I am so sorry, Peter. She was a beautiful girl and she was lucky to have you.

You’re a good dad.

peter…

I’m so very sorry for your loss… i look at my baby girl Doña (a lot more these days that she’s entered her senior years) and start to ache when i think about letting her go. And my girl Princesa too…

My heart goes out to you. truly…

and you were right… it was good Karma… she will come back to you…

Karma’s life was rich because you loved her and thousands of people thought about her. Your life is rich because she spent a third of your life in it. My condolences.

I’m so sorry Peter ….

It is a love that never wanes. Peace to you.

Peter, I’ve been where you are. The darn things — they worm their way into your heart and because their lifespans aren’t as long as ours, we know that someday we’ll be here.

Imagine that you were able to give this creature — another species from you and I — a happy life full of love that she reciprocated. Enough that you feel crushed at her loss. That’s a gift. The pain you feel is an acknowledgement of that gift.

Peter, I am so sorry to read this. I have followed along with you and your stories of Karma for years. She lived a blessed life. Hugs to you. xx

So sorry for your loss.

Peter, I’m so sorry for your loss! As a fellow cat lover & owner, my heart completely breaks for you. I’ve had to put down both my dog & cat that I had since they were weeks old and I was completely devastated. The one thing that helped me get through it was the song “Together Again” by Janet Jackson. Listen to it when you have a second….I promise it will make you feel a little better. Karma will always be in your heart!

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss. You did the right thing…family is family.
You were the best thing to happen to her.
Isn’t it amazing how fast those little gray tigers make the transition from homeless and hungry to running your home?

Peter, I’m sorry for your loss. I enjoyed hearing your comments about Karma over the years. She was quite the girl.

Condolences, Peter. There’s no other loss like losing a beloved pet.

I’m so sorry Peter. I’ve been in your shoes more times than I want to admit and I know how hard it is. Hopefully NASA will do his best at keeping you company – I’m sure he’s very good at that. My best wishes are with you.

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your wonderful tribute to Karma.

Oh, Peter….
You’ve got me in tears and snuggling my pup as tight as I can…. Hugs to you and NASA.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’ve been in your position before, so I have some idea of how it feels. Doing the right thing in this case is one of the hardest things to do, even though you know it is what is best for your furry friend. It’s been almost 7 years and I still cry when I think about it. Thinking of you.

I saw your tweet regarding Karma, and had to reply. I am so sorry for your loss. Pets really are family members, and its painful when they depart. My heart goes out to you.

I had to stop half way through this poem because I started to cry. Crazy.. but it reminded me of losing my Mom. Some cuts are wide and deep enough that healing if ever possible (not) is a process that never quite seems to end. God Bless Karma:) she is healthy, happy and ….will be there :)

For those of us who thrive on the business environment, pets are silmultaneously illogical and completely a requirement. Family.

I am very sorry for your family’s loss.

Peter, I’m so sorry for your loss! As a fellow cat owner & lover, my heart completely breaks for you. I’ve had to put both my dog & cat to sleep that I had since they were weeks old. It was the hardest thing I had to do. I was devastated. The one song that came on the radio after I put my dog to sleep was “Together Again” by Janet Jackson. I will never forget it…listen to the song when you get a chance. I promise it will make you feel a little better…Karma will always be in your heart in more ways than one!

Oh Peter, you reduced me to tears. Time heals, but it takes it own sweet one. Please know you have friends around the world who ache with you and for you.

You and Karma found eachother at a time when you both needed someone to love- and just reading this one blog post I can feel the love you shared radiating from my computer screen. One can only hope she’s surrounded by everything she loves right now- purring up a storm and feeling an incredible sense of peace.

I’m so sorry Peter. Sending you lots of love. xo

Karma was lucky to have you as her Dad. She lived a rich spoiled, pampered life. Bliss! :)

Sending hugs to Meagan too for having to handle that on yor behalf.

This had me crying. I have three cats, all adopted strays, and I’m going to go and give them a hug after this. Really – I’ve very sorry for your loss, and I know that even when it’s their time, it can be really tough.

With great love comes great loss. I am so sorry, Peter. What a gift her life has been…thank you for sharing her with us~ xo

I’m so sorry. We don’t get them long enough. Our love for them is what makes their lives [and ours] rich. I just hugged my dog and cat.

All I can say is I understand your loss and hope you and NASA stop hurting and begin to smile when you think of her.

So sorry to hear of ur loss! Prayers ur way and may u one day be reunited w/dear sweet Karma! Sounds like u were a wonderful dad to her and she was lucky to have found u… cats do pick their owners!!

So sorry to hear of Karma’s passing. These furry creatures become so entwined in our lives, so much our family it is difficult to say goodbye. This is a very nice dedication and she will be with you forever.

The pain of losing a pet is more real than non-pet-owners can ever understand. What a sweet tribute. She’s missing you as much as you miss her, I’m sure.

I’m so sorry for your loss and so proud of your committment.

Peter, I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. You did exactly what any parent would do though – you were there for your baby when she needed you. I would do the same for any one of my furbabies if it was their time.

Take your time and grieve as much as you need to. Just know that Karma is, indeed, waiting for you on Rainbow Bridge, purring as she watches you from her new home.

*hugs*

So sorry Peter.

Sorry for your loss Peter. Brings back memories of loved ones who I grew up with. Unconditional love says it all.

Thank you for sharing
Mahei

Touching, sorry for your loss, this blog will touch so many hearts, thank you

So sorry Peter.

I had my own Karma, and she looked a lot like yours. Coolest cat I’ve ever come across.

She disappeared after being left outside for days while I was in the hospital after emergency brain surgery. I suspect the lost a valiant battle to a local coyote (she was also the toughest cat I’ve ever come across).

Anyway, sorry again. Brought back some memories for me as well (I was more upset about losing my cat then I was about the brain surgery, which turned out fine).

So sorry to hear. Your story of her brought tears to my eyes. Good call on going back to be with her in her last hours, I’m sure shes enjoying rainbow bridge :)

I am so sad and so sorry about Karmal! Your heart will heal but you will always miss your baby girl. Be blessed and allow yourself to be sad!

Dianne

I’m so sorry, Peter. My 7 yo kitty died this past Friday, so I know that this is very, very hard to deal with and I understand just how deep this loss is felt. It was a sudden surprise for me as well – heart failure. I feel guilty and sad and miss her lots, but I try to remind myself that everyone has their time and that her energy and influence is still alive and with me and can never be taken away.

Karma sounded like a sweet kitty as well and it’s obvious how much you loved her. It’s good that she was so well cared for in her life, went with no pain and that you’re able to embrace all the happy memories you have of her.

Your story touched me deeply and now I am crying as I go to bed. I am so sorry for your loss. That you were able to write this beautiful tribute to her is remarkable. Three cheers for Karma, a cherished friend.

Peter – I’m sorry to hear about Karma – may your memories carry you through this difficult time.

I’m so sorry to read about your loss. I am also a cat lover. My guy is Prince, a rescue like yours. You must be very sad. Perhaps karma will bring another love into your life. Bless you for taking her in and making her a part of your family.

Yesterday a tiny kitten appeared on my doorstep and has now been adopted by my oldest daughter who is returning to Northern VA tomorrow. She is a grey stripped tabby. Perhaps a fitting name would be Karma. Sorry for your loss, but maybe she lives on.

Peter – very sorry for your loss, We had a similar experience a couple months ago with our 16 yr old dog, Barkley. My wife and I were in tears when the vet gave him his final shot. So I feel your pain, man. But Karma will never leave you. Be strong.

– Chuck

“I’m sorry,” just isn’t quite enough to convey my condolences to you. Karma sounds like my kind of girl. Having lost my own little sweetie, Chloe, earlier this year, I understand the distressing loss. She was there for EVERY breakup, when some guy wouldn’t call, the one time I was stood up – she still made me feel wanted, and when a drip wouldn’t get my uninterested hints and wouldn’t stop calling, she sympathized with my plights. She patiently slept by my feet as I wrote paper after paper finishing one degree, then another, and another, and gave me daily reminders to find supreme joy in the simplest aspects in life. A bone, a walk, a belly rub, a cookie, a bird…. And, this little dog’s health motivated me to max out my credit card on more than one occassion pulling her back from the brink before her little (also 13 year old) body just couldn’t take any more. And, it sucked. In the suckiest way, ever. We’re lucky we got to be there to say our goodbyes.

Dear Peter:

I’m so, so sorry to hear about Karma. I always was happy to hear you talk about her and NASA, always happy to know that you were a kindred spirit in our shared affection for our four-legged companions in life. Although I’m more of a dog person, I still mourn with you over the loss of your dear, dear friend. She misses you, Peter, and waits for the day she’ll see you again. Please know that I’m crying with you and NASA and sending you my deepest condolences.

Sincerely,
Marjorie

My thoughts are with you.

I’m very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you.

Oh Peter. I’m sorry. I had a similar experience right after we moved. It’s very sad. How is Nasa handling it? Thinking of you! xoxL

So sorry for your loss Peter.

Peter, I’m so sorry. Thinking of you.

So sorry for your loss. The Rainbow Bridge is a wonderful place.

we had to do this last summer right before we left for a week at the beach. My twins (then 7) had a really hard time. It didn’t hit me until a month later. They are family. You did the right thing because you did what felt right to you.

Oh, sweet Karma… you will be missed and forever loved.

It never easy to say goodbye to one of the great loves of your life but think of how you both grew by your relationship. I’m sure Karma’s spirit will be looking out for you.

You and Karma had a fabulous history, a long life together, and a fulfilling and fitting ending. I am sorry for your loss.
I first saw you on The Whatever show over a year and a half ago. There was something about you that made me want to “follow” you, didn’t know what it was, I was just compelled. I am not into exercise and I don’t travel all that much so I couldn’t figure out why you?
I now know. You have such passion for your life and compassion for others in it that I love to see and can appreciate.
Wishing you the best this evening, and again, my sympathies to you and Meagan.

Oh, I am so sorry! My dog is almost 17, and I’m pretty sure I’ll have to send her to heaven before too long. Here I thought I was as prepared as I could be, but reading this post just tears me up. Maybe I’m not as ready as I thought. Still, I’m glad you did what was best for Karma, and I’m especially glad you have so many good memories. You’re a good man, Peter.

So many of us have been there. My cat, Pookie passed just recently. It’s so ridiculously hard to lose them. Be well.

I’m so sorry you lost your sweet kitty! I have so much respect for you cancelling your event to go home and be with your family during such a difficult time. Some things are just too important to put business first. Wishing you comfort.

So sorry Peter, I have had cats since I was a kid and had to say goodby to a few, it is always difficult. Hope NASA is not feeling too lonely.

I’m very impressed that you canceled your trip. That says a lot about your character to me. The Rainbow Bridge always makes me cry but at the same time, I so look forward to seeing all of my 4 legged/3 legged in some cases, loved ones again. There will never be another Karma, but there may at some point be another cat that takes a place in your heart.

Sleep well good kitty. Your humans will miss you.

So sorry to hear this Peter! I still miss my little one. Best to you & NASA.

So sorry for your loss. You are a great pet dad who has his priorities in order and that is refreshing to see. She’ll be waiting for you at the Bridge and romping until then. RIP Karma.

So sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of good thoughts!

Aww, so sorry to hear about Karma, Peter. She was blessed to have you and you, her. We’re all blessed by those we call ‘pet’ (or, in the case of cats, we call them ‘boss’!).

This made me look at my kitty, Rip (Butterscotch Ripple) and knowing he is eleven years old I often wonder – the thought creeps into my mind against my will – when his time will be. He’s never been an ill kitty in the least and I know I won’t be able to have another cat after him. He’s just so unique to me. The thought alone of it ever happening gives me tears.

Cherish the memories of her and keep loving NASA. I think he’ll miss her, too.

I have three girls and I cannot imagine being with one of them. They love me unconditionally. They love to play and make me laugh. And, when I lay down to sleep, all three surround me. They have been such a comfort since my husband died. Karma is no longer suffering and she will be waiting for you.

Just another voice to add to the chorus.. So sorry to hear of your loss. Those sweet fur balls are family, and despite their often choice to ignore us, they always know the right time to be right at your side. I’m glad to hear you were at hers when she needed you too. Best…. She will live on in your memory, and you’ll see her again…

There are no words that can possibly heal your heart right now however there are people around the globe who understand and send you virtual hugs.

As I sit and type my Molly (now 13) is curled up between my hands as I type to you and she is sending kitty love across the keyboard too. She got cancer earlier this year but two operations and lots of tears and fears … we are grateful she is still here. She is family … just like your girl Karma.

Her memory will live long in your heart – sending a big Aussie cuddle your way.

I can never read the Rainbow Bridge poem without choking up. I know all too well how it is when it’s Time, but it’s terrible.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, you just don’t get used it. I have had many pets of all kinds, some we get closer to than others.They have souls that touch ours. God Bless-her spirit lives on.

I’m so sorry, Peter. Your story hits especially close to home because tomorrow my family is gathering to say goodbye to our beloved dog, Bailey, who has been our friend for almost 16 years. I have been trying not to think about it, but maybe I need to.

What a sad thing to connect us. I don’t know how to start mourning, but your Rainbow Bridge story offers comfort.

Sending you warm thoughts and comfort.

I’m sorry for your loss, Peter. Terrible day, but she knew you loved her. Be well.

Oh Peter, my heart aches for you. Know that you are not alone in your grieving tonight, your friends around the world are touched by your moving tribute and are sending their love to comfort you. Goodnight sweet Karma, you are missed.

So sorry for your loss, Peter. There’s no love like the love of a pet.

You’re a good man, Peter S.

Karma had the absolutely correct take on life in regards to entitlement, food and snuggles. She was one of the most well-loved cats in the world; she deserved to be.

Dearest Peter:

No words could express the sadness I feel for you tonight on the loss of your beloved Karma. Maybe others have already made this observation in pervious comments, but as you well know today, too, marked the end of the space shuttle program as Atlantis returned to earth, its mission accomplished.

I like to think that Karma picked a fitting time to cross over the Rainbow Bridge, her own mission accomplished….making you happy, serene, proud, relaxed, kinder to both animals and humans, helping you to understand how to aid other unfortunate souls. And humble and angry, too, especially cleaning up cat puke and hairballs.

Lives lived well, Peter and Karma. Now go spoil NASA rotten for the next couple of weeks.

Love and hugs from Chicago,

Patti Davis

So sorry for your loss Peter. You gave Karma a great life and she will be missed :(

Peter, you have written out your soul and it was beautiful. Karma was a gorgeous girl. She will leave a hole in your heart you think can never be filled, but somehow someone else enters your life and that hole doesn’t seem so large. Please believe, she will be around you. Animals don’t forget kindnesses such as yours – saving her life.

I hope you find peace in knowing that all animals come from God and return to Him as well.

Peter what a cutie she was. All the best getting through the pain and grief.

This brought tears to my eyes! I’m so sorry for your loss. Karma was very fortunate to have such a caring “dad.” My own cat is 13 and I just don’t know what I’ll do without her when her time comes.

I’ll admit I’m not a cat lover but I do feel for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Your love for her is evident and I’m sorry you’re in so much pain.

Peter,
I have learned that very few things are absolute, one of those things is that one person’s grief cannot be truly understood by another. So I can only say that I appreciate your loss and hope that your knowing that makes some small difference.

That sucks man, but she did have a good life. So cheers to that!

My deepest condolences Peter. I can’t imagine living without my Chili she came to replace someone very special to me and to think of losing her too is inconceivable.

My heart and prayers go out to you. May Karma rest in peace.

Peter – my sincerest condolences on your loss of Karma. At least she didn’t suffer. I would imagine that there will be other opportunities to speak in India but there won’t be another final time with Karma. You did the right thing, absolutely!

Thank you for sharing your story. Karma was a lucky girl.

I lost my Stan last October after he too lost a lot of weight very quickly. We think he had bone cancer. He went quickly, in my arms. He’ll be waiting for Karma at the Rainbow Bridge.

Hugs.

Peter – She’ll always be by your side now, in ways she couldn’t be before. Many, many hugs for you (and NASA).

So sorry, Peter. Have been reading your tweets about Karma and NASA for so long that I know how much of part of you they are.

I am so very sorry for your loss Peter. All us pet owners know the sadness of losing our wonderful companions and it is never, ever enough time that we get with them. I am sure she knew that you loved her though.

Dear Peter, my condolences on Karma’s passing, hang on to the memories of the years you had with her. You did a wonderful thing opening your heart and home to her. Wishing you and Nasa time for your hearts to heal and memories to keep them full.

Peter,

I completely understand your love and devotion to Karma. May she rest in peace.

Dear Peter,

Oh, you write so vivid and beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss.

When I read the news I could feel the pain and grief pouring from your words like tears falling down the pages stained with the ink that you wrote with.

Karma seemed like a real cool cat. God bless her sweet soul. Know that even though I dont know you personally–you have my support and you are not alone.

All the best,
Lisa

Peter,
We are strangers, but I came to your story by way of facebook. I was in tears when I read it. Your girl was loved. She will live forever in your memories. Take comfort in your shared memories with NASA.

Take care.

Deirdre Glascoe on facebook

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a cat a few years ago who was with me for twelve years. I still get teary when I think about him. They love us so unconditionally, for better or for worse…You did the right thing.

Oh, Peter…I am so sorry. Pets have an amazing way of helping us to experience emotions we didn’t know we had. Most people have lost someone or something special to us and we wouldn’t be human if your story does not touch all of us in some way. Know that you have a support system behind you during this tough time.

So sorry. We lost our almost nine-year-old Yorkie, Gracie, very suddenly about three weeks ago from a previously undiagnosed enlarged heart. It’s tough and you certainly have our best wishes as you try to get through this. The crematorium sent us this same poem. It’s great! Be well.

Peter, my heartfelt condolences to you and those who loved Karma so much. Canceling a business trip was warranted and I’m sure your clients fully understood. If they didn’t, better you know now.

May the fond memories of Karma sustain you.

Kindest Regards,
Sara

I’m so sorry. As an animal lover and one who has lost much beloved dogs and cats, I sympathize. As difficult as it was, it’s so fortunate you were able to be with Karma at the end. Peace.

What a lovely and beautiful tribute to your girl. Tears are streaming down my face. Karma was a very lucky cat to have such a wonderful daddy and a great life. Thoughts and prayers are with you, Peter.

Made me a lil weepy to read this – having had both a cat and dog family member in my experience, I can understand the attachment and the profound sense of loss when they pass away. (The dog passed away). Any way, it’s always hard. I’m sorry for your loss.

I have always respected and admired you as a businessman. This makes me do so even more. Putting your family first is something that every good person should do, even when business has to be pushed aside. I’m proud of you. I am so sorry about Karma. Having just lost my first pet last year, my puppy Tyson, I know how much it hurts. But they know we love them and one day will see them again. Hugs to you.

Thank you for sharing! This is really beautiful … And so true. It filled my eyes with tears. I love the part about how they keep you humble!

your story has me all twisted inside, so sadly beautiful. i could not stop the flow of tears that welled within me. thank you – i think i needed to cry. it brought back for me all the old pain suffered from the loss of several very loved cats and dogs. even after many years the pain of loss lingers with just the barest memory…a more recent, and my hardest loss – my mom – passed on last summer. she had a tumor on her lung as well. my elderly father is no longer able to care for their two babies, zulu and minou…i left my home 17 months ago and have been caring for my father and ‘the little darlings’ since my mom’s diagnosis. it is time for me to go back to my life. i have discovered just how hard it is to find a caring home for people and pets who are loved, who deserve love, whose circumstances changed do to no wrong doing on their part, whose right is their’s to the best possible home in which to live out the remainder of their natural life…i have found a private home suitable to meet my father’s needs, he is happy, but no one willing to adopt two sweetly affectionate, and somewhat quirky (they remind you it’s treat time every morning and paw you like a dog when they want a cuddle lol), well-behaved 7 year old cats…everyone tells me to “have them put down.” my mom’s words echo in my heart, “what’s going to happen to my cats, Kim? they don’t deserve to be punished for my bad choices.” …karma was lucky to have a loving life with you…not too many people really are fully committed in this disposable society… i empathize with you, peter, during this grieving time. Karma is your little angel. no shadows, just peace, kim.

As I’m reading this I’m bawling like a baby. I lost my cat Rubee in 2001 and it crushed me. Even all this time later it still breaks my heart. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Sorry to hear about your loss, Peter. That’s always incredibly painful, and in time it will get better … but it still sucks.

Don’t ever feel bad for canceling because someone you loved (even if it is a pet) needs you. In the end, it’s just work…

I’m so sorry for your loss, Peter. She was as lucky to have you as you were to have her.

So sorry Peter.

Peter, so sorry to hear about your loss. Karma was lucky to have spent so much time with you, though I am sure it doesn’t seem like enough now.

Knowing you canceled a speaking engagement in India to be there with your kitty in her final moments on this earth tells me more about you than I could ever learn by reading what you write or listening to your presentations.

Godspeed, Karma. Stay close to Peter. He is sad and still needs you.

I am here weeping, so thanks- I needed a good cry. You did the right thing. The most important thing for any life is to haver their loved ones right with them.

I am a cat person, currenlty have 4. One of my deceased cats literlly looked at me (he had cancer and I nursed him homeopathically for 8 months where doctors said even with chemo he wouldn’t last more than 3 months) and told me it was his time, I called my family (hubby and twin sons), put Bogie the cat on my belly and with everyone in the room he passed away peacefully.

Just grieve and get yourself a new kitty when you are ready because Karma would like it that way!! believe me – she looks so beautiful and loving to you that I know that’s what she would want; she doesn’t want you to be alone (go to North Shore Animal League).

For us animal lovers, our pets are our family – sometimes they are even better than the real family we have. Know why? Becasue they give us unconditional love, something humans are incapable of (well, some)! ok have to go…thanks Peter, you are the best and I never met you!! And I am so sorry about your Kitty Karma- Namaste

Peter, I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you and Karma had so much time together.

Peter,
In this strange new world of ours you my day would always begin with you and your stories of Karma. I’m choked up with tears right now thinking about the pain you must be feeling….and touched deeply by the tenderness of your words. Souls travel together through a myriad of lifetimes…I believe that with all of my heart. You knew Karma before she came to your door and you will meet her again in her next life or your own.

So sorry for your loss. I enjoyed hearing about Karma in your posts. Pets keep us all grounded. My cat Pickle is 17 – I still remember bringing her home to my 4th floor walkup on West 88th street & feeleing like I was finally a grown up (this was shortly after college.) She’s an old lady now and meows like crazy when she wants something, something that makes my 2 daughters (ages 9 and 6) laugh and laugh. I love my PIcke without boundaries and cannot imagine how my daughters and I will ever say good bye.

So sorry for your loss, Peter, although she’ll always be with you and waiting for you. We’re so lucky to have these wonderful animals in our lives, aren’t we??

I just fell in love with you Peter. What a mensch! Anyone who gets this the way you have, gets it all. And love the inclusion of Rainbow Bridge, a part of my youth.
Yes, family is family.
Best regards,
Nancy

I teared up as I read this. I’m so sorry for your loss. I, too, just lost a loved one -Jefferson – my 16 year-old black lab. It’s painful to know they’re gone but we have such great memories of them. Bless you!

Peter – I know you’ve had a million pet stories but I couldn’t resist adding mine. My dog Charlie came to me – his face almost pink because of his missing hair – also in 1999. I had to let him go the morning I left for a business trip, just three weeks ago. Your story helped ease some of the pain, so I just wanted to say thank you. – Robin

Oh, Peter, I’m so sorry to hear this. I know you love your cats so dearly, and they love you, too. She knew how you felt about her, that’s for sure. Take care of yourself.

So sorry to hear about your loss! She was such a lucky lady to have someone who gave her as much love as you did!

I’m so sorry for your loss, Peter. Reading this made me want to run over and hug my kitties and tell them I forgive them for waking me up at 6am this morning by biting my toes. And for killing every single plant I’ve ever, selfishly, tried to grow. And for making me retrieve countless pieces of jewellery from under the fridge. Because I know I’ll be crushed when they won’t be there to make my life a big furry mess.

Karma was a lovely cat, and obviously very loved. May she rest in peace. Hope you and NASA take good care of each other without Karma to keep you in check.

Shedding a tear after reading this. My sympathies for your loss. Pets truly are family. They are by our side, day and night. Saying good bye to them is the hardest thing. Karma will live on in your memories!

I’m sorry for your loss, Peter. You’re right – pets are family, and it’s just as hard losing a pet as it is a family member. My thoughts are with you.

There’s nothing like losing a pet. I’m so sorry, I’m wiping away tears.

You’re right, family is family. We feel that way about our two four-legged kids.

So sorry for your loss. I bet she never had an unhappy day in her life!

Sago (who looks like Karma) and I send you our most heartfelt condolences.

Thank you for sharing this very personal loss with us. It is always so hard to lose a trusted companion and friend. She will remain in your heart always. Don those running shoes and be prepared.

I’m still crying — thank you for sharing your heart and your loss with us. My feline “guardian,” Dharma, also found me in 1999, and the years are showing. Your beautiful words made me stop to hug her, and I’ll treasure whatever time she and I still get to enjoy.

Our furry family members are with us for far too little time. Bless you for giving her a second chance at a great life… and for making her part of yours.

Also wiping away tears …I’m so sorry for your loss Peter. My “baby” kitty is 17 years old now and I do not look forward to any day without her. You wrote a beautiful tribute!

peter

i’ve just subscribed to haro so i haven’t followed your karma tales, but your sweet blog reminded me of the passing of my precious squeeky seven years ago. i’ll hug brownie and whitey a little closer today and sing a song to them all.

thanks for “sharing.”

Wow Peter! My heart breaks for you. I’ve been through it 3 times and it doesn’t get any easier. My Buddy kitty went to Rainbow’s Bridge a year ago and I’m still not over it. I believe our furbabies have a place in our heart forever. What a gift they are to us and how hard it is to do the “right thing” for them when the time comes. Sending love and light to you and your family …………..

Peter, you expressed your loss eloquently in your tribute to Karma. A pet and a person, a man and a cat — there’s no relationship quite like it. If you read this and would like it, I’d love to know where to send you a book my husband and I wrote about pet loss. It’s called Saying Goodbye to Your Angel Animal. We used the Rainbow Bridge essay that you have in your blog as a basis for chapters to help people grieve and heal after losing a pet family member. The book includes memorial services too in case you’d like to honor Karma in that way. Please accept my condolences. Your blog has surely helped others who must deal with the sadness. So proud of you for cancelling your speaking engagement and coming home!

Oh, Peter — I’m so sorry to hear the news! You’re right — family is family. She had a good life because of you.

Dear Peter,

Weeping as I’m typing. Your Karma was lovely and a great spirit, and your personaI karma was doubtless enahnced by your love for her. So sorry you had to say goodbye.

You so did the right thing cancelling an engagement to be with her at the end. Anyone who does not understand that does not deserve you.

Animals are the most precious things in our lives. I still have Tom, but his br other Tim went to kitty heaven a couple of years ago. My most fervent wish to earn more income is so I can rescue more animals from the SPCA or wherever.

Hoping you take comfort from knowing you gave her a good life, and hoping NASA will not be sad for too long.

(My childhood choice if I ever had gotten a fairy tale wish: to be able to talk to animals in their language. Then we could explain to them what is going on, etc.)

All the best to you, dear Peter.

I’m so sorry, Peter –Karma has been such an active part of the HARO family that I felt as if I knew her personally. You were both lucky to have each other!

Peter, I’m so sorry to hear that your cat Karma died.

Oh Peter. I am so sorry. Pets are so much more than animals. She was very lucky to have you as you were to have her.

Dear Peter,

What a lovely tribute. I am so sorry. My little dog was plagued with kidney disease and I gave him on subcutaneous fluids for a year before he died last July and it’s still a huge gap. Karma gave you unconditional love and trust and you did the best thing you could, holding her at the end. I love the piece about her puking on the floor the day you sold HARO – they keep us humble. They also never really leave us, each cat is different and you’ll remember her quirks and her affection deliveries forever.

My condolences,

Helen

My heart aches for you Peter.

Peter, I am really sorry to hear about Karma’s passing. You have definitely been an awesome cat dad for her from the very beginning all the way to the very end, giving her the very best always. She could not have asked for better. As a cat person (I have several), I feel for you–from experience I know how bad it feels to lose a precious furry family member. Hugs to NASA too!

Peter, I shed tears while reading your tribute to your girl. It’s unfortunate that our pets have shorter lives than us, but in that life you gave her a most wonderful place to live and so much love. She put little paw prints on your heart that will always remain.

Hello, Peter. I just started following HARO at the beginning of the week – and saw your post. I am so, so sorry to hear about Karma. But in a world in which I think so many of question if it has just simply gone mad, your story reminds us that are still really good people out there. And reading everyone’s wonderful comments reminds us too that we are not along in how we feel and in our compassion for all creatures. Thank you for reminding us that there are still beautiful and kind souls out there — and for sharing the story of Karma. I lost my “Hootie” 5 weeks ago from renal failure and it still hurts. In fact, if you would like to see our tribute, go to You Tube and search for “Farewell to Hootie.” He was such a kind and loving soul. – Linda

I am so sorry for your loss.Your words brought tears to my eyes. We have two dogs and I cant imagine how I’ll deal with that sort of loss. Our animals are truly members of our families. My thoughts are with you.

i am so sorry for your loss, as all above have stated, there is nothing like the unconditional love of your creature.you were both lucky to have each other.
rip karma, she will be waiting for you.
godspeed karma

cindy

Peter, I’m so sorry to hear this.it is so sad. I lost a cat a few month ago and your story remind me to my cat. be strong and I am very sorry for your family’s loss.

Peter, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. What a beautiful post and a nice tribute to your girl. It sounds like you gave her a wonderful life, and that she returned all of your affection.

Letting a beloved pet go rips your heart out, even when it’s the right thing to do. I appaud that you came back to be there for her. That’s true love.

Best to you and your boy NASA as you navigate the future together. It always helps to have another furry face there :)

Very moving! I thought I might share my blog from a couple of weeks ago that I wrote heartbroken over losing our young kitten. She was such an amazing being. Blessings to you — I DO understand the pain. Here is the blog –

My heart is broken this week. Those of you who follow my work know that I am an animal lover. I have 10 pets of my own, and am fostering four small kittens right now. I volunteer at the local rescue group every Monday, cleaning cages. The animals are very, very special to me.
We adopted a beautiful kitten in February – the first kitten I have ever had. I always adopted grown cats. Holly came into our lives and was immediately the Princess of our home. Her personality was larger than life, and she made us laugh. This past weekend – while we were away and our pet sitter was here – there was a tragic accident at our home and Holly was killed.
My husband and I have had a difficult time recovering. We both cry quite a bit and have really struggled to get past her death. This morning over coffee – and tears – we decided to talk about the gifts that Holly brought us and what we learned from her. I decided to share these for my blog this week in hopes that we can all learn from spirited, beautiful Holly. What lessons did she offer as her gifts?
(1) Kindness. With 9 other animals in the house, someone is always fighting with someone else. Holly embraced everyone: She loved the dogs. She loved the other cats. She was always sleeping next to someone, cleaning them or following them around. Instead of saying, “I don’t know about those other pets, let me stand apart from them,” she just threw herself into the relationships and found something she could enjoy with everyone.
(2) Don’t worry – be happy. Holly was always finding a cat tree to climb, a ball to play with, a bug to chase or a sunny spot to lie in. She thrived wherever she was. Life was filled with all kinds of things to explore and enjoy. She never cried or sulked – purring was her middle name!
(3) Show love. Holly had a special fondness for my husband. He was the only one who could hold her busy little body for any period of time. She sat on his sweater by his computer and tilted her little head to communicate with him during the workday. She followed him everywhere, climbed into his pants as he was putting them on in the morning, and purred contentedly as she slept near him each night. He said he could feel the unconditional love emanating from her all the time – and it felt good.
(4) Peace and contentment. Holly was so peaceful even in the midst of household strife. The kids could yell and scream, the dogs could bark and the other cats could get into cat fights, and little Holly would just lie in the middle of the floor looking like “life is grand!” She didn’t get ruffled by the things that happened around her; she had an aura of peace and contentment that helped the rest of us to get a grip when the commotion level increased.
(5) Have fun! Holly’s greatest gift might have been to remind us that life can be fun whenever we want it to be. Everything was a game to her: Getting ready for bed at night was fun. Having meals was exciting. Our coming into and leaving the house was reason to run around and rejoice. Her fun and upbeat spirit made us smile constantly. That spirit permeated everything we did and uplifted our hearts no matter what else was going on. During any difficult times, we would just turn and look at happy Holly to get our center back.

The hole Holly left is a wide open and very painful wound for us right now. Even with many other animals and beautiful children in my home, there is an emptiness left behind. But with the blessings that Holly bestowed upon us, we are hoping to take her lessons and apply them to every minute of our days.

This week, please think of Holly.

Be kind.
Don’t worry.
Show love.
Seek peace and contentment.
And have fun!

So sorry to hear of your loss. It seems so unfair that they cannot share more time with us!

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I know exactly how you feel. Reading what you wrote brought tears to my eyes. It my help you to read an article I have on eZine titled Saying Good Bye to a Loving Companion.

She will always be with you in her lessons you carry forward.

I read this last night and through my tears I couldn’t think of what to say. It’s heartwarming and sad at the same time.You expressed your thoughts so eloquently.

Peter,

I feel like I’ve lost a neice, since you came to me for advice when Karma needed the iodine therapy. I am so sorry to hear that she’s is gone. It’s hard, I know. But trust me, there will come a time when your heart will smile when you think of her. JB

It’s sad losing a member of your family, but when the time comes you know it’s the best decisions.

So sorry for your loss Peter.

I don’t know you, but I feel like I do because of the way you open up your life to those of us on HARO. I, too, have cats, and I know the pain of losing such dear companions. This was, by far, your most heartwarming post, and I hope seeing how touched we are will ease a bit of your loss. RIP Karma . . . and bless you for rescuing and loving her.

Dear Peter,

What a beautiful tribute to your beloved Karma. I’m so sorry for your loss (it’s a tough, tough thing to go through, I’ve been there on several occasions). But, I’m sure you will find comfort in reading these many, many posts of those who are sharing your sorrow and have you in their thoughts during this difficult time.

Adam,

I’m sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my cat of 17 years a while back and it was very sad. I still miss her. You were a wonderful guy for taking her in and giving her a great home.

Chris

So sorry for your loss, Peter. Hang in there.

My condolences on the loss of Karma, who looked like our family’s long-time companion, “Pooh,” a cat born on a farm in Tonganoxie, Kansas and moved with us to Chicago. Pooh must have thought he was a dog; he’d actually come to you when you called. He was with us 12 years, 1969 – 1983, and I still miss him.

So sorry for the loss of your companion. May the memories of many happy times be of comfort to you now.

So sorry for your loss. I recently put my beloved 16 yr. old cat “Chino” to sleep. One of the hardest things I’ve done. Cats are so special and become connected to us in a secret sort of way, that only we and them understand. Cherish the times you shared.

Hey Peter,

My heart goes out to you, Karma was one lucky cat and you are one lucky guy that you had a wonderful companion for so many years!! The “mysteriously expensive” and funny pets keep us on our toes for sure in our busy lives- they test our patience, our sense of humor, our wallets and keep us humble. Hang in there. Hugs from a fellow pet lover in Portland

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.

There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….

Author unknown…

I’m so sorry for your loss Peter. Karma was lucky to have a friend like you who cared so much for her well being.

You beautifully expressed what a cat can bring to anyone’s life, even people who don’t yet know they’re cat lovers. Take care of yourself and NASA.

I’m sorry to hear that Peter. It’s hard when you lose a pet, they are part of your family.

So sorry, Peter. My sisters in California lost their kitty Maggie yesterday as well. Karma and Maggie will have a wonderful time together over the Rainbow Bridge.

Peter,

No words can replace the unconditional love we receive from our furry lovers! I too have an older cat and can’t bear to see my Willow go. Peace be with you :)

Peter,

I’m sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing your tribute to Karma as well as the Rainbow Bridge.

The connections we share with our animal companions are deeper than many can imagine. My chocolate lab Buster is almost 12 and still in great shape, but I know what’s ahead for us not too far down the road. His dad was my best friend and Buster is too.

The memories of funny, outrageous, touching, unbelievable, frustrating hilarious and all around interesting times with our dogs and cats are never forgotten and often missed.

It’s one of life’s true bummers that they can’t be with us for longer times.

Good luck Peter.

John

I am so sorry to hear that Karma passed. It is wonderful you could be with her and that she passed peacefully. She goes back into the “big love” but part of her energy will remain with you for ever.

Peter – my condolences to you. As the parent of a number of furkids, they are family and it’s so painful to have then cross over the bridge. Thank you for being a great furdad to Karma and NASA. (((hugs)))

I have a twin to Karma, named Asia, who is sitting across my keyboard right now as I’m trying to type this. Sorry for the loss. They do worm their way into our hearts.

Peter,
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I’ve been where you are a couple of times, and it is always so hard to say goodbye to them, even when we know it’s the right thing for them. Give extra hugs and kisses to NASA; he’ll need them as much as you will. And know that Karma will never leave your heart.

As my yorkeypoo Zoey reached 13 this year, I thought for the first time she could be on the later part of her life. The thought made me cry, so I can only imagine what you are going through, Peter. I was 16 when Zoey came into our lives. She was the answer to, “Daddy, a puppy will make me feel better.” I was diagnosed with lymphoma and milked it for all it was worth when it came to the puppy card. Shameless, