PETER SHANKMAN
| POSTED ON August 21st, 2008 | 294 COMMENTS | + ADD YOUR COMMENT |
Gotta tell ya… I’m getting pretty tired of hearing that.
Was having a conversation the other day with someone via IM. She asked me where I was, and I told her I was talking from the lobby of the W hotel in Times Square, waiting to have a drink with someone who runs a marketing firm.
“The W Hotel?! What a tough life! Will you please do some work?!” she IM’d back. It was around 3pm. She didn’t know I’d closed two deals, brought three new advertisers to HARO, and gotten one client onto CNN. Not bad for someone who, according to my friend, had to be nagged to “do some work.”
It’s not the first time I’ve heard that from her, or for that matter, from countless other people. One of the sub-hazards of having several status updates on various devices, I assume. In the past, I’ve heard virtually identical comments resulting from Facebook or Twitter updates that have included “Driving from LA to SF, stopped to get gas outside some wind farm,” “Sitting in the lounge at Gatwick, munching on a bagel,” “Singapore–>EWR flight delayed, hitting Duty Free, anyone want anything?” “Sitting on the hood of my rental car, watching the sunset from the desert outside of Eloy, Arizona,” and of course, “working from the Ranch, waiting for them to fuel the plane,” which of course, is code for “handling a client issue via conference call, with my skydiving rig on my back, hoping I’ll finish the call before the next load goes up in the air.”
To my detractors (who I should say, I don’t believe are saying “do some work” to be mean,) I respond simply with “On any given day I’m working twice as hard as you if not more so, and if you’re hating, you’re simply not as adept at playing the game.” And I mean that with absolute respect, and no insult intended.
Look, I talk all the time about how I have ADHD, how I use it to my advantage, blah, blah, blah, but let’s seriously consider this for a second: What does that actually mean?
I don’t do well in offices, I don’t do well in a structured environment, I sure as hell don’t do well in a cubicle, and the last time I had a “job” with a “boss,” I quit within three months of starting. I’m very fortunate to have realized it as early as I did, because what it tells me is that I’m simply not designed for working the way you work, but I’ve been smart enough to learn from it, and adapt my lifestyle to not only meet my needs, but exceed them, all while having fun.
I can work from anywhere. With the technology available to me, I’ve worked from a forest, an airplane (as I’m doing now) the back of a Taxi, or a beach in Phuket. I’ve sent out the HARO while waiting to board a plane, on a Metro North Railroad, or poolside from a conference in California.
I’ve also closed deals at nightclubs, in bars, or while running through Central Park at 11:30am on a Tuesday. I’ve taken client calls while taxiing down the runway while in the plane out of which I’ll skydive nine minutes later. I’ve gone on TV to talk about marketing with 27 minutes notice, stopping in a Nordstrom to buy a button down shirt and jacket, because I was wearing a t-shirt at the time, and it was soaked with sweat after a run. With logic suggesting that I’ll be placed at a desk where the camera won’t see the lower half of my body, I walked in to the newsroom in a button-down shirt, blazer, Nike shorts, and New Balance sneakers. I washed my face in the bathroom, they applied foundation and pancake makeup two minutes to air, and 15 seconds before we came back from commercial, a production assistant ran on set to pull off the tag from the sleeve of my jacket. The interview went flawlessly.
Best part? One of my greatest accomplishments is that I have NEVER, EVER had a client say I wasn’t paying enough attention to them, or a colleague tell me that I missed a meeting, or wasn’t focused. In fact, 90% of the time, I don’t tell people where I am, and they naturally assume I’m in an office, at a desk. Good. That’s what they should be thinking!
But before you tell me to screw-off as you read this from your desk, know that it’s not anywhere near as free-and-clear as it might seem. With this freedom, comes the inevitable other side of the coin. And this flip-side is for my friends who shout “do some work” in all caps in the window of an IM.
Sure, I might try and tack on a half-day of skydiving or a few hours of beach time after a business trip before flying home, but the last time I took an honest-to-G-d vacation, without a laptop or cell phone? July of 2001. Last time you did? Probably a few months ago, if not sooner. Every year, I’m invited to view photos from my friend Karen, as she comes back from Africa, or Australia, or some other wonderful place, where she’s toured for the previous two weeks, totally off the grid. My friend Cheryl heads to Fiji, or the Galapagos Islands, or Brazil, or Portugal for a week after the NYC Marathon, every year.
While I try to explore at least one new place every time I travel, the concept of “off the grid” is virtually foreign to me. I never know where the next deal is going to come from, or who’s going to present it. My plane seat-mate? (Who on this flight, works in oil and gas in Houston, and has fallen asleep) Not this trip, but next time, maybe – Hell, I invented and eventually sold a company to facilitate just those kind of moments! At the supermarket? Always carry a business card or two, just keep a few in every pocket, you never know. At a step-cousin’s Bar Mitzvah? Why not. It’s happened. Watching the Mets? Who knows what the guy next to me does for a living when he’s not trash-talking the Pirates?
Remember the scene in Beverly Hills Cop II, (I doubt you would, normal people wouldn’t, it’s just how my brain works) where Eddie Murphy, undercover, says to the guy with the fake credit cards, “If you can’t handle this, I’ll just go to someone else. I’m a bizness man. I’m doin’ bizness. I’m makin’ moves. I’m movin’!” He’s snapping all around, moving in a million different directions to make his point. That’s how I live – Spinning ten plates at any given time – and thoroughly enjoying it! And that’s the key – when you enjoy what you do, it’s not work. That’s why the part about not going off the grid or taking a vacation isn’t a plea for sympathy – quite the opposite, it’s saying “hey, if you want this, can you handle doing things a lot differently than what you’re used to?”
“Why don’t you do some work?” This is work! This is what I do! I meet people, I put people together, I make deals, I make two and two equal five. I don’t sit behind a desk and create spreadsheets. I don’t move numbers from category A to category B. I don’t take phone calls asking where the TPS report is from a boss who hovers over me all the time, and I certainly don’t send an email, then go out for a donut, hoping that when I get back to my desk, I have a response. Wherever I am, that’s work. Whatever I’m doing, that’s work. And no, it’s not at a desk, and no, it’s not in a cubicle, and yes, I’m probably having a hell of a lot of fun doing it.
So Let’s translate “why don’t you do some work” into what it really is: “How come your job lets you fly all over the place, and have meetings in really cool places, and why can’t mine? Your job certainly doesn’t seem like work, why does mine?”
My answer to them? Because you don’t want it badly enough. If you really did, you’d have it. You’d take the risk, and play the game. (In actuality, that’s all it ever is – one giant game.) Face it – Having a job where you’re not the boss is, well, safe. You might hate it, you might think you can do it better, and you might want to firebomb your cubicle, but in the end, it’s safe. Your direct deposit comes in every other Friday, and you know it’ll be there. Going out on your own isn’t that simple. You’d worry every single day that this is the day you’re going to screw it all up, and lose it all. And when you woke up at 4:30am the next morning, (not because you can’t sleep, but because 4:30am to 5:30am is the only time you can work out without having to carry your phone with you) you’d smile that you kept it going another day, and actually look forward to working. You’ll wake up smiling, no matter how early it is. So you’d be scared on a regular basis. The paycheck wouldn’t be guaranteed, but the excitement damn well would be.
In the end, it comes down to boundaries, be them self-imposed or imposed by your own environment, either of which you feel you can’t fight. Boundaries that say “I have to work at a job and make a living so I can provide for my family and not be risky.” That’s fine! There’s nothing wrong with that. But that boundary comes at a cost, and it can be expensive at times, and I’m sorry, but those boundaries that lock you into your desk job aren’t my fault. See, I just never understood the boundaries. (Hell, I never understood a lot of things.) I never got that there were these man-made boundaries between working and playing that said the two shouldn’t ever meet, and because I never understood them, I couldn’t understand how to respect them. That definitely got me fired from the “I Can’t Believe It’s Not Yogurt” store when I was 17, no question. After college, I worked in several jobs early in my career, and they were always fun. When they weren’t, I simply left, and found something that was fun. And let’s not confuse “hard work” with fun – hard work, if you like the work, is fun. I’ve never left a job because the work was hard. I’ve left because I wasn’t enjoying it. And that’s two different beasts, entirely. The best New Yorker Cartoon I ever saw showed a man on a beach on his laptop, talking to his wife. The caption read “I”m not a workaholic. I work to relax.”
As I said above, I absolutely LOVE what I do. I didn’t get into PR and marketing because I thought it would be easy, or because I thought it was a party job. I honestly do like telling a story, and I’ve been blessed with an ability to do it well. The entrepreneurial aspect of all of it has come from, well, from not caring what other people thought, really. The same brain that got me beaten up in junior high is finally able to express these ideas that, shock of shocks, are actually worth something! How freakin’ cool is that?? If you go out and interview 10 entrepreneurs, I guarantee that almost every single one will say that they got teased as a kid, they were different, etc. And where are the kids who teased me? I’ve got no idea – but I’d be willing to bet they’re in a cubicle somewhere. And again, that’s cool – if they’re happy.
The problem though, comes when “do some work!” really translates into “I hate that you get to do that and I don’t.” Because if that’s the case, then don’t waste your time telling me to “do some work,” but rather, do some work on your own, and figure out why you’re unhappy. Once you figure that out, I guarantee, you won’t call it “work” a second longer.
Want to try it? I encourage it! Why wouldn’t you? Figure out what you do, figure out how to do it on your own, and go to town! It’s not for everyone – no doubt – just like I couldn’t handle a cubicle, there are people who can’t handle the doubt and fear that occasionally comes with doing it on your own. And that’s totally cool! That doesn’t make you any the less of anything! This isn’t a competition, which is what my “do some work!” friends don’t seem to get. The only people we have to compete with in this life are ourselves. If we’re happy with what we’ve done at the end of the day, whether that’s working for someone else, for ourselves, or somewhere in the middle, then I think we’ve won.
“Do some work?” October 28th will be 10-years since I incorporated my first company. For the past 3,650 days, I’ve done nothing but work. But you know what? It’s never once felt like it.
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Spot On! People don’t get the fact that working 12-14 hours a day, 7 days a week, to some is not really working. I love what I do…. I live in paradise, work from my patio overlooking the Adriatic sea, running a B&B with my wife and daughter (www.bebtorre.com). I am co-owner to a start-up out of Florence, Italy, Yooplus (www.yooplus.com). It’s all about choices… I have been a executive in the Fortune 500 world, and I would not trade where I am today for anything…. |
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What you have said is fantastic, exactly on target. Because I launched my own company in 1996, I applaud your article wholeheartedly. Observers who think we are just having a relaxing time all day in interesting places should try this for two weeks, then comment. As for the way you and I feel liberated after leaving the corporate arena full time, here’s my answer to people who ask me what I like most about my job: “I shave my boss every morning.” |
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While I don’t have ADHD, I can fully agree with every other word that you wrote here. For instance, after a run this morning, I consulted my new running partner on a different strategy for his new venture. Yet, I can never exactly explain to people *what* I do, because it varies from day to day, and from person to person. But amazing post. Thank you. |
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Brilliant post. “Go where you wanna go, do what you wanna do” and make it pay off. :) |
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One of THE best pieces I have ever read! BRAVO! It made me want to stand up and cheer! It takes some people a lifetime to know themselves as well as you do, and make it work for them. As the song says….. I want to live, not merely survive, And I won’t give up this dream |
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Positively brilliant “Go where ya wanna go, do what ya wanna do” and make it pay off :) |
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Peter – in the end, haters like Ike will hate on you no matter what you say. I agree with NS and applaud you! |
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Bravo! Thanks for the great post Peter. I couldn’t agree more. I have a similar business structure/lifestyle as you, and people NEVER understand what I do or how I do it. They think I goof off all day, when in reality, I work ALL the time. But I love to work. I love the satisfaction of creating a new company, or a new product. I love the stress of testing a new marketing campaign and the rush of adrenaline when it works. Just yesterday, I was talking with someone about Tim Ferriss’s book “4-hour Workweek”. I told this person I didn’t want to work that little. I would go crazy. I enjoy working 40, 50, or even 60 hours a week, because my work is fun! He didn’t get it. Cubicle-dwellers rarely do. |
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Wow, that’s one heck of an article! Very well written. You blew my socks off. I so agree with you. I’m not in the same boat exactly but I have definitely had the ‘gosh I wish I had your life’ comments. It’s different when you’re there. Whatever your lifestyle choice, it has upsides and downsides. To me the big thing is whether you’ve ‘chosen’ it or just gone with the flow and ended up somewhere that you’re not that keen on. That’s something I’m determined not to do. Good on you Peter for finding out what works for you – a lesson to us all! |
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“If you aren’t winning the game, change the rules.” That is exactly what you have done. It is GREAT to wake up and love what you do. Each day is an adventure and because none of us know how long we have — why not? |
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Thank you for this blog post! I launched my company in January and I can echo your sentiments exactly. Only, in my case I do not work in PR and I have often received the comment, “You attract all this media attention without even trying!” when that (obviously) is not the case. I do work in an office during the day (and I love what I do) but when I leave, I never stop “working” because I never know where my next connection is going to come from. It’s not possible for me to leave work at the office. I always have to be ready. Thanks for sharing this, as it rings very true for me, and it is nice to know that I am not alone. Have a great day! |
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Well said! I have heard this before…but your response is priceless…now can you chop it down to a twitter post? That would be talent. e |
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Eloquently said, Peter! Your friends (and my friends, too) misunderstand that simple word “risk.” They see working for yourself as risky. They don’t see the risk of putting their future in the hands of someone else. They don’t grasp that the only money they’re guaranteed from their company is the paycheck they cashed last week. Not the pension, not the 401(k), not the holiday bonus, and not even next week’s check. In my book, that’s risk! |
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To those who would respond with comments like “Do some work,” “Get a job,” “Must be nice,” I offer this suggestion: When a friend, relative or co-worker gets a promotion, buys a great car, goes on vacation or loves his or her work, say, “That’s for me!” with great gusto. You will immediately feel empowered (good) instead of envious (bad) and you will stop releasing negative energy into the Universe for the rest of us to absorb. |
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I’m Jeff and I own one of the world’s most popular sports websites, http://www.insidehoops.com and for the second year in a row I’m spending about 3 summer months traveling the world — but working part of each day the whole time. I’m in Nice, France right now and will be doing today’s update from an ocean-side bar/restaurant. Their lounge makes a great office for a few hours, and they have a massive LCD so I can watch today’s usa olympic bball game. Here I am two weeks ago in Lisbon, Portugal, waving from the city’s castle. And last week here I am in Sevilla, Spain: It took the better half of a decade of sacrifices, INSANE amounts of obsessive work, tons of luck (though in my experience the harder you work the more “luck” you get), etc. to get to this point. But now most internet-using NBA fans in the world know of insidehoops and a couple hundred thousand of them read it regularly. Jeff Lenchiner |
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I’ll have what Peter’s having. Brilliant. Since striking out on my own in January, I’ve increasingly faced the same comments. My response is usually expletive-filled and not nearly as well thought out. Thanks for the verbiage…..which I will shamelessly steal. |
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Hello Peter, You are so right! When you love what you do and are making a difference in people’s lives, isn’t that what our purpose in life is suppose to be? Good for you! |
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That was positively the most powerful post I’ve read in a long time. I absorbed every single word, right down to the very end. It was riveting, motivating and exciting. You do tell a good story indeed. I loved how you translated “Why don’t you do some work” into something deeper. I agree with you a million times that people who expend energy worrying about why others aren’t doing what they’re supposed to be doing are those who aren’t satisfied in some way with their lives. So they look outside themselves and gripe or criticize or condemn or judge. You see, you know something a lot of people don’t. Happy successful people don’t waste time worrying about what other people are doing. They don’t care. It doesn’t matter to them because people who love what they do tend to be happier than those who don’t. People who aren’t happy will find every excuse to gripe, which leads to the blame game. Having said all of that, like you, I make absolutely no judgment against those who choose to work in a cubicle and receive a paycheck every two weeks. Hell, I don’t care what people chose for their life – that’s their business. I see you’re of the same mindset. Way to go! |
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Well done. While I don’t spend my free time jumping from perfectly good airplanes for the thrill of it, this entrepreneurial lifestyle has allowed me to be an active participant in raising my kids. There is simply no other way I’d want to do it — and I’m 100% agreed about the business cards to the supermarket comment. I’ve cut amazing deals from such bizarre places as the church baby nursery and local playground. It’s all good. As a woman, I sometimes get the, “Do you work outside the home?” comment from people who are trying to discern if I have a career worth talking about outside of motherhood. My answer? “Sure, when I want to.” Someday, when I can trust little fingers to not mess with my gadgets, I’ll be all over an iphone. For now, I”m enjoying watching the rest of you twitter while I keep my 2-year old safe on the swings. Keep having fun! |
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I still get some of that “why don’t you get a job” stuff. But not as much as “I wish I could do what you are doing.” |
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You are awesome, period. I am a HARO subscriber and my favourite part of your notices is reading the intro you write. Don’t change! :) |
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Peter, |
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Wow! YES! I’m there! I can’t tell you how many times people have said to me, “When do you work?”, “Must be nice!”, “How do you get anything done?” because I’m lunching with a client/potential client or at a networking meeting of some kind or blogging or forwarding them useful info… They think I’m nuts to travel an hour or two to Syracuse or Rochester to network… but I have developed business and friendships from both. I got a client from buying a piece of jewelry at the SPAC JazzFest (http://tinyurl.com/6knlw8)! And another from a NAWBO Christmas party, who told a friend who hired me too… I stumble & twitter and have profiles on facebook and linkedin and visualcv… and so on… and blog too, and most people complain to me that they can’t keep one profile updated or don’t have time to blog – but I make time because I understand the benefits of each. I’m beginning to think I have ADHD too – but you inspire me to go with the flow! I used to feel as if I needed to be more “focused/structured” but perhaps it’s that I have to understand my version of focus and work within it. It isn’t always easy, and there are stresses – but it’s fun and rewarding and exciting and challenging – and most people (that want more than a mind-numbing 9 to 5) would embrace that in a job. I’m blessed to have a husband with a paycheck every week, so when a business deal falls through or the “check is in the mail” takes months to arrive I don’t need to panic. Since I have spent a little time with you in person I understand how you work, you are an expressive person – when the lightbulbs starting clicking on and ideas are flowing it is a visible process…. cliche: see your mind working. Perhaps if they could see you in action they would have a better appreciation of the energy (ie work) that goes into what you do. Some people would probably get exhausted just watching you! I tend to find it energizing to watch how you put things together. I bought “LifesPlay.com” and need to put a site up there soon – thanks for reminding me of that… I LOVE TO PLAY! V- |
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This was PERFECT. And, exactly what I try to explain to people every day. Well said – I’m totally re-tweeting! |
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I’m not afraid to say it—I’m jealous….. And desperately missing the days when I didn’t make any money, but I looked forward to going to work each day. Thanks for the tidbit of inspiration to find something that I enjoy again… Happy Trails, Peter! |
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Well done. I never understood people who complain day in and day out about their jobs but refuse to leave and try something else. Being an entrepreneur is very hard work full of satisfaction and excitement. It’s not a one size fit all world, which is why there are so many options out there. |
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Look out…There’s a bunch of us out here dying to go out on our own, but aren’t for whatever reason. This post is likely to give many the inspiration they need to start challenging the mighty Peter Shankman for world domination! |
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Peter, Thanx, |
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Good thing that guy on the plane was sleeping! Gracias/Thank you from all of the entrepreneurs who read this post who hear similar attacks and field oh-so-condescending sentiments regularly! Since conceptualizing and putting into action my Boca Beth Program as I follow my passion for second language learning for little kids I live a dream life every day that I am in control of. Can’t wait to hear your passion in less than 4 hours in Florida! |
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Wow, I just subscribed yesterday; this is the first post that came through. What luck! It was just what the doctor ordered. I just took the plunge two months ago (went back out on my own) and am still a little wobbly but totally loving it. I don’t know anyone else who is doing what you’re — we’re — doing. I’ve found it hard not to feel guilty. Most of my friends are W-2 or solopreneurs who work diligently from home offices. Within the past two weeks alone I’ve worked poolside at my sister’s place, in an office at the FBO at MWO (in between watching jets take off) and at friend’s art studio in Chicago. Next month, I’ll be working from a music school in the Berkshires overlooking Catamount and in a loft office in NYC. This post was super affirming and has given me courage to raise the bar even more. In other words, I have this friend in London who has been begging me to visit… THANK YOU PETER. And viva self-employment 2.0! |
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Peter, Here’s what I don’t get and I’d LOVE for someone to explain. Why why why do those who prefer NOT to take a risk (stay in jobs they hate or mildly enjoy) have to tell the rest of us we’re doing it wrong, or how it won’t work or why we’re the ones who are being unrealistic or whatever? I don’t bash your corporate gig so why must you criticize me and/or my choice or try to demean it? I own a direct sales company (let the bashing begin) and I have to defend the biz and myself at least once per day. Meanwhile, life is good and I enjoy what I do and love the fact that I can work anywhere with a laptop and cell service. Keep it up Peter…. there’s alot more of us out here than you know! |
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Great post. I do what you do, nowhere near as well. I also have (and this is not an excuse) a family to balance, but i am almost always on the go, blackberry in hand. Very inspiring to know that the path I set myself on 4 years go will work out well! My question, is how do you manage the boring “business side” of doing business – contracting, invoicing, etc… |
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Wow! I loved this… Six years ago, after stints as PR Director with three international companies – which all folded! — I decided I had had it with corporate life. I’ve never looked back. I am now a sole practitioner with a “virtual” company of people I can call on if I need additional expertise or assistance. I work from my home and I’m loving it. I’ve given up explaining anything to the people who say that it must be easy for me — they’re never going to get it anyway. I run my business, run my home, keep up with a 14-year-old grandson my husband and I are raising and still manage to have satisfied clients and be a good friend to a few really special people. At this point in my life, if I get pushed under the bus, I know it’s my fault and not the result of some petty office jealousy or someone’s need to have their image polished! I love what I do, even when I don’t. Thanks for saying all of this so eloquently. |
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Amen, Peter. |
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When I saw this post, I started to laugh, because I get the HARO delivered to me three times a day–each time I read through it I realize the hard work you put behind it to make it happen. This is on top of all the other things you do. Your post delivers an important point that I often pass on to my kids–life is meant to be enjoyed. Select a path in life that you enjoy, and you’ll be able to say, “I love what I do.” |
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Great post! Although I’m an entrepreneur, I’m not quite as successful as you! Good for you! You give me the inspiration to figure out how to be an amazingly successful entrepreneur. But then again, I like the freedom of being with my family whenever I want. Flying off to exotic countries would be cool, but my boys would need to come with me. :) |
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Peter: You have done such a great job at pulling all of us together, working many hours as we can always see the amount of efforts needed. Thank you. I am still looking to hear back from you regarding that one request we emailed about. Great article Peter, it sums up much of what I agree with. People are so busy nowadays, worrying and fearing what’s next. STOP! Think about what you can do to help others that don’t have it as good as you do. What have you done lately to “Pay-it-forward” like the book “21 Days To Creating Your Dream Life” talks about? Try doing one thing every week, eventually everyday, to change the perceptions of how people view each other – help someone in need, give to your favorite charity, visit a retirement home and talk with some of the residents about life, help a stranger, hug your loved ones and tell them how much you love them, and most of all – don’t let fear drive your life, dance with it, and love life. Try living in the moment, you’ll be surprised at what happens! |
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Great post, Peter! I live in a sort of half and half version of what you’re doing, where I get to travel to awesome places, and sometimes, “work” is dancing with an Italian lawyer at Prague castle. I’ve had a lot of friends admit that they’re jealous, but I’ve been lucky to not have anyone tell me to “do some work!” It’s great to have a reminder that you don’t have to be sitting in your cubicle until 11 every night to prove that you work hard, and enjoying what you do doesn’t mean it’s not working! |
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Channeling Jerry Maguire here for sure. Wow! What an inspiration and way to go for just telling it like it is! I give you a lot of credit for living 100% in the fast lane. You are an inspiration to us all! |
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Chill. It’s pretty obvious that you are mega-successful. And success like that doesn’t just fall into one’s lap without a LOT of hard work –wherever it’s conducted. So if you happen to be in a pub as you’re reading this, Cheers! |
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You, sir, do more work with your little finger each day than I do with my entire butt. Offices suck. That much I know. I’m at a point in my life (we’ll call it the quarter-life crisis :-) where I’m trying to evaluate what I want to do now, and it’s tough. However, I do know that the last ten years spent reporting to three different bosses from my shared cubicle in a wear-a-sweater-in-August office probably isn’t going to be my thing going forward. I’m also tired of the IT field. What am I doing now? I start full-time at the local community college in a little over a week. I spent the spring and summer getting my math up to speed and *loved* it. We’ll see where it goes from here. I’ve made less money over the past five months than I used to make in a week, but I’ve learned a lot about myself, and I think that’s worth it. My wife may disagree with that value assessment, but she’s now a construction electrician with a BS in Mathematics, so she doesn’t have too much room to complain about career-frobulation. Anyway, Peter… why don’t you take a vacation‽‽ |
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Mr. Shankman, you are a astonishing inspiration. There is a world of difference between a game and a competition. Will |
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Kudos for your great post! Refreshing to know that others still love this industry, and it’s evident in everything you do. Your post may inspire me to write a rebuttal to the comments I always get about working from home…that always seems to bring up the vision of having lots of free time to hang out, clean the house and really not do too much real work. Thanks for the inspiration! |
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I agree completely! But I still struggle to get over the guilt I feel when I’m not in my office. I can work anywhere and often do, but many people think I’m goofing off. Thanks for the great justification (not that we need one…). |
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You go Peter. Why worry about breaking any rules when you are making the rules. |
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Excellent piece, Peter. I’m saving it for younger colleagues who seem to think that PR/Marketing (and working for yourself) is a cush job. In fact, it should be picked up by a print piece so that those who haven’t seen it yet have an opportunity. |
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As a sexuality educator, I’ve had some verrrry interesting conversations with people on trains, subways, and, even grocery store lines. “Just what do you do all day?” is a typical query because they can’t fathom that someone would be comfortable and have fun talking about and thinking about sexuality. Say whaaat? What’s not to love about my work? I’ve been self-employed for 23 years and couldn’t function any other way. http://www.honestexchange.com |
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Hi Peter – found this entry to be very inspiring. Have to admit I am guilty of looking for the safety in a desk job, but it doesn’t make me any happier! If you were to ask me what makes me the happiest, it’s helping my young entreprenuer friends build their businesses and achieve their goals. Clearly, this is what you have worked so hard to achieve not only for yourself, but for your clients as well. Just this weekend I’m supporting a friend’s company at a free whiffle ball tournament for young professionals on Boston’s City Hall Plaza – with the mayor throwing out the first pitch. Now, THAT is what I call fun! Judging from the other posts, your accomplishments reflect what so many of us are also striving for, so thank you for sharing a few words of encouragement! Keep them coming!! |
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Many people just don’t know that the nature of “work” has changed. What they are actually talking about is the concept of a “job” – which usually means doing somebody else’s tasks for money. . They don’t know that there is such a thing as satisfying work. They resent it when they discover that some individuals can actually set their own agendas Forty years ago – yes forty – I gave up a likely successful legal career to advocate for pure food laws, organic and vegetarian cuisine, environmental issues and the like. I have made a living and better yet have made an impact. As the ad says: “Priceless.” |
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That was an inspiring post. I also run two companies, manage two kids and don’t work a 9-5 day, but rather the never-ending day. But, as you said, I love my job and I feel so blessed that I do. The downside is definitely that work runs into personal life, but that’s the upside too, because I can stop work and talk to my child about his day at school, go work out or go take care of my mother when she is ill and no one is the wiser. Thank you technology! Otherwise, I don’t think we would be so lucky as to function like this. I have moments of doubt about functioning this way, but it was wonderful to be reminded how great it actually is. |
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But what about your competition…you forgot to mention!!!! You see, there are always people that want your spot. Peter, if you stay ahead of the guy behind you wanting your business/job etc., while swinging from trees even, that shows how good you really are AND how hard you worked to get that good! Your doing what I want to soon. Travel all over for business and have fun too. People generally don’t like to realize guys like you and me and other die hard entrepreneurs work 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week. How is 24 hrs possible? Because entrepreneurs even dream about work quite often because work never leaves the entrepreneur’s thoughts. You tell me all the pretty parts of your venture, but I know better. Being a big entrepreneur is like always having your underwear up in a bunch…there is ALWAYS something being a real pain in the ass that has to be fixed. Ron Komorowski |
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Sounds about right to me. I’ve spent the past three months hanging out around movie and TV sets, chasing down interviews with directors, actors, and muppets, and staying up until 2 in the morning most mornings to promote my site and figure out the strange new world of online advertising. I’ve been busier than I’ve ever been in my life and loving almost every minute of it. The most annoying comment I get is “Must be nice to have the time!” Especially since it usually comes in an email sent at noon, that I’m finally getting around to reading after midnight. |
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Amen Peter. I wonder what that “friend” thinks of your article? Your lifestyle would never work for me – I can’t handle the risk – even though I would love the flexibility. But I know my limits and while I hate working for “the man,” I know having that paycheck every 2 weeks is critical to my family. The good thing is I love what I do as well and it took quitting the company and trying something with a lot of risk to figure it out. Wish I could have figured it out another way. Anyway, I always enjoy reading your information whether on OT or HARO. Keep up the good work. |
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Amen. Angels singing. I had this same convo with my daughter yesterday. Want me to be like the other mommies. I told her the other mommies can’t run multiplication drills with your class, take girlscouts camping on a whim and hang out in destin, florida for a week and make friends/clients and money for you to go see Hannah freakin Montana ‘s highpriced movie in the middle of a weekday. Better recognize. :) |
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It’s such a simple formula: pursue what you enjoy and natural enthusiasm will propel you to greater ventures and inevitable success and further enjoyment. I’m pleased and encouraged by all the folks on here who haven’t lost sight of that “happiness” compass. |
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Damn, Peter – why don’t you stop writing this drivel and do some work? I mean, really. But seriously, this post is one of the MANY reasons why I was inspired (in part by you) to go out on my own. Thanks for the words of support – and the rationale. |
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I am a former cubicle dweller who finally made the jump! i work twice as hard and twice as much – but I’m twenty times happier! Loved your post and have printed it out to cheer me on when I’m wondering what the heck I just did with my tidy little life :) |
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Awesome post! I actually think “how does he do all he does?”…quite the opposite of the irritating “get to work” comments. What the world needs to understand is the view of work is changing. With laptops, cell phones, and other technology devices, working from anywhere will be the eventual norm for business. And I can’t wait. Love what you do, and do what you love. |
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I think people forget status updates are what you do when you’re not sitting across a table closing a deal. LOL My friends give me the same b.s. – oh you get to stay at home, that must be so nice! You don’t have to have a *real* job. I just reassure myself they’ll never have my bank account, either ;-) Some AMAZING stuff on networking in here. |
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With all due respect to Benet (#10) — did you not see the wink? I was being completely sarcastic, and am in no way a “hater.” This post rocks. Peter, can you reinstate my comment? |
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Amen! |
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Great post Peter. Sure, I’ve felt the green-eyed monster a few times, but heck, it’s more about your ability and your lifestyle when I compare it to mine as a working mother with two jobs. I wish I’d taken more advantage of my single-ness and done what you are doing, because I know I can. But I have my children now and they need me around. End of story. I can’t be off doing the things I love and justify it that one day when they’re older they’ll see how hard I worked. No, they need mama at home to read a book at night. It doesn’t matter than when I shut off their light I go back downstairs and work for another three hours. I love listening to your stories about where you are because it is wonderful and a great example of all you can do when you work with what God has blessed you with and do the best you can each day. |
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When the “circus” starts at 4 AM (taxes, health care, next quarter’s clients), it’s nicely balanced by the freedom that my husband and I have been “the bosses of us” for over 15 years. It can be done and the excitement and variety of our careers as book publicists and literary agents makes up for all the uncertainty. You, Peter, are an inspiration to us and those other mavericks out there who’ve traded security, certainty and boredom for LIFE. |
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I once heard that Warren Beatty said that the definition of success is if at the end of the day, you are not sure whether you have been working or playing. I’d say you are a success Peter! Peace Out, |
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Great motivational rant! I’m scheduled to take the plunge from full-time employee to independent contractor in January, 2009. Been having anxiety attacks and picturing myself ending up broke, embarrassed, too old to be hired by anyone else again, and living “in a van, down by the river.” Thanks for the reminder that I could end up, well, like Peter Shankman. (p.s.: I read your book. The first paragraph of the first chapter was everything it should be: “You probably don’t know me from Adam, but I am known. The media knows me, and more importantly, they know my clients. So I’m here to tell you why you should listen to me.” Bravo, brother! |
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This should be mandatory reading for all the time watchers in corporations. If people were just granted the authority to do their job in an office setting, so much more would get done. There would be more creativity too. Instead, traditional corporations stifle people and encourage them to look for ways to avoid their job. It is for reasons like this that I try to avoid corporations and look for the fun opportunities in more entrepreneurial endeavors. |
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I can’t believe that anyone who knows you, whether personally or through HARO, can’t see how hard you work and are successful doing so — and can see your passion for everything that you do. While people probably think the “do work’ comment is being made in fun, it is indeed their own jealous feelings surfacing, or their own desire to have such a life but they are too afraid to take the leap. They mean no harm but their words do begin to get under the skin. A few years ago I gave up everything to follow my dream of working and living on the road with a circus and that was long hours and long weeks — when you “go home” from the circus you’re still there and in my job, I was still on-call. I loved each and every moment of it — though no one understood why I had done what I had done or how difficult a life it was to lead. So though I’m sure normally you can handle these “made in jest” comments, sometimes you get the one too many that prompted your writing. So write on, my friend, and vent to those of us who get it and get you! I hope we meet one day and we can chat over a “Buy Peter a Sandwich” or “Take Peter to the Circus” day! |
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Peter, I applaud you for going out on your own and obtaining the work lifestyle that you knew you could have. People often have dreams to venture out and become their own boss, but are afraid of what obstacles they may run into. Kudos to you and to everyone else who had the guts to “take the bull by the horns.” |
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Peter — SPOT ON! I’ve done it too and you are right that it is fundamentally a CHOICE. Here’s one of my choices: I am writing a HOW TO book for people who want to work from the inside out, doing what they love and do well. Everyone who succeeds at it does it their own way, following their own inner though process. I want to delve more deeply into the thought process that turns people from cubicle denizens to citizens of the world on their own terms. Are you game to be interviewed down the road? |
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I agree with Kathie Martin’s earlier comment. This brilliant piece of inpirational writing should be seen by a huge audience. Well done Peter. I’m a HARO subscriber and it brightens my day,makes me laugh and makes my job easier. So you’re right. Work and fun, business and pleasure CAN mix. Cheers! |
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A MAN AFTER MY OWN HEART! vacation what is that? I take what I can but otthe blackberry is always with me 24/7~ I had retail business and a Day Spa and if it was not for my Uncle( whom had a radio show in Philadelphia for over 30 years and I aas fortunate enough to work with him ) who said “Sarah, you are wasting your time, you connect people, you know to many people you shoud be in PR” Well timing is everything and so far so good! |
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I knew there was a reason why I read your emails before any of the others. But seriously – this was a GREAT piece of writing and you NAILED your point and your perspective. I’m not jealous – I don’t want to work that hard. I read your Tweets during the day and wonder how the hell you manage to do it all. This post explains it – it’s in your blood, it’s who you are. It’s awesome to know (of) people who are so passionate about what they do. Keep up the good work!! |
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Awesome! You truly can create whatever you want in life and you have created something that works for you. We could all do the same if we have enough passion and confidence to jump into the game. Let’s go out and play! |
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Bravo! I’ve been self-employed nearly all of my adult life and you just reminded me of some of the hurdles I’ve jumped in order to create a working life that fit me perfectly–but was hardly sanctioned by others. My mother once called and asked me to do a favor and then said, “I thought you’d have time to do this since you don’t work.” It took me a long time to realize that it’s only when we are having fun and being creative that we have any chance of becoming excellent. Thanks for your eloquent reminder. |
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Thanks for sharing your world with us. You are and inspiration to marketers whether our jobs occur within the confines of Office Space or beyond. My goal is to work beyond the confines one day. So far I have managed to carve out working Fridays from home for my kids for the past five years and it has been wonderful. Find your passion and pursue it. Life is too short! |
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Thank you very much for putting my feelings into words. I’ve been wondering why I can’t seem to motivate myself to apply for a “corporate job” and this is why. I’m not cut out for that environment and it’s hard to explain that to people. I enjoy working like I do because it’s not work. Only true entrepreneurs understand why I have chosen the path that I have. Thank you for being one of those people! |
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You’re totally right – if I wanted your life, I’m sure I’d have it. And if you wanted mine…well – make me an offer! lol. The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. — Franklin Delano Roosevelt Nothing will ever happen if all possible objections must first be overcome. — Samuel Johnson |
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Peter, You’re already off the grid! When decent people follow their bliss, as Joseph Campbell would say, what they do benefits humanity as well as themselves. Isn’t that what work is? As a blind kid in public schools before that was common, the teasing — a rather nice word for it, actually — that I endured helped make me unfit for a 9-5, cubicled life. It also pushed me in the direction of doing what makes me happy — writing music, writing anything really and advocating for civil rights for blind Americans who are still mostly “un”employed. Being a volunteer publicist for the Performing Arts Division of the National Federation of the Blind (www.padnfb.org) is some of the hardest work I’ve ever done. But, knowing so many talented, inspiring people are out there slugging it out every day keeps me ehnergized. BTW, how comes all the engaged (not “to be married”) focused and productive people have ADHD? Is that just a label the chicken-driven society gives to the scary ones? |
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Brilliantly stated. Your words plinked out a melody for my soul. I’ve worked in the corporate world and hated it – have been an entrepreneur for most of the past four decades – starting at the age of 12. Those who don’t get the “game” of it after reading this, never will. It’s something one has to feel, and something that is rarely explainable. Great post, Peter. Thanks for sharing it. http://www.lindajhutchinson.com |
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1. Love you Peter; I also work many more hours than the amount of time spent sitting at my desk. I don’t know about other professions (o.k. I know about one, but I hated that profession and so I left it), but if you are in PR, if you aren’t working and thinking and networking and communicating and creating all the time, then you aren’t doing it right. It also isn’t as “safe” as you might think – simply put, in this economy, marketing & PR people are expendable. If your client isn’t happy – whether you are an independent contractor or whether you are in-house – then you are in trouble, no matter where you work. The trick – as you so appropriately ended with – is to end the day happy with yourself, happy with the day that has just passed, and looking forward to what the next day may hold. How that happens for any one person, well, that’s their business. Just had to put in a good word for the “desk job” holders! Not all of us are unhappy, you know! :-) (and we can network at the W Hotel at 3:00 p.m. if we feel like it – and if you can’t – well, again, you’re doing it wrong). |
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Here, here, Peter! We owe our crazy lifestyles — and yours is busier than most — to the wonderful advances in technology. Much like you said, I might be poolside in the middle of winter, but I’m working – and loving it! |
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Awesome! Thank you so much for this article. Your words are very inspirational because it reminds us that we need to be true to ourselves and follow our passion(s). Each of us have unique gifts and if we channeled them correctly, we could turn our dreams into realities and create a life on our own terms. |
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And THIS is why you have taken HARO to such great heights. Well stated. |
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Wow! I was riveted and inspired. Thank you. “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.” Henry Ford |
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Peter – I read your whole post out loud to my husband, who was busy running around to start the day at his own business. He’s had his business for 30 years. I’ve had my own business for just one year. He calms me when I wake up shakey and scared. My business is taking off, but my pipeline is not always full (yet). “You love what you do,” he says, ” YOU WILL SOAR!”. We both appreciated your post, and agree that you perfectly articulated why we believe our indepence is our path to happiness. Thank you! |
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Peter, Your post nailed it. Thank you. For so many people, 9-5 is, by definition, a real job and real work, regardless of what people do with that time. Some people don’t understand that watching the sun set perched on the hood of your rental car feeds your mind and, along with being just simple appreciation of something stunning, somewhere down the road you may be incorporating elements of that experience into a project (for “Mad Men” fans, think of Don Draper’s presentation for the Kodak Carousel- if you haven’t seen it, might be on youtube). As creative types, these are the things that enrich and inform us. They are why we continue to evolve faster and in a non-linear manner, why we’re more resourceful,and why we’re genuinely hungry for more. It is invigorating, liberating and satisfying. Many of my best projects came from what I call ‘pieces of ideas’ – a mix of partly formed ideas that never quite hit the mark along with elements of others that had legs and new elements to pull it all together. I’ve written some of my best stuff in diners and Starbucks and on beaches… on a 30th floor rooftop at night and, almost 20 years ago, on a portable word processor in the lyrically beautiful Barrymore Room at the old Bellevue-Stratford hotel in Philly (where I always half expected to see Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald float in). It’s been great, and the more I derive from it, the better it gets. |
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Peter you do don’t need to explain yourself. There are those who can’t handle the fact that if they didn’t go to work and have someone boss them around they would never get anywhere in life. It sounds like you have a tiny problem with authority! LOL BTW love HARO! Great idea helping others out like that. Keep doing what you are doing Peter you love it and we all can tell!! |
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And why would you want to report on Facebook or Twitter that you’re “sitting in an office.” That’s just boring! I only enter the random or interesting things… |
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Wish you had posted this last week while I was “working” from a ski resort in Chile (ok, mostly I was playing). I’ve worked for myself 12 years, longer than any other boss in my career. My corporate napping policy is among my favorite perks. Reminds me of the irate airline passenger yelling at a gate agent recently. She had to tell everyone our flight was canceled because the in-bound crew timed out after being diverted due to bad weather…his opinion was that they weren’t “working” when they were sitting on the ground…so I said — hey, when you’re sitting at your desk responding to personal emails, updating your Facebook page, or talking to your wife on the phone, you still expect to be PAID for a full day’s work, right? We all define “work” differently but in the end, it’s the results, happy clients and safe landings that really matter. Rock on, Peter! |
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I would say you are one of the most normal people I know. |
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Peter, well done! I have always been an entrepreneur and when I ventured into corporate I did it with that in mind. I have been an entrepreneur inside both major corps I have worked for the past 6 years and I have always said that I cannot succeed unless I am willing to be fired for doing a great job. I love pushing to the edge and driving new innovative business when others are unwilling to accept the challenge for fear of getting “the Boot!”. It is rewarding, it is always respected and most of all it keep my heart pounding. Oh and by the way…I was teased as a kid. |
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You go with your bad self! My philosophy is “Life is a game where you make the rules, so why aren’t you winning?” Where are you staying in Tampa? I’m at Clearwater Beach! |
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Your ‘work life’ is the kind that I strive for. You just seem to balance everything so well – work, fun, training for a marathon(!!) – all while being so incredibly successful. It’s truly inspiring. Even when I got to hang out with you at Harrah’s in Atlantic City for the night, having fun, I still understood that you were doing work that night. You just have the ability to make work fun… and I think some people (read: idiots) just don’t understand that concept. xo, |
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• Great stuff! Inspires me to do more with my biz. |
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Hi, Peter, Lovely post. I just retweeted it as the antidote to all the Tim Ferriss crap. (Maybe now they will stop comparing you to him.) Apples and oranges. Tim wants us to delegate work (and stop working) and you applaud the joys of working in a style that is suited to the individual. As a person who has been in pr “on my own” for almost thirty years (gasp!) I find I am never, ultimately, “on my own.” You know, given how we are All Connected, and all that stuff. In fact, I’m sure the Universe is so happy that some of us are out and about so we can meet up with the people we need to meet up with so more work gets done. I don’t know. I’m the other side of the coin, working from a home office with my Border Collies at my side. I haven’t filled my gas tank since I think it’s June, simply out of obstinacy. A quiet boycott, maybe. Or just to see how much I could get away with not participating in that exploitation. So working from home being my own boss works for me. The garden is only a few steps away. I don’t have to use public restrooms. You know. I’m way past plane jumping and even flying anywhere sounds like a trial, especially now. So, go for it, Peter! You were made for this high tech world. And if it were two hundred years ago you’d probably be riding a pony across some plain, don’t you think? It’s a fit. And I applaud the folks sitting in cubicles who find it a fit. I wouldn’t but maybe they do. Or maybe they need health insurance for their families. Being an entrepreneur is not for everyone, that’s for certain. Somebody said to me years ago (or I read) that being an entrepreneur is working 12 hours a day (or more) so you don’t have to work 8 hours a day for someone else. Some of us are cut out for one and some of us are cut out for the other. But it’s technology driving the choices, no doubt. Enjoy, Peter. Enjoy. And thank you for sharing your passion! It’s a healing balm for the world. |
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it’s all about taking a leap of faith…and don’t think it’s for just the young kids. The clear secret – loving what you do, then it’s not work. |
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Brilliant post, Peter. Inspiring for those like me who are fairly new to being out on our own and trying to create the new road as we travel. On most days, I can’t imagine why I did not think of it sooner… and occasionally when the cubicle forces sling their well-intended arrows do need a reminder that YES… this IS the path. Thanks for stating it so eloquently. |
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Very inspiring. Makes me believe I can accomplish more in a 24-hour time span than I give myself credit for. The most dangerous state of mind on the planet is “why me.” “Why me” properly translated means “I don’t want to do the work necessary to get out of my comfortable but bland zone.” I’m inspired to find the right balance in my life for making life/work fun and taking risks. Thanks, Peter |
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Work is a word that doesn’t do anyone any favors. It’s associated with doing unpleasant or tedious tasks. Even in the most uninspired of jobs people are there so they can provide, either for themselves or their family. For others they ‘work’ for the experience of creation, achievement, and fulfillment. It would serve our society well to update the language we use in association with having a job. |
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No sh&*! It’s not you, it’s them. You go brother! |
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Peter, If this is you “Not” working keep it up! Thank you for being brilliant enough to develop HARO, impressive and priceless resource. |
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Perfectly stated. I went out on my own almost exactly a year ago and while it’s been more difficult than I anticipated, it’s been the most liberating experience of my life. My husband is also a business owner and our friends and family simply don’t get it… “You work too much.”…”You never really work.”…”Don’t you want a normal life?” We just smile at each other and take that conference call from a tropical island, or send an e-newsletter from the top of a ski slope, and know that no one will ever really get it unless they do it. And we have yet to see a single one who has questioned or criticized have the guts to try it for themselves. Freedom comes at a price, but it’s a price we happen to love. |
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Damn, your words gave me chills. If I wasn’t married, I would jump a plan right now and kiss you! lol But in all seriousness, you are amazing. Not just in what you do, but how you do it. You’re a walking example of what some of us WANT to do, but don’t have the guts to go out and do. Being a recent college graduate, it’s been drilled into my head to get a good paying job, start saving for retirement, and always have health insurance. There was never any “Follow your Dreams!” or “Do what you love and the money will follow” pep talks. It was always the safe road. Safe, safe, safe. But your post made me think (and think hard) about what I want. Im young, and want to get the most of of life. I want to experience my loves, and enjoy each day. I don’t want to be stuck in my office from 8-5, 5 days a week, only to look forward to the weekend each Monday morning. I have ideas and dreams, and although they may seem far fetched, or something that may not have income in the beginning, its what I want to do, and what my heart continues to crave. So thank you Peter. Thank you for bringing HARO to the world. Thank you for speaking to those fortune to learn from you. Thank you.. for being you. |
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Awesome attitude, and I’m right there with you. I write this as I sit in my cluttered Scottsdale home office overlooking my pool, in my favorite jeans, drinking my 3rd cup of coffee – I’m working. Really. My question is, how do you get paid?? |
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Well said Peter! There is no ‘get rich quick’ mentality to any successful business person I’ve met. They live and breathe (and love) what they do — and that is what creates success. You are a great example of that. Having fun while working hard is key! I’ve had three businesses and work 50-60 hrs a week inside and outside the office….and I love every minute. |
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Hi Peter, The result? Although I’ve structured my life differently from yours because I really like to unplug, I often hear people say how much they wish they could take as many vacations as I do. I’ve purposely built my business (http://www.success-stream.com) to give me lots of freedom. I love what I do (helping small businesses take the stress out of marketing), and I work hard when I’m working. Then I play hard when I’m not. It’s a good life, and one I wouldn’t trade for all the financial security in the world. So good to know I’m not alone! Stacy Stacy Karacostas |
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You know, when I was working full time in advertising I used to describe meetings in exclusive bars, long days spent on commercial shoots with celebrities, client dinners at platinum card boites, trips to other cities and back in a day…and whenever someone gave me the “working hard or hardly working?” bs I never resented it. Well, maybe a little. Mostly it reminded me how lucky I was to be doing something–however brutal and backbreaking and exhausting and even at times demeaning–that other people only dream of doing. I realized that I wouldn’t have it any other way. Be grateful that you have the ability to follow your bliss. |
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I just read my life. |
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Peter, I got this about you as soon as I started following you and HARO, and you said you were ADHD and loved your job. People, especially those outside PR, hardly ever understand what I do either, but you sound like the ultimate dealmaker,… good for you! Now combine dealmaker, with ‘love to write,’ wife, caregiver for Mom, cat and dog sitter, and you have me. Can’t sit still long either. Go get ‘em, Peter, and thanks for sharing along the way! |
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What I find most amazing: that the jacket from Nordstrom fit off the rack. (Sorry, that’s how MY brain works.) |
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4 years ago I decided to start my own business and since then I love getting up every morning. I work hard and enjoy myself, just as you do. I know that I can accomplish great things and just becuase I work ‘strange’ hours to some or the fact that I can work around my kids schedules etc seems strange to some, but it is perfection! |
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Bravo, Peter, bravo! Your passion certainly shows in your post. Keep up the incredible work you do from wherever in the world you are doing it from. Love HARO! |
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I hear your words as they are the way I feel too. Although I haven’t had someone say do your work in a while, I live your kind of freedom. I set up my PR practice in 2001. I’m writing to you from our cabin in central BC, where we have spent the last month. This morning I wrote a release, set up two interviews, spoke with one client (who didn’t even notice I phoned from a different area code) and wrote a blog post. It’s now 10 am and the rainbow trout are jumping in the lake – it’s feeding time, so I’m off fishing for a couple of hours. And I’m taking my five-year-old with me… Now that’s living. |
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Peter, great post. I’m one of those sitting in my office because fear keeps me from chasing the dream. I don’t know if I have it in my makeup to go on my own. Maybe if I read your post over and over again. I saved your post just for that reason. |
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How does one think you get all these posts out? While flying around? Not to mention skydiving. I always figured you were flat out most of the time. I always figured you worked at least twice as hard as the rest of us – if for no other reason than I need more sleep than you. Ha! Obviously this bothered Peter – a lot. No need. I certainly figured out from the very beginning that his ADHD or OCD or whatever he has – is being used to excellent advantage. So bravo. |
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Peter, On mark! Last night as I got ready to sleep after replying to a journalist at 10:45 PM, formatting another query response and thinking of what to do for a client, I thought, damn, I love this job. When I read the next chapter in a new business how-to book and had an ah-ha moment at 11:45 PM regarding what I need to do for another client, I thought I love this job. When the gray morning let me sleep in a bit and I awoke with my first thought of the story idea that finally jelled, I thought, I love this job. When I interrupted the work to kiss my spouse, I thought I love this job. Yes, there are moments when walking the financial tightrope makes me freeze, but for the most part, I am my boss and I’m harder on me than anyone else. My creative side stays turned on and I stay plugged in and on all the time. As everyone has said, you don’t know where the next deal is coming from. Now, back to that report for my client… |
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Perfect. You have to do what’s right for you. It’s hard to explain to people why working incredibly long hours on something your passionate about isn’t really work it’s life, and it’s a rewarding life. In one blog post you’ve said it all. However you should take a vacation. Do it; it’s been long enough. Unplug for 1 week. Skydiving is the same effect but for 30-40 seconds. You’ll face and overcome a series of new challenges that will just make you even more unstoppable. |
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Actually, when I read your blog, I ask myself “Why don’t I do some work?” You strike me as having a very full, energetic and rewarding professional life. From one ADD to another – you go boy! |
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Caroline, I, too, have had that desk job. Loved it. Had freedom. Glad you spoke up for all those who choose the desk in an enlightened environment and know how to prosper in it. |
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Peter, Your natural energy and enthusiasm for life comes through in every line. I couldn’t agree more with your viewpoint. Fellow entrepreneur here. Have a couple different companies, and can’t imagine what it’d be like to work a 9 to 5 job with a boss, corporate policies and an annual performance review. Ugh! Just thinking about it makes me depressed. I’m so grateful that there are other people who are willing to take on the grind. They can have it. I’m happy to work hard, but I love my freedom! |
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I hear you loud and clear, Peter. I left a very stable agency job in the early 90s for what many thought was a life of sitting around in my PJs. Like you, I’ve found myself working while doing a multitude of other things, including writing a children’s book, training for a 1/2 marathon, playing the drums and never missing my daughter’s important events. My dad was an entrepreneur who was my biggest fan and I will never forget his sage words when I went out on my own. He said, “You’ll work harder than you can ever imagine, but in the end, it’s all yours.” |
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Peter you rock! As a fledgling solopreneur I have a foot in both worlds – the cubicle nation of petty sniping co-workers who tear each other down to feel better about their own stunted existences and the stay up til 4am building my website and creating my vision, not sure where the next client is coming from (or when) world of MY making. Needless to say, I much prefer the latter! It took me almost 25 years of not fitting in at any “job” I ever had to finally figure out that there wasn’t anything wrong with me, I simply wasn’t cut out to toe the company line. Kudos to you for learning that lesson much sooner! And yes it is challenging, especially when well-meaning loved ones tell me how lucky I am to have a job (in city government) that I can plan on retiring from twenty years from now – when the thought of staying here for twenty more minutes let alone twenty more years has me hyperventilating! Yesterday I took a vacation day from the “job” to spend time on the boat with my boyfriend, who threatened to throw my cell phone in the lake because I was taking business calls while sunning myself. He just didn’t get that I WAS relaxing! He’s a mechanical engineer who is very comfortable working for someone else, and as much as he supports the concept of having my own business he thinks it would be “safer” if it were more of a hobby (as long as it doesn’t interfere with my “real” job). So, for now I grow my practice and look forward to the day when I can walk away once and for all from the cube-cell and gleefully jump into the great unknown! Thanks so much for the reminder! |
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Great response! I started my own writing business in January. In July, I had a command performance “vacation” with my in-laws in my town. While my husband (with his annual two weeks of vacation couldn’t take the time off) commuted each day of the “vacation,” I plugged in my laptop and was able to work, in between naps and trips to the beach. Thanks, Peter! |
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The critical faculty has its value in correcting errors, reforming abuses, and demolishing superstitions. But the constructive faculty is much nobler in itself, and immeasurably more valuable in its results, for the obvious reason that it is a much nobler and better thing to build up than to pull down. It requires skill and labor to erect a building, but any idle tramp can burn it down. Only God can form and paint a flower, but any foolish child can pull it to pieces. God, I wish I’d said that! But JM Gibson did. You took a criticism or perceived criticism and became the builder not the tramp. I’m cautiously adding you to my blog links – cautious in that I may lose my readers to you! But no worries. You gave a message that serves a greater good. While not afraid of much of anything, I continue to strive to have it all – and it’s my all. And it works. Your reach it great – thanks for using it well. |
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Well, let’s be fair here: some people thrive in an office environment and actually prefer it over the chaos of jumping from place to place running the show. The whole “I probably work harder than a spreadsheet monkey” argument is just as insulting as those who accuse you of not working a real job. Of course the comments are rude, and come from a place of ignorance – just last week when I told a complete stranger I was a writer (at his inquiry), he responded: “Oh, that’s more of a hobby.” I simply smiled and said, “Not when you make a living at it.” Why perpetuate the gulf between office workers and movers-shakers? Why not embrace the fact that we all need each other to survive (I mean, Peter, who do you think actually cuts the checks you cash from all your hard work?). And why not – all of us – have a little humility in the face of the different and the unknown? That, to me, is far more rewarding than picking one side and judging the other. |
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What an amazing Blog Post! Congratulations for all your accomplishments! |
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You are absolutely blessed with the ability to tell a good story! And the fact that you enjoy doing so is plainly evident in every word. |
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I hope you didn’t feel the need to write this because of Calacanis’ post on Alley Insider yesterday. As far as I’m concerned, you’re one of the hardest working men in showbusiness!! |
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Are you kidding? I get exhausted just keeping up with your travels and I have more energy than most! Oh, I remember that Bev Hills Cop scene, too. I’ve always been awed by people who can string together so many words so fast. BTW, your 10th, anniversary is on my 45th birthday. |
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Shout out to Peter! Delivered, as always, in perfect form! Written as I take my boutique pr and marketing biz from the west coast to KUWAIT for 60 days :) yep, KUWAIT. Peter, I can’t wait until our paths cross. Until then, thanks for all you do. |
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Thank you for putting into words what I’ve had trouble explaining for years now. I was at a party the other day where the host introduced me as, “This is Kathy. She has it easy. She works from home.” All night long, I got the “must be nice” comment, as if I’d won the lotto. I’ve never worked harder in my life, and I’m putting in more hours than I ever put in while I was a cube dweller. I’ve also never enjoyed anything more. |
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Peter, I’ve always marveled at the pace that you keep. I see the HARO going out like clockwork so many times a week, and I know that it is just a portion of all that you do, and I often find myself thinking, “Wow, does that guy EVER sleep?!” So ignore the haters (or, as you rightly realize, the enviers). You are living the life that you made for yourself, getting by on passion, planning and perseverance. More power to you for maintaining that perfect balance, and still loving what you do after all this time! |
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I have been self-employed and working from home for almost 20 years now and though I came across this more so when the concept of working in a non-traditional environment was newer, I am still surprised when people think I somehow “have it made.” Granted, I have not worked while flying through mid-air — well, not literally anyway — hmmm…now I have lost my train of thought. |
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WELL SAID! Maybe the kick in the pants someone needed today and definitely reignited my fire. Thanks Peter! |
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I still think you could probably benefit from a REAL vacation :) |
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You GO Peter! I left that world of cubicles and hovering bosses 7 years ago (a month before 9/11) and while it’s been terrifying and exhausting, it’s still MY time to dictate. Yes I work all hours, weird hours really and seem to have a never-ending stream of projects (thank GOD), but I LOVE it. My kids love it too. I’m home when they’re home and they ‘get’ that I’m working so I can make time to be with them. You’re right too – people think that because I have a ‘virtual’ office that I’m sitting around eating bon bons and that is so FAR from the truth! Walk a mile in my beat-up New Balance and they’d see, it’s not for everyone and it’s not so easy to do. KUDOS and well said. |
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I couldn’t have said it any better. I not only work for myself, thank God, because I’ve done it the other way, but I am a Professional Development Coach who helps people get past what’s stopping them from deciding what vocation they REALLY want. I LOVE what I do and wouldn’t do anything else, despite some of the pitfalls of risk and lack of regularity of which you speak. |
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SO SO True. Great post. I left my desk job a few years back to go full time as a jewlery designer and there are still times that I say OMG OMG OMG … and days that I work 12 – 14 hours a day … but I wouldn’t go back to cubicle land without a fight. I feel like my business is actually on the brink of something amazing and THAT is worth a little worry here and there. I can’t wait to see what happens next. |
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Thank you for a great post, Peter! Judging from the response you’ve gotten, we all agree – you’ve got to be passionate about what you’re doing to really succeed and yes, you can work from a beach, atop a mountain or for that matter on “vacation”. Being my own boss is the best career move I’ve ever made. It sure can be stressful and uncertain at times but it’s all worth it! |
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Peter - Bravo on your post! I cannot tell you the number of times since I left my cube that I have heard similar comments. I hear them from fellow business owners too that feel my business is not as “legitimate” as theirs because I am not in the same place every day. As an ADD specialist, I congratulate you for finding a way to be successful! It is what I call turning a deficit into an asset. There is a common misconception that those with ADD are not as smart or not as serious. From what I have experienced, that could not be farther from the truth. Over the years I have learned that as long as I know I am living my priorities and values, it does not really matter what the naysayers say. |
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Peter rocks. I can admit I’m jealous – and I hope my independent business grows to be as successful as Shankman, Inc. His example of how to be virtual and successful is helping me to be braver and bolder about my choice to start my own business. I like to hear that he’s having an interesting day. Fueling while next to a wind farm? Excellent juxtaposition of energy use/source. While on the Metro North train – cool. In the duty-free lounge, dang! How did I miss that one??? I could use a new bottle of Boucheron … Trust me, there are others who tweet more during a day and say literally nothing. Give me a hundred of Peter’s shrewd observations, quick links to information and quirky commentary instead! Years ago, I did something very similar to HARO for former-WorldCom employees. I can tell you, Peter works hard to get that thrice-daily mailing compiled, edited, and transmitted. And the fact that he does so benefits thousand of people. Peter rocks. |
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Excellent post. The joys of being virtual and able to connect anytime, anywhere. That’s the beauty of it and you do it so well and are such an inspiration to those who want the same. Gives hope to many who long for this freedom. All my work is virtual, yet I still find it hard to break away from the desk, even if it is in my home office. I read posts like this and think, “I can do that too (well, except for the skydiving of course).” Thanks! I needed that. |
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Next time someone says that to you, just smile and say: Don’t hate the player; hate the game. |
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I often get this comment – sometimes people think art is not work. This was brilliantly written Peter! |
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Enjoyed and sympathized with the the rant, and especially enjoyed the AMA presentation today in Tampa. After having gone out on my own almost a year ago, it’s always nice to hear from people who go through the same struggles. Hope you get to enjoy a little bit of your Florida trip! |
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Spot on, Peter. Working for myself doesn’t feel like work, and I work much harder in my own business than I ever did for someone else. “Those people” don’t seem to understand that you have no control over your life if you’re working for someone else. “They” remark at how I can take a day off during the week like I’m playing hookey, when in actuality I’m working in the morning before I leave, and in the evening when I return, in addition to the other 6 days a week. The “9-5 grind” mindset is a hard one to break. After nearly 20 years of self-employment, there’s no way I could ever go back to the internment camp of corporate life. |
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Sweet, you’ll be in Minneapolis at 10 years and a day. We’ll celebrate. |
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Attention Surplus Advantage |
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You got that right Peter. You really did. I’m an entrepreneur. It simply drives me nuts when someone says, “Are you working today?” As if my work is not work. I am passionate about what I do. It is in my blood. Work for someone else? Not in the cards, the stars, the sun, or the moon. Let’s hear it for entrepreneurs everywhere! Out of the box thinkers on a ride to their own destiny. Best, Nancy |
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EXACTLY. |
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Maybe she was just pushing your buttons. That’s what friends are for. :P But good reads. It’s a tough job, but somebody’s gotta keep the cube-dwellers entertained. |
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First, great article, great points made, and I feel like I have a lot in common with you. Though my ADHD is undiagnosed :). One thing I did want to clarify, however, is why does this post sound kind of, i dunno, angry? when you clearly love your job and life, and the people bugging you about ‘not working’ don’t even mean it in a negative way towards you (and you know that!)? I guess what I’m saying is your premise for this blog seems to be to prove these naysayers wrong… when in fact, their comments don’t bother you… or do they? I don’t think you’re really bugged by them… but this post makes it sound like you are. Just my 2 cents :) |
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Peter ~ Love love love this post. I am employed, though in a very entrepreneurial company. That’s 40+ hours, plus I’m writing a book (with AMACOM – due out in spring of 2009) on customer service, plus I do consulting, plus plus plus. “You’re a workaholic!” some say. “No, I live a very full life and I LOVE what I do,” I respond. Amen – if you don’t love what you do, quit and do something else. Follow your bliss and the money will come. |
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Truer words never spoken. If I may paraphrase…if you love what you do, then you’re happy for others, whatever they’re doing that makes *them* happy. If you’re jealous – then look at your own life. It’s your own “job” to make yourself happy. There are no victims, no woulda/shoulda/coulda, just an opportunity to go for your dreams — just as you have done, Peter! Kate (and Angel) |
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I have so much ADD I didn’t have to finish reading the post. Naturally, you make perfect sense – but that’s what other like minded people are saying about it right now. People who live from the comfort of their own little boxes cannot see what’s outside the fourth wall. Never-mind the saying “think outside the box,” the box is life itself to so many people. I’m not technologically savvy yet, but boy, if I could think as fast as the technology supports, I’d be much more like you Peter. I’m getting there at a slower pace, but I consider you my new 21st Century web guru. I hope one day we can all figure out how to work, play, be happy and create with no interruption to our lives. Keep it up. Shine that HARO LIGHT on us and don’t stop. |
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THANKS PETER! Tell ‘em! I a mother of seven children and although I make tons of sacrifices, reading this today only proves to me – we ROCK! I got to say I ENJOY my J-O-B any day! |
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Great thoughts. Everyone is having the same thought this week. Ok, back to work! |
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This was like reading about myself when I jumped off the bridge eight years ago from a big-money, big-time, big-pain job and started my company. Sometimes the fear is unbearable, but the excitement, diversity and just plain fun can’t be beat. Thanks for affirming my thoughts!!! |
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Way to go Peter :) |
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Here, here! Since 1999, I have heard this countless times. I’m sending my “haters” this blog post! |
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And this is why there’s an “I heart Peter Shankman” group on Facebook. Bravo, Peter. Brilliant post! |
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Fabulous…………keep going and turn it into a book. We need more of it. I loved every word.You are truly an inspiration in the way you think and tell it. Continue to tell it to the world. |
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Wow, very well said. I only have one question… Why DON’T you take a vacation? Even a nice long weekend with no phone or computer. Because you did kinda sorta sound a little bit envious in that part. :) All the best, |
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I thought I was going to be sick…. Before commencing writing, I caught up on my email, where a friend commented that she’d replied to your article. I have just read through all of this and feel as if a great weight is lifted…there’s guidance, there’s inspiration, there’s confirmation. Indeed, the universe conspires to help when one is “following their bliss.” |
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Awesome words Peter! But I think that it takes all of us to make the world work. If everyone worked just a few hours a day, who will take our deposits at the bank?! :) Okay, okay… seriously it DOES take all types to make the world work. |
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People freak out when I tell them I started in PR at 13 years old. I’m 40 something and I’ve loved each day of work. The past 4 years have been even better since I’m driving the bus. I feel so sorry for all those folks who hate their work and watch the clock. Thanks for laying it out there. BTW – I’ve found that a little time away from the “office” allows me to refocus on what I really what from my life/work and how to get there. Its a planning session. |
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Need some entrepreneurial inspiration? Watch as the passion for one’s work jumps off the screen in this very insightful, honest, and motivating blog post by PR entrepreneur Peter Shankman, founder of HelpAReporterOut.com |
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Amen, Peter! Please, please, please. Don’t tell me to put down my BlackBerry, or “relax” on a weekend, or stop thinking of new ways to grow and expand, or — worst yet — just pick one thing and stick with it. I am living life just the way I want to. Yes, that means personal/business/love/friendship/home/family/work/nonprofit/politics is one big blur of energy. But that’s what keep me alive, happy and sane. Peter, you nailed it in this entry! |
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Well said, Peter! There is a life outside of the “box”! A big and beautiful life! Thanks for saying it straight. |
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You must be the change you want to see in your future. For the “do some work” comment. You work for yourself, set the rules and laws of which the work ethic you choose to follow. The fact you do not have a family to suppport, other than Karma and Nasa, and they seem to be pretty easy going with your life style, I mean, come on they benefit from you working so hard. Excellent post Peter! Still inspiring as always. Posts like this and those I read in Michele’s “Do I Need To Slap You” book, inspire me constantly and let me reflect on the changes I have made (personally & professionally)and remember I am changing the stars of my future, for the better. You rule as always Peter! |
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Great post; I hear the same thing about my job. What no one gets to see is that I’m “working” even when I’m at home, or on vacation, or hanging out with my family. It’s the life of the happily self-employed – freedom to direct your own schedule but a drive to work incessantly because the lines between work / life / play are always blurred. |
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I hear this too…and I don’t care! I have made the intent to design my life so I can go anywhere and still do what I love! More people need to free their mind and get out of the “norm”. There are so many miserable people who keep doing what they think they “should”, what society has told them to, and that’s their choice. I have had several businesses, I have worked hard a long time, and now I am interested in life! I love to “work”: write, talk, make audios, videos, interview, talk to people…but my real passion is to live life, travel, experience new and fun people, places… I love that I can work from almost anywhere! |
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Wow…the only thing that I hate right now is that I did not write the piece. Peter could not be more right on! As a computer executive, parent, fiction author (who will make a movie), magazine writer, board member to several national organizations, fully addicted multi black belted martial artist, skydiver, traveler, master goldsmith, avid and highl… Read Morey active political policy advocate & junky, I am with you. There is not one achievement that didn’t come with a price and some have just paid dividends. The people who are saying get to work are the same people who call you rich and want to redistribute your wealth to the people who don’t work as hard as you. I will add only one thing to your very articulate piece, “Those who say it can’t be done, should not interfere with the person doing it.” Some really smart Chinese guy said that a long time ago! How did he know? |
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OK, I’m way late in posting because I was traveling but maybe you’re still reading comments. Just wanted to say what everyone else has said too – I love what you said. I’ve been doing a similar thing (as in MY own thing) for over four years now and every month I make enough to not have to get a “traditional” job is a month I say a prayer of thanks! I have two small kids and have somehow managed to work from home and be a full-time mom the whole time. I love what I do, it’s never felt like work, even when I’m doing it at 2 am because that’s when I can focus! Thanks for reminding me why its so great, and why I will take the stresses that come along with balancing work with a 5 year old and a 3 year old any day. I sure would love to be a fly on the wall in your life for a week though, and see how you market yourself so well… :). |
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Hi, Peter. I’m so glad I read this. Thanks for writing it. Thought of this James Michener quote as I read along and wanted to send share it. “The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he’s always doing both.” |
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I do believe you just articulated my ideal work life… Preach on Peter! |
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I’m totally with you on this. Having been self-employed for two decades, I’ve gotten this comment over and over. How dare they? You know, we’re lucky. We work for ourselves, set our own schedules, work when we want and when we don’t. We also don’t get vacation and sick leave benefits, we pay our own insurance, we work well into the night when other’s sleep. They never see the tradeoffs. They often are envious but take it out in a passive-aggressive way … don’t let them get you down. |
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Beautifully stated Peter! When I tell people I am self-employed they assume I get up at Noon and work in my PJ’s. Wrong! By being self employed I work even longer hours, take fewer vacations where I am not “plugged in” and like you there is often a very thin line between work life and social life. |
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Well, although I own my own business and work from home, I was able to take off four weeks this summer to travel and visit my family, because I outsource to my fabulous Shelancers. (Our term for women who are freelancers.) Do I outsource everything? No. Did I bring my laptop? Yes. But I only checked it once each day, and my business ran smoothly. I absolutely LOVE my work. However, my husband and kids love me, so I have to put it aside so they know that work is still my #2 passion behind them. But, it was interesting when I was visiting family during that trip. They kept asking “Now WHAT do you do?” And, “how is it that you’re here and not working?” ;) Peter, your article was wonderful. Thank you for sharing your passion and experience. |
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#142 — Jess — right on with your comments. We’re all interconnected, and different people function best in different environments. I work for a nonprofit, handling all their writing and media & PR. I’ve spent entire days of my “desk job” out in the field with a film crew or gathering info I need to write about our programs. For me, this office job gives me the security I want, with the freedom to be creative too. |
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Brilliant!! Thanks for a well-written thesis I could hand my husband to help him understand why I work the way I do and why my laptop has joined us on every vacation we’ve ever taken. |
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Peter, you are my hero! When I left the world of TV and ad agencies to do PR and work from home, some people thought I was crazy. Others loved to mention how “nice it must be to work at home in your PJs.” Yah, my self-diagnosed case of ADHD is perfect for PR. I can work anytime, anywhere and quite frankly…I need to be working or checking emails, no matter where I am. You’d be amazed how much I can do while traveling, waiting in line, going to a sports event. I guess I should feel better about waking early now to wake up. It really is the only time to get a workout without dealing with phone calls or emails. |
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Kudos to you, Peter. I can’t tell you how many times after I say, “I’m sorry, I don’t schedule meetings before 10:00am,” … I’ve been told, “Must be nice!!!!” Yes, it is nice. And the trade-off is that I usually work until 11pm or later. I don’t mind one bit, but it’s crazy to me that people equate a later start time with laziness. :) |
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Thanks for a really great blog, Peter. I forwarded this to my husband who has medically diagnosed ADHD and also isn’t a huge fan of structure or boundaries (but loves the book “Learning Outside the Lines”!). I am very impressed with how you’ve been able to use your talents successfully given your situation. |
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I just love love love this post! This is my life and inspiration. Only an entrepreneur can truly understand this article. Thank you for sharing and now I know I am not the only one! |
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This was great to read. Finally realised that the cubicle life was not for me either and yeah, it is frightening and exhilerating and fun and crazy and I never stop working – now that I work for me, and only me! This is sometimes like the responses I get from some of my friends (on a much smaller scale of course) – its good to see I’m not the only one! |
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Envy is a sad thing. If showing up is 90% of success, you’re showing up big time and your advice is right on. Too many would rather whine than actually take responsibility for doing it. Nike said it. Just do it. You are a shining example and I’m taking it to heart. Maybe a few others should too. Thanks for the energy boost. Less whining and more doing, would boost US productivity in amazing ways. Thanks! |
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I’m so relieved to know that I am not the only one who hears this! I am never quite sure how to respond without sounding defensive or mean, but I didn’t become an entrepreneure to work conventionally. Home or mobile office, meeting others and building relationships, the whole enchilada – I LOVE it and I wouldn’t change it for the world. I do my best on my blog to encourage others, especially women, to take the leap too – life is too short to rot away in a cubicle. Great post! Together, we are stronger. |
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Create a way to make a living around your lifestyle, not a lifestyle around your living and you never have to go to work and you never dream of retirement! |
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I’ll copy this and paste it next time i’m asked… Cheers mate, Cacharrón |
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Amen! Although I often procrastinate on good blog ideas (as you mentioned in another post), this one was so good that I had to write about it right away on my freak factor blog. The premise of the freak factor is that our apparent weaknesses are clues to our biggest strengths. Instead of fixing what seems to be wrong with us, we need to find situations that fit our unique style. It sounds like this is exactly what you have done. Thank you for providing a great example and congratulations on your cartoon. |
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great words Peter, and also the way that I’m trying to live my life now! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK |
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How NICE to hear from a fellow non-traditionalist! I too “work” at odd hours and in odd places. I got a client a major story in the “Wall Street Journal” once from the back of my horse; I’ve signed new clients while looking at petroglyphs in New Mexico; I’ve answered media inquiries while getting ready to go ride Icelandic horses over lava fields outside Reykjavik. I’m not often at my desk, but I’m almost always available when I’m needed. I’m celebrating 10 years of running my showcase PR firm (think “solo” but with add-on assistance as needed from a great network). My husband gave me a lovely leopard-print bathrobe for my birthday last year, happily announcing “look, I got you new office wear!” There are downsides, but the reality is that today’s technology makes the idea of an “office” a very flexible one. Too bad so many people just don’t realize that. |
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Wow! What an incredibly articulate, inspiring post. Peter, I have just discovered you through Seth Godin’s blog and cannot wait to read more. Our world needs more people who boldly challenge us to step up and live courageously – whatever that looks like. The adrenaline rush of authentic action looks different for everyone, yet it could power the world many times over. |
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Wooohooo! Thanks Peter for telling it like it is. Personally, I prefer the forest and my dogs to an office and water cooler. I also love choosing my clients and making my own rules. I would have liked to have avoided the demoralizing of multiple boots by not understanding earlier. And, that and a few personal rude awakenings are what brought me back to my true nature. It’s always been my way to help people. (I started doing social work in the 4th grade organizing group games so everyone could play.) So I’m back to doing it again. And, now we’re all grown up! I’m a guide to women who wonder like I did, “What the hell is wrong?” I’m a social worker of sorts, a community organizer for ADHD women. We bring play back in to work, or work in to play, depending on how you look at it. What an really cool world we would live in if more of us participated in life, work and play like we did (or should have been able to) as kids. Like I said… Wooooooo Hooooooo! |
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It’s a sign of the times that your workplace and your working hours are up for the individual to define. Often I get the most out of my time by working at home rather than in the office where I can be frequently interrupted. |
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lovely peter. enjoyed the helicopter ride – and now your fabulous musings on the benefits of working in your own environment. i too, have managed to work from where ever, often in my bathrobe at the kitchen table, mostly in my car driving in the service of family and home. i have created a product for emergency preparedness called the Ice-Qube. check out my website at ice-qube.com. |
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This was an amazing post. I’m just one year into work and I’ve been struggling with the idea that productivity is not defined through the hours you put in at the office. I want to generate the most value I can in my career and I know that that won’t always be done in an office. I started a blog about career value and general and I hope that the realisation I made in this entry http://marinacilona.com/2008/0.....-and-rain/ is my first on the way to thinking about things in the way you do. So thank you. Marina |
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This article is perfectly timed in my life. I’ve spent the past few weeks putting together plans to get my own thing going and I your post gave another much needed push. Thank you for sharing this. |
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I’ve never read any of your posts before and only half of this one (at work), but…you’re awesome. |
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Most people just don’t know what work is… or what work can be. Excellent post. |
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Great read and I know exactly what you mean. Some people just don’t get it- work and play can be virtually the same if you are willing to go after what you want. |
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AMEN! I am right there with you! I work from home and I love it! Keep doing your thing! |
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I just love love love this post! This is my life and inspiration. Only an entrepreneur can truly understand this article. Thank you for sharing and now I know I am not the only one! |
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I agree completely! But I still struggle to get over the guilt I feel when I’m not in my office. I can work anywhere and often do, but many people think I’m goofing off. Thanks for the great justification (not that we need one…). |
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The best… :) |
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Very interesting post! |
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I never understood people who complain day in and day out about their jobs but refuse to leave and try something else. Being an entrepreneur is very hard work full of satisfaction and excitement. It’s not a one size fit all world, which is why there are so many options out there. |
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Keep movin, Peter! This is the right way. I work from home and have much more then my office collegues from “last life” :) |
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Most people don’t know you make more in a hour then most make in a year! “If you work with your hands you work for the rest of your life. If you work with your mind you never work again” Go Peter Go |
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I have had several businesses, I have worked hard a long time, and now I am interested in life! I love to “work”: write, talk, make audios, videos, interview, talk to people…but my real passion is to live life, travel, experience new and fun people, places… I love that I can work from almost anywhere! |
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I agree completely! But I still struggle to get over the guilt I feel when I’m not in my office. I can work anywhere and often do, but many people think I’m goofing off. Thanks for the great justification (not that we need one…). |
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I agree completely! But I still struggle to get over the guilt I feel when I’m not in my office. I can work anywhere and often do, but many people think |
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This article is perfectly timed in my life. I’ve spent the past few weeks putting together plans to get my own thing going and I your post gave another much needed push. Thank you for sharing this. |
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Sent your blog about doing what you love to a life coach who works with ADD/ADHD’ers. I don’t call it ADD anymore, I made up my own name for it: Attention Abundance Condition. (couldn’t think of a positive “D” replacement word) There’s no deficit here! |
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Great job. You are right on target in how you are feeling. For me, the thrill comes from making my own decisions compared to somebody always telling me what to do. I learned I can make great decisions and I did have good ideas. Many times I would see all the stupid mistakes a boss or company owner would make and how terrible employees are treated and how customers are taken for greated and I would say: “I can do a much better job!” There is a big difference working seven days a week for yourself and your own company compared to working seven days a week for somebody else. One is fun and the other is horrible. Keep up the good work. |
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Love this post! As a ‘creative’ some of my best ideas come from a hike in the desert or a walk through a botanic garden. The mind is always working! |
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I think this is the best thing I’ve read in a long time. I totally feel the same way, seeing it put into words amazes me. I’m buying your book now. Is it available in audio as well? |
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You said in this blog what I think often. My office is in my house and when I tell people that, they assume that I do nothing but chase the dog or that I have an internet business and sit on eBay all day. Truth of the matter is that I rack up about 2000 miles a month on my car and rack up so many frequent flyer miles that I may never have to pay for a flight again as long as I live. Through all of that, I manage to keep 37 employees and over 300 clients out of trouble. I often work 12 – 14 hours a day and still manage to get to Indians baseball games and many, many music events as well as other social events. I learned a long time ago, having ADHD works in my favor as I am able to juggle multiple things which means I have just as much social life as I would have only working 8 hours a day like a normal person. And I can’t believe the number of people that utter those words: “I wish you’d work!”. I’d like to see them try! |
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Well stated. 2 similar stories, both related to chambers of commerce – not because they’re any more clueless than the rest of us, but because that’s part of the circle I roll in, I guess… At most chamber events I attend, as I’m leaving, someone inevitably says: “Well, guess I’d better get to work.” “I *am* working,” I always say. Sometimes they actually get it… And then a chamber exec, who travels a great deal himself, sort of chides me because I took his call when I was traveling, and happened to be at a Starbucks working away at the laptop. “Don’t tell my staff you can do that, I’ll never keep ‘em in the office.” Wow, pops, welcome to the 21st century. The first statement may be just rhetorical; a different way of saying “gotta get to the next thing.” The latter is purely clueless… |
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Great post – I love working every day! It is fun for me – and when I am in a building the windows actually OPEN. : ) |
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This was my Demotivator this morning http://despair.com/gettowork.html It’s a personal choice how to live, work and play. I’ve been heckled for taking my laptop everywhere, even short trips. Don’t care. Many times I’ve been on a workation, got a good lead, turned around a quick release or design project. Clients were happy, no idea I’d been snorkeling that morning, or was going to Disney World that night. It’s the work that matters. FWIW. |
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Here-here Peter. Not only do I work mobile, but now with airplane wi-fi I work “in-air”, too. Work is work however it is packaged for you- the individual. Kudos on the story. |
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Dear Peter, This is a wonderful post! Thanks for sharing your thoughts (and schedule!). I think one thing that can sometimes be hard to see from the outside is how much the lines between personal time and work time can blend together when you have your own business (but also how rewarding and fun it can be and the flexibility it can give you, not to mention that you get to do what you love). I hope you will always continue to love your work and your life, while making a difference. |
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Thank you, Peter, for writing this post! I felt a sense of relief when I read it. I can SO relate. |
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Well stated, Peter! I get this all the time from my roommates, who still mistakenly believe that the road to independence and self-sufficiency resides in the job they have with an employer. Just because they’re playing video poker or Guitar Hero when they’re sitting in front of their computer, they assume that’s what I must be doing when they see me at mine. Never mind that blogging, FaceBook and Twitter keep me in front of and conversing with hundreds, if not thousands, of potential clients. Like you, my business is about getting face time with people, showing them my portfolio, and teaching them what to look and listen for in their circles of influence, so they know when to hand their friends my card and say “call this guy, he can help you”. That can’t happen from behind a desk. It happens at parties and tweetups and lunches and coffee shops and bowling alleys and supermarkets. It *can* happen Monday thru Friday from 9 to 5, but that’s the exception rather than the rule. For me, more often than not, it’s before or after “business hours”, on weekends, while I’m also doing “something else” like taking a walk, chillin on the beach, or shopping for groceries. I met one of my best clients by, quite literally, bumping into a complete stranger at Costco, and striking up a conversation. But my roomies, in their self-imposed blindness, think that all I do is sit around and goof off all day, while they’re busy “working”. I’d like to see them *try* and do my job. Or yours. Their pathetically narrow minds would be hiding in the corner and crying for mommy within minutes. |
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Since I met you at SXSW in March, I’ve been a lurker. I have read, and no doubt appreciated, your posts for nearly six months without a single comment. That’s messed up. Yesterday, the #Broman con-call brought me to this post. And I’m super-pumped that it did. This post outlines how I feel about life in general. Except people are saying to me “you’re so lucky” because I got a sweet internship, that will hopefully lead to full-time employment, before I graduated college. I have been working at a top PR firm in Chicago since June, and I graduate this weekend. Why? Because I’m a networking machine. I’m too am always working, no matter if it’s on the bus, at a bar, or anywhere inbetween. But, like you, it’s never once felt like work. Even in my little intern cube, I’m sublimely happy because what I’m doing (most of it anyway) is what I love. I’m coming to find out through this experience that I’m not cut out for the cube. I’ll probably ride that wave so I can learn the industry, but eventually I want to be working from my bed, a plane, a cruise ship, wherever life takes me. Kudos to you for squashing the nay-sayers. Star performers are undoubtedly ridiculed by those who don’t get what we’re doing. It happens. And we’re better for it. Keep on keepin’ on. And I promise I’ll comment more often. |
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Great article. I agree working in a cubicle everyday would drive me crazy. Congratulations this is great – “October 28th will be 10-years since I incorporated my first company. For the past 3,650 days, I’ve done nothing but work. But you know what? It’s never once felt like it.” |
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Peter gets to the heart of why 70% of the “work”force” are unhappy and 50% are looking for new jobs. They simply do not have enough passion for their jobs or fun doing their jobs. FUN jobs like professional sports where men and women are paid millions to “play” is extremely hard “work” or “EXTREME FUN” and it is a matter of attitude which one it becomes and it seems the real winners almost always go to the top of their profession having “fun”! |
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Well said! Ignore the haters. I’m so tired of hearing the same b.s. from people who made choices in their lives that restrict their freedom (kids, oppressive mortgage, etc.) and then spew vitriol at those of us who didn’t make those choices and/or know how to steer around the roadblocks. I deliberately avoid including the naysayers in my circle of peers, acquaintances, and certainly friends. We are fortunate enough to live in a country where you can make your life into anything you desire as long as you’re willing to work at it and employ a great deal of commitment. Yay for that! |
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Well said Peter- I need to print this out and hang it on my office wall. :) |
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It doesn’t matter how many times I read through other bloggers’ perspectives on entrepreneurship and breaking out of the cube, I never get tired of it. I love hearing individual experiences, and I’m finally doing it myself. Quit my job last week, and am transitioning out of my position. Can’t wait to be free and 100% solo. |
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Some people (like Peter) can chalk up their entire success to the personality attributes that make them basically unemployable in “the real world.” And I don’t know about you, but as my own boss, I expect more from myself and my “work day” than any “boss” I’ve ever worked for. (Hence posting comments on Peter Shankman at 6AM.) ~Rev. Sherry |
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Amen, sir, amen. While I’m a little of both — the 10-plate spinner and the cubicle gal — I totally agree that it’s all about the results, not the process. In fact, some of your most loyal followers are on my staff and they’d like to try this work-where-you-want-when-you-want approach but they don’t think I’d let them. My answer: Do it, and know that I will expect that your results will be equal if not better than if you were in the office!! |
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I’ve been self-employed most of my life. One business I owned a while ago gave me the opportunity to talk to entrepreneurs all day long. I learned that what you said here (quoted below) is absolutely true. They all told me much the same thing: “If you go out and interview 10 entrepreneurs, I guarantee that almost every single one will say that they got teased as a kid, they were different, etc. And where are the kids who teased me? I’ve got no idea – but I’d be willing to bet they’re in a cubicle somewhere. And again, that’s cool – if they’re happy.” The old joke is that later in life the A students all get jobs working for the C students. My take on it is, if you are being teased and criticized it just means that you are doing something special and extraordinary and making a bigger effort than average. So … Smile and carry on. Shrug it off and enjoy your life. Keep up the good work. Thanks for this great post. And this one too: http://shankman.com/how-to-jai.....-you-want/ Best wishes, Mark Nolan |
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I’m also not a content shift-person, even though I work a job, I’d rather much be pounding out 16 hour days on my gig. As soon as my own gig crashflow positive and providing me with enough to replace my income, I’m going to move on. Your post inspires me to grab a laptop and travel, see the world, and get tons of work done. Although, I manage to make as much money as someone with a degree(two jobs + I work twice as many hours as everyone) I feel I was always meant to be a total and complete entrepreneur, be it acting, music, online business, or what ever else can be considered entrepeneurial. And I’ve found that I’m really passionate about building online services and writing. The two seem to make me tick. Thanks for inspiring me to work even harder and take up traveling(even though that was probably not the idea of your post, more of an example of what works for you personally.) Clinton |
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“If you go out and interview 10 entrepreneurs, I guarantee that almost every single one will say that they got teased as a kid, they were different, etc. And where are the kids who teased me? I’ve got no idea – but I’d be willing to bet they’re in a cubicle somewhere. And again, that’s cool – if they’re happy.” The old joke is that later in life the A students all get jobs working for the C students. My take on it is, if you are being teased and criticized it just means that you are doing something special and extraordinary and making a bigger effort than average. So … Smile and carry on. Shrug it off and enjoy your life. Keep up the good work. |
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Inspirational piece. Its the perfect work life balance that we constantly strive for, read about, attend work shops out but never really work out of the box enough to live a balanced life. |
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I think the fact that I found this post three years after it was written and that up until now it’s had 293 comments, says a lot about how good it is. Now do some work! |
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