanie Cockerl

    What a great post to start the new year. When it comes to pricing and quotes people are hesitant. I already pitched a couple of companies and I found that if I’m direct instead of dancing around, it can save time and anxiety on both sides.
    Also as a native New Yorker, I can appreciate that this post was written on the train.

  • Face book friend

    I’m not ever shy about asking high.  Especially as a musician, people assume our fees are just going towards booze.  But I ask for food/booze too!  And I stand firm on the fees. I charge according to the time it takes me to rehearse, prepare, travel and look the part, not just the time I spend on stage.  I make sure I’m paid for every second of my show!

  • http://www.mightaswelldance.com Judson Laipply

    Great post Peter. It is always a fine line to walk trying to be affordable enough that people can pay you but high enough to get what you are worth. One other factor is to know who else is in your field and what they charge. While negotiations area always part of the game you at least have to be at a reasonable price to be considered “professional”. If you are getting eye surgery do you really want to go to the place that offers a discount? Some things are worth paying for and my bet that one of them is having you keynote.

  • http://www.oldmaidcatlady.com Lynn Thompson

    Excellent, excellent advice! And quite timely for me, as one of my goals this year is to ramp up my speaking business. The comments are also good. “Shutting up” is a sales technique we learned in selling yellow pages advertising, another intangible. What I learned in that experience has served me well in marketing my writing, editing and speaking services.

    Back when I used to speak for free, I got one gig just from listing “Speaker” along with “Author” and “Editor” on my business card. Although the speech was unpaid, it resulted in a ghostwriting client from whom I’ve made over $10k (and who’s now one of my biggest promoters). Worth it? You betcha!

    Another technique I use when marketing my writing services is never to refer to myself as a “freelance” writer. In addition to having the word “free” in it, I think a lot of people equate freelancing with “moonlighting”, implying that someone has a paying job and it’s something they do on the side. To emphasize my years of experience, marketing background, specialized training, and the fact that I do this full time as my profession, I always refer to myself as a “professional” writer.

    I’ve also read that one way to prepare for the objection of “we can’t afford to pay you your usual fee” is to make a list of other things that are worth an equivalent amount of money. They may include guaranteed book sales at the event, advertising, or referrals to other paid gigs. Use those as negotiating chips with groups that sincerely don’t have the budget for your usual fee, but only after you’ve stood firm at first and then had them return to you to say they just can’t afford you.

  • http://Blog.InfoAdvisors.com Karen Lopez

    Jerry Weinberg in Secrets of Consulting says, “set your fee so that you are happy either way”. Best advice i’ve used. I have a friend who thinks she has ton”win” every contract she is offered. I’ve seen her accept the tiniest of rates, even when the work is not worth it. It means she has to turn down other better offers, too.

  • http://www.betterthandieting.net Bonnie Taub-Dix

    And don’t negotiate against yourself: Ask them what they are offering before you give a fee. They may offer more than you were going to propose — and if not, then a negotiation may follow. Thx for your story — common sense and confirmation! Twitter: @eatsmartbd

  • http://www.WebBusinessFreedom.com Brandon Uttley

    Starting off at a premium price is absolutely a great practice. In doing so, you should be prepared to turn down about 80% of what other people are willing to take, and hold out for those willing to pay what you charge. Attitude is everything in getting paid what you’re worth.

  • http://flurrycreations.com/theblog John

    Peter, One solid reason is that you will eliminate a lot of grief. If you are the cheapest gig around you will find that you will attract cheap clients that will also try to suck everything out of you for the cheap price you charged. A lot of respect comes with charging a price you believe you are worth and then delivering a remarkable service. You may ose a whole slew of clients that don’t want to pay for it but you will gain the ones that will respect you as well as spread the word around about you.

  • http://www.davesaunders.net/blog Dave Saunders

    This is consistently one of my biggest challenges. Over time I’ve learned through experience that the real trick is to simply ask for higher fees. If you know you’re worth it, you don’t need to use formulas to justify it.

  • http://www.merchant911.org Tom Mahoney

    Darren LaCroix offers what I think is an excellent way to open negotiations, especially with non-profits and others that you feel are not going to be able to pay your full fee. Open with something like, “My regular fee would blow you away; what is your budget – maybe we can work something out?”

    Bonnie’s suggestion is similar and the opening might work with anyone.

  • http://www.ConverseDigital.com Tom Martin

    Peter,

    You’re right on the mark here…. read a book one time about a guy who started a very profitable agency that now charges $1MM as a MINIMUM on any project.

    He said the hardest thing he ever had to learn how to do was after hearing about a project scope, he had to write a big number on a piece of paper, push it across the table and then not blink.

    Guessing it was the not blinking part that we have the most difficulty with….but it’s certainly a skill we should all work on don’t you think?
    @TomMartin

  • http://www.sheilasguide.com Sheila Scarborough

    As a relatively new entrepreneur with zero business background, I find pricing to be an ongoing challenge. When I was in the military, I knew everyone else’s pay scale/salary, so it makes me crazy to have to figure out what the market will bear because I’ve discovered that civilians won’t talk salaries/benefits. :)

    It helps a lot to know that other, much more experienced people, struggle with pricing, too.

    I’ve sat down before and calculated what I need to make to achieve my budget’s goals, but it’s been awhile and I way under-calculated taxes and the need to continue funding a retirement amount. Thanks to this post, I re-did my numbers and stuck them up on the wall above my desk, to remind me.

  • http://www.bellybuttonboutique.com Karla T

    I usually have a proposal detailing what I am offering for the fee. That way if they want to look at someone else they have an apples to apples comparison. I know that when I consult its time away from my own business and/or my family, so if they turn it down, there is no hard feelings…I have yet to hear a no.

    @BButtonBoutique

  • http://www.jjamesonline.com Jennifer James

    It’s so important to be confident enough to walk away from gigs that don’t pay what you’re worth. At first you can take lower paying jobs because you’re making a name for yourself, but once you’re out there and really on your feet, toss that mentality out the window and get choosy.

    Great post!

  • http://www.themebig.com Adam Baird

    Great stuff here. I definitely agree with Brandon about starting off at a premium price. It will be difficult to get business at first, but its not nearly as difficult as trying to explain to clients why you’ve raised prices later. Also, any referrals your clients send your way may expect to get the same low rates as your clients if you start low.

  • Jen Brentano

    Perfect timing – well, almost. A day late. I got this call yesterday. I haven’t charged yet for speaking and I keep committing to making the leap and I’ve had a handful of people even OFFER to pay me and I turn it down or talk out of it. I have a note on my wall in front of me now reminding me that I do charge because I can always go down if I desire.

    Thanks for the words!!

  • http://www.mominthecity.com Kimberly/Mom in the City

    I realized that companies were much more willing to pay me for consulting on mom marketing once they knew my “pre-mom” corporate background (Consumer Investment Banking). Now, I always mention it in negotiations. (Although in reality, actually BEING a mom has provided me with much more insight on reaching the market than a gazillion hours of research in a SSB cubicle….) It is what it is!

  • http://www.mcgrawmarketing.com Pat McGraw

    Great post. As a consultant, I assume that 50% of my time will be billable and I know I need to use that non-billable time to generate new opportunities with current and/or prospective clients. That helps me avoid discounting because it is not a wise investment of my most precious resource-time!

  • http://www.tianobookdesign.com Stephen Tiano

    When I began as a freelance book designer 18 years ago, the temptation was enormous to take any work at any price. And I did take some low-paying work to get started. Then I came upon the admittedly counterintuitive-sounding notion that I’d get more work (and certainly more of the kind of work I want) by upping my rates.

    You know what? It’s true. I chalk it up to the fact that, in our culture, we tend not to value inexpensive things. And the othe things that are an outgrowth of higher rates–needing fewer jobs to earn a decent living, having more open time for when other good-paying projects come along, and being taken a little more seriously by potential clients–all proved worth the nervousness at learning to turn down projects that paid poorly.

  • http://matthewm.org Matt

    Love this post!

    #1 is absolutely critical – especially in the digital media market. I’ve lost deals due to high price – but when I capture a “YES” right out of the gate – it hurts even more.

    I’m not out to make gobs of money of clients – but it’s nice to know that you’re going to get paid for something that is going to really rock their world. More importantly, deliver the results they are looking for by investing in you.

  • http://www.kidlutions.com Wendy Young, LMSW, BCD

    Timely piece! I was just discussing this very issue with @Louiseasl yesterday.

    I am a firm believer that we should never sell ourselves short. We need to place a value on what we bring to the table. If we don’t believe we are worth it, why would anyone else?

    I have chosen to walk away from several gigs, because I recognize that in selling myself short and taking a lower paying gig, I am not free to take the gigs that could come along that are more in line with what I am worth.

    I once walked because the hiring director felt my fees were WAY out of line. I held my head high, smiled and thanked her for the consideration. Never once did I consider backing down. Two years later, another director was hired and she contacted me to ask me to consult. Five years later, I am still with that company as a consultant.

    We’re only worth as much as we believe we are!

    Wendy @Kidlutions

  • http://www.kidlutions.com Wendy Young/ Kidlutions

    Timely piece! I was just talking with @Louiseasl about this very topic yesterday!

    We’re only worth as much as we believe ourselves to be worth.

    Never sell yourself short.

    I once walked from a deal because the hiring person thought my fees were WAY out of line. I smiled, thanked her for her consideration and walked away. Never once did I consider waivering on the price. Two years later, a new director was hired. She contacted me, asking me to provide consultation services. I’ve been with that company as a consultant now for over 5 years.

    If you are a professional, your time, experience and knowledge should be respected by fair pay. When is the last time you walked into a doctor’s or dentist’s office and tried to negotiate the cost of a root canal or an immunization? Doesn’t happen.

    Wendy @Kidlutions

  • Cari

    Taking a cue from what sales guys have learned about the power of the written word, a nicely-formatted rate card can add tremendous authority to your verbal offer.

    A rate card is also a good place to spell out terms and conditions – start-up/up-front fees, how third-party billables are handled (marked up or not),payment terms (have a credit application handy for them), NDAs, etc. Use plain English, but be businesslike and set expectations.

    Your time to aqcuire new business is valuable – reward committment with a discount, but set the bar high on the level of committment needed to obtain exclusivity.

  • http://eatwellwithjanelblog.com Janel

    Excellent post and something I always have to remind myself. How do you deal with charging different clients different speaking rates – or don’t you? I feel like I’m always stabbing in the dark.

  • http://garaughty.com marti garaughty

    @John re “If you are the cheapest gig around you will find that you will attract cheap clients that will also try to suck everything out”…

    Exaclty! How many of us have learned this the hard way? Being the cheapest game in town usually invites more problems than they’re worth along with very low quality clients.

  • http://www.writetoincite.com Michele

    Terrific advice Peter. One of the challenges professional service providers face is realizing the value of a service that comes naturally for them. When your work is a natural extension of your core strengths and talents, it’s easy. And for me, I’ve had to get over the mentality that wonders, “How can I charge for this? It’s so easy!” It’s so important to realize that your expertise isn’t easy for everyone and that’s why there’s value in it.

  • http://www.pintofactory.com Stefan Pinto

    I think I love Leanna (comment #2)

  • http://about.me/jeffgoins Jeff Goins

    I like #1.

  • http://fabulouslyhealthyyou.com Stacey G

    I think consultants from all industries have come to realize, albeit painfully, that time is money. It took me a lot of trial and error to learn just how valuable my time was and which rate was worth my effort. Since factoring travel, effort, brain power, manual power into my work equation I now have two levels of pricing. Gold standard which is slightly negotiable and middle rate which is not. It has been working wonders for myself esteem and my clients are always impressed with what they get for their money. It’s a win-win!

  • Chris shaw

    This is very helpful but my main challenge is not moving into speaking engagements but how to transition from tangible deliverables (creative development, website development, branding, etc) to consulting. Right now, my clients basically get my good advice for free as a tag a long to their tangible services. This could be really detailed ideas on how they should position themselves within their industry, ancillary initiatives that would drive them business, PR ideas, etc.

    Do you have any advice on how to start charging for your up front ideas instead of giving them away as collateral on a potential future project?

  • http://jaxiwest.com Jaxi West

    Great article Peter – thank you! Very helpful. There are a few things you mentioned I never thought about.

    Brandon U. & John make great points as well.

  • http://www.WendyKurtz.com Wendy Kurtz

    Great post and comments! Reduction in price does not mean reduction in service quality, but depending on circumstances, you may want to consider reducing the services or benefits offered accordingly.

    For instance, when I work with my author and speaker clients on retainer, they have my private mobile number for after-hours access to me (it’s amazing how many will call on late at night or on a weekend just b/c they’ve just seen mention of their book on a blog or come off the stage after really nailing a presentation). I enjoy these calls, but they do interrupt family time or take me away from other activities so when a client wants a retainer lower than my normal starting fee, this is one of the benefits that is not included.

    Loved @Tom Mahoney’s “my normal fee would blow you away” option – may have to borrow that one ;)

    @Michelle – I struggled with the “so easy” part too, until a wise advisor reminded me that if it really was so easy, everyone would be doing it and not calling me asking for help.

  • http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-introverts-corner Sophia Dembling

    Great post on one of the big challenges of being an independent contractor.

    One of my favorite tips, and I wish I could remember who said it, is, “If they don’t gasp a little when you name your price, then you haven’t asked enough.” And, of course, you can go down from there if necessary.

  • http://kategardiner.com Kate Gardiner

    I’ve been reading up on this all over the place – apparently there are relatively few people who’ve leapt into freelancing social media for media companies in quite the way I have (hell, there are less than 1,000 people who do social strategy for newsrooms worldwide). I’m at a point where I’m wondering about economies of scale (lots of clients) versus focusing on one or two main clients…

  • http://greenandprofitable.com Shel Horowitz – GreenEthical Marketing Expert

    When someone doesn’t want to meet my fee, I ask what they can do for me instead. So later this month, for instance, I’m gong to speak at a conference on the other side of the country. They are paying airfare to San Francisco, comping me at the Ritz-Carlton for two nights, and not only providing a video of my talk, but two hours of video editing time, which should enable me to get a new speaker video (my old one is totally obsolete). Is it worth it for me to waive my speaking fee? You betcha.

  • http://www.greenfeet.com Valerie Reddemann

    Good tips Peter!
    I’ve found that by charging what my time is truly worth I produce better work. Why? Because I’m committed to the customer experience and want them to feel they got their money’s worth. It’s a win win.

    If you’re undercharging, you become less motivated and cranky and produce less than stellar work. Who wants that?

  • http://integratedSandT.com Dan Greenberg

    @Karen — spot on! Set the price so that you are equally happy with a “yes” or a “no.”

    @Sheila — My firm works with a lot of startup entrepreneurs, like you. Many struggle with pricing, both the amounts and the pricing structure. My advice is to start with your goal: do you want to build a huge business, go IPO, retire early? Or do you want a business that pays you a steady income and enables you to do something you love? Whatever you choose, start there and then you can make proper assumptions on structure to calculate amounts. And remember that all businesses have dips sometimes — always make sure that your pricing allows you to get through these without dropping price (or dipping into that retirement account). Why? If you drop price during a dip, you will not be able to restore prices when you get busy again!

  • http://www.thedowntoearthdoctor.com Thye Down to Earth doctor

    I speak on natural health and wellness. On several occasions when I’ve been offered less than my usual fee, I come back with “Oh that’s no problem, I can do it but for that price I won’t be able to include the copies of my award winning book that I was going to be giving away to the audience.” Many times they then agree to my fee!

  • http://www.zahnconsulting.com David Zahn

    A few comments –

    1)Great post and great insights shared. BRAVO, Peter.

    2) In relation to one of the posts: Karla T mentions two things that I see very differently. i NEVER want to give a client an “apples to apples” comparison opportunity. My mission is to show how I am NOT a commodity and what value I offer is not easily met by others. That she has not lost one yet points out that she is not charing enough.

    3) Chris Shaw – the approach I suggest is to establish a contract/proposal that spells out the parameters of the project. Then, if a “new” opportunity arises, you can “offer” to propose how you can meet the need as it is “out of scope” of the initial agreement, but you would be very willing to help with it as part of a new project.

    Having written two books on the subject (“The Quintessential Guide to Using Consultants” and:”How to Succeed as an Independent Consultant, 4th edition”), I have to say that the wisdom above from all of the posters is inspiring!

  • http://www.tianobookdesign.com Stephen Tiano

    Not that it’s ever a good idea to lower your rates … but you can raise or lower your prices anytime you please. Whether or not people will hire you at those rates will be up to them.

  • http://www.succeedspeaking.com Shawn Ellis

    I love #4, and especially this statement: “I asked to be paid.” I work with a lot of speakers who are just getting started and of course how to start getting paid is a big issue. ASK to be paid – brilliant! :-)

    It’s also good if you can save the price discussion until as late in the conversation as possible. Prior to that, find out exactly what the client’s needs are/what their “pain” is (beyond just “I need a speaker/consultant/etc.”) and then you’ll be set up to outline the benefits you offer, which will help to justify your fee. If I say, “My fee is $10,000″ with no context, then my fee might sound high and you might just say “no” without giving me a chance. If I say “My fee is $10,000″ after I’ve just explained how much time and energy I’m going to invest in the project and what kind of results you can expect by engaging me, it changes the conversation a bit.

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  • http://howtoloveyourreflection.com Dianne M. Daniels

    Great article – and excellent points! I was recently at a training event where the seminar leader said that if someone wants you to take a lower-than-normal fee (and he was talking specifically about speakers) then negotiate for something else of value – the ability to sell products in the back of the room, a contact database of all attendees, etc. That way you are exchanging value for value and it doesn’t look as if you are just dropping your fee because you don’t believe in yourself.

  • http://www.smartpeopleatwork.com Margaret McDonald

    While we’re on the subject of our own worth, let’s not forget our fellow professionals’ worth, as well — and let’s call for an end to mass underbidding on those cattle-call freelancing sites. It’s disheartening to see how many professionals make proud statements about how little they paid for somebody else’s expertise on Elance, etc.

    When did sticking it to the little freelancers become something to crow about?

  • http://about.me/sekai Sekai Farai

    How dangerous is pay-what-you-think-is-reasonable as it relates to freelancers under/overcharging? Does that balance out? Is it a better or worse strategy for someone who is starting out in their field and trying to acquire legitimacy? Would that have a deleterious effect on how people perceive the value of your time? Do the answers to these questions change if we include a veto option is someone proposes something unreasonable?

    Looking forward to hearing from anyone!

  • http://www.dghcommunications.com Deborah Halpern

    Great conversation by all. Here is another consideration – for everyone focused on hourly rates for either billing by the hour, or project fees based on how many hours a project will take … I suggest that is a negative way to value your services. What if you are on a creative role and some up with the best copy you have ever written in only 25 minutes? Do you charge for your minimum hourly rate … or do you charge them for what that bit of genius work is worth?

    Another scenario is you are billing hourly – does that mean you should work effectively and efficiently to get the job done? An hourly rate is a disincentive for productive work as you will be paid less than you are worth if you work quickly.

    My suggestion is to avoid hourly rates and focus on the value of the service your client is buying. That is a better way to be sure you will be paid what you are worth.

  • http://www.mightaswelldance.com Judson Laipply

    Great thoughts on everyone’s part. I’ve been speaking/training for 13 years now (paid that is) and pricing is by far the most intriguing issue for anyone who is providing a service of any sort. It all comes down to sales. You have to prove your value above everyone else. My friend Robert Bradford, who is an amazing strategic planner calls it your “island of profitability”. Why should I pay you as opposed the them? Answer that question and you will be well on your way to figuring it out.

  • http://www.TheMadTravelerOnline.com Kevin

    Great piece! I’ve struggled and still do with the same issue. Guessing your client’s budget is important. If I am waaaay off too high, they might not even email back. If it’s not necessarily for a single one-time project I might offer a price and then add “But if you assign three articles, I could do them for $XXX each.” Bundling like Charter. :) Some organizations have money to throw around. What I get from a typical publication ain’t gonna be the same as what kind of sums an ad agency or PR firm deals with.

    And off on a tangent: I know a guy who said Yes to a price for an abandoned building and the seller came back with a higher price! So he said Yes again, and the seller raised it once more. In fact, raised it until he said No. Then they sold it to a local university at the not-agreed-upon price. How flaky.

  • http://www.markgrimm.com Mark Grimm

    I do think you have to take into account the financial situation of the group interested in your speech. Some groups have flexibility, others do not. In the end, you have to have a rock bottom price in your mind and be prepared to walk away if necessary. Say something like, “Thanks for the interest. I am sorry you don’t have the budget for my presentation. Please pass the word to those who might.”

  • http://www.accella.net Jon Stroz

    It’s also important to remember that it’s not the end of the world to walk away from a job. Often times, clients that want to pay as little as possible also have lofty expectations that can’t necessarily be met on a shoestring budget.

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  • http://www.autograf.com Dawn Mallory

    I have frequently struggled with my pricing … costing it didn’t necessarily help with the pain … i recently put up a picture of something I really wanted to do in my life … such as a large trip or having teh time to write my book … and am realizing that others do “it” all of the time! Much of the pain is gone!

    Great article … thanx for the support… Dawn

  • http://www.merchant911.org Tom Mahoney

    @Wendy Kurtz – I borrowed it from Darren LaCroix but I don’t think he’ll mind. Actually, he uses, “Knock your socks off” so mine is sort of original :-)

  • http://www.dunawaydietetics.com Ann Dunaway Teh

    Thank you for such an insightful post. I certainly struggle with this. I recently discounted my fee to for a big project as it has the potential to turn into a long-term relationship. But I think I discounted a little too deeply – I’m still getting the work though, thank goodness. Chalk it up to a good learning lesson.

  • http://www.susannaspeier.com Susanna Speier

    Thanks for posting this, Peter. Social media strategists have an unusually difficult time setting rates because
    (a) Said job hasn’t been around that long.
    (b) Snakeoil peddlers promising insta fans and followers price to sell.
    (c) Good writing is vastly undervalued.

    When I initially researched social media strategies, I posted the numbers I came up with here:

    http://www.susannaspeier.com/social-media/salary/

    Several marketers informed me (via Facebook) that the rates I’d posted were lower than average and so I’m doing additional research now and will post my updated findings shortly.

  • http://www.oldmaidcatlady.com Lynn Thompson

    Chris, re the issue of offering your advice free in hope of signing the client for paying work, I had the same problem with ghostwriting consultations. A potential client would take up 3 hours of my time telling me their ENTIRE story, then ask for my advice on how to proceed. When I presented them with a written proposal on writing their book, they’d say the price was way higher than they’d thought it would be (this despite the fact that it was about 1/4 of what top ghostwriters charged), & usually ask if I could do it on spec “for a portion of the sales”. (NO, I could not, since most first-time authors’ books lose money!)

    How I handled this was to start charging for ghostwriting consultations. Whether in person or over the phone, they’re now $200, up front. If they hire me to write their book, I deduct it from the retainer fee. Anybody unwilling to pay that consultation fee is never going to be willing to pay what I charge for ghostwriting. It’s taken care of the problem by at least compensating me a little bit for the time I take to meet with someone & analyze their project for them. And I also went way up on my ghostwriting fees! Now I get clients who value what I do & are willing to pay for it.

  • http://www.marketing-mentor.com Ilise Benun

    Excellent post, Peter, I’ve excerpted and linked to it from the Creative Freelancer blog. And (if you’ll forgive the plug) I’ve got a lot more on how to talk about money — with actual language to use — in my forthcoming book, The Creative Professional’s Guide to Money. Details here: http://www.creativefreelancerblog.com/money-guide/

  • Dawn

    I liked #4. I asked to be paid. The biggest headache of my business was collections and feeling like I was be taken advantage of when clients would give excuses about why I wasn’t being paid. I give my rate and then with the caveat that I require 50% upfront. I have walked away from business when told that was not possible. It has been so much better for me emotionally and financially. The other thing I don’t participate in is full on spec work. I’ll give you an outline but I am not giving away my skills. After all this is what I do for a living.

  • http://www.thesilentseller.com Rob Metras

    It is all a measure of confidence in your own knowledge and your ability to deliver on your promise that should lead you to charge what you want. If the market rate is $2000.00 and you believe your service, skill set, and distinct experience qualify you to charge more it is your responsibility to do so. You may be depriving clients of what you have to offer and they deserve to hear you. Hold firm to yourself. As for social media consulting i see far too many low value low price offerrings for a market that deserves better.

    When people sense your value and the word gets around about it you will not have the problem any more.

    I will put a link on my http:// WhatsMySpin.com marketing blog.

    Thanks Rob

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  • http://www.carriefreelance.com carrie

    Thanks for this post, Peter, a lot of great points. The most significant change I made in pricing and fees for clients was getting away from hourly rates and focusing project rates and flat fee along with that. That way, I’m more relaxed because I don’t have to concern myself with numbers of hours, and the client is also more comfortable. With writing assignments, by the word payments are from what I’ve seen rarely lucrative to be worth it, unless you’re writing for the top mags or similar.

  • http://www.obsessedwithconformity.com Jim Mitchem

    The best advice my father ever gave me was that it’s easier to run in on a fly ball than run back on one. Your first tip above reinforces this. Thanks.

  • http://moonstruckpromotions.com Tammy Brackett

    I always ask about a price point before preparing a proposal. My proposals are client and budget specific. In the document there is a specific sentence in bold that says
    “If you cannot afford a publicist, please don’t hire one.”

    In the music business particulary, someone always wants something for free. While I’m all for helping people (I think it’s an important part of doing business in this market), there are those who will take advantage of good will.

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  • http://EleganthomesinwestToronto.com David Pylyp

    Such an appropriate post as we re evaluate what we did last year; how we will increase or improve on the next years business and how we will source those opportunities.

    Thank you for your insights

    David Pylyp
    Living in Toronto

  • http://www.tianobookdesign.com Stephen Tiano

    So many good comments, I just have to weigh in again. One of the hardest things I had to learn was that it’s okay to turn down a project because the price offered is too low. In the beginning it caused me great angst, as if I’d be punished by never working again. Over time I lost the tendency to feel that way.

    Better to turn down a job than accept it and fume over not being paid what it’s worth. I usually ask a potential client what there budget is for my part of the book. Ofttimes they hesitate, if they tell me at all. But I actually tend to show a bit more flexibility to people who are straightforward, as it makes it easier for me to avoid wasting time if I havoc clear idea what they’re willing to spend.

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  • http://www.siteoptimized.com/ Doug Motel

    Great post Peter. I would add that you make sure that YOU are setting the fee not the customer. I am continually surprised to see how many of the clients who ask for a reduction in fees turn out to be the most high maintenance.

  • http://www.wellfromwithin.com Loren Gelberg-Goff

    What a great post. thank you and everyone who also responded with some great tips, suggestions and ideas. I have been dealing/struggling with this issue and am currently moving in the direction of more corporate seminar programs. It’s an issue for me since I have been finding that companies definitely want the health and wellness programs that I offer, but often don’t want to pay for them. I got some great ideas from this post to really ramp up my proposals for this year. Thank you.

  • http://thechrista.com Christa Watson

    I think the hardest part is figuring out how much your time is worth… especially when just starting out and trying to get gigs. I’ve sometimes offered a teaser rate in the beginning, and once they know how good the product is, they keep coming back at my normal rate. I don’t recommend it for everything but it has hooked some good work for me.

  • http://www.ajoyfulcelebration.net Sherry

    I have stopped using the words “fees” and “contracts” altogether. I now talk about “investments” and “agreements”. I have also started saying that I am “currently accepting interviews for…” instead of “please, please…please call me…” (You know what I mean.) And I put a huge range of fees in print, increasing my high end.

    Almost immediately following, I had a phone interview that concluded in the prospective client asking: “So, do you think we are in your price range?” I didn’t really know what she was even talking about. So I didn’t say a word. The client said (in the silence) “You know: x to y?”. I said “Oh, yes, definitely!” And then I quoted an “investment” that was higher than my usual quote, but lower than the highest end of my range. Then I hear: “Do you think you could send us a contract?”

  • http://wordeffect.pagesperso-orange.fr Alison Sabedoria

    One very good reason for asking what you’re worth (or even more!) is the performance incentive this gives.

    If I know I’m getting a good fee and that expectations are high, I’m more likely to give of my best. I can afford to take more time to prepare, I feel valued, I’m more available before and after the event, I’m generous with materials and follow-up support, etc. So everyone benefits – much better value all round.

    I learned the hard way as a gigging musician: small fees, difficult journeys, unsociable hours, awkward promoters, shabby venues. If I don’t value myself, no-one else is going to. I fully agree that a low price suggests a lousy product.

    Pay me as much as you like and I’ll perform up to that level – the sky’s the limit!

  • http://www.directmarketingrx.com Elizabeth

    Love this post. Often the people who want you to lower your price are the pain in the neck horrible clients you’ll be eager to get rid of as soon as possible. :-D Sticking to your prices/fees gets rid of the lookie-loos and bad clients. Hold out for the quality clients.

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  • http://www.diabeticsnacker.com/ barb g

    What a bunch of awesome posts and an article this is! I don’t speak anywhere but I am always on the lookout for new campaigns and sponsors to work with my blog. This advice from everyone is very useful to me.

  • http://www.sophia-associates.com Sophia

    Thanks for this post. For someone who offers “intangible” services that are hard to measure in quantifiable terms (ROI) the question about the fee has more to do with does the client understand and believe that they will get value or that we will help them solve a problem or create a positive outcome. If they believe any of these they will pay the fee without complaint (or with little negotiation). My challenge is to assure them of the value and follow through on that. Additionally, when we get the fees we charge it allows us to over-deliver on our services and to do the extras that inevitably come up without feeling like we need to charge additional fees. I hate that nickel and dime-ing stuff. The fee allows us to be fully at service without worrying about our bottom line. The focus stays on serving our clients which is where it should be.

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  • Jessica

    I used to charge low thinking the business would lead to more business and it does: more low paying projects.

    For anyone else struggling with what to charge here’s a good rule of thumb: If no one ever balks or tries to negotiate/get a discount your rates are too cheap. In the last year I have tripled my rates with the only impact being making more money and having happier clients :) People seem to value more what they pay more for.

  • http://www.ajoyfulcelebration.net Sherry

    I am finding that as my prices are going up, my “ideal clients” are begging ME to work with THEM! You can imagine how much easier that sales process is than the process of me begging anybody with a pocketbook to pay me. I am also finding that other professional vendors are coming out of the woodwork to talk about us. Suddenly we are developing an air of being exclusive and highly desirable. We are attracting the clients who know what it takes for me to do my job well; and they are willing to pay for the talent and expertise that lead up to “show time”.

    I knew that I was on track when, last week, a client referred to my creative writing process as “Designing the new Ralph Lauren Collection”. (This client works in New York for Ralph Lauren’s high-end line…) Is it like that? “Exactly!” THIS is the kind of client I want in my referral pipeline!

  • http://www.annemariecross.com Annemarie Cross

    I think we can ALL relate to this article and have one time or another struggled with knowing what to charge!

    Point 4 is one that I believe is a major struggle, especially for my clients (women in business). We’re so good at undervaluing our strengths and talents, which is often reflected in our charges.

    Charge too much – and we may loose out on the sale. Charge too little – and again we may loose out on the sale because we devalue our services. In this situation the prospect goes elsewhere thinking our service must not be that good if we charging such a low fee. [Remind anyone of a children's story? Too hot, too cold, just right!?

    Another problem I see happening is people reverting to discounting their services in the hope of getting people to sign up or say 'yes' to their offer. However this again only serves to devalue your services; it impacts negatively on your self-belief; and it can set a negative precedent. Here's an article I wrote about why discounting can damage your brand: http://annemariecross.com/3-re.....reputation [Hope it's ok that I share this?]

    This is why it’s so important to build a strong brand/reputation backed with strong testimonials from clients who know, love and trust you and are experiencing amazing results through working with you. That way, your ideal client will be flocking to your door, ready to invest in your services as working with you will not be a cost, but an investment in their future.

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  • http://www.pamperrypr.com/ Pam Perry

    I love this Peter: “You can always come down, but never go up.” That ought to be your next book! Good stuff. Thanks!

  • Dana Tosta

    Thanks Jeanna

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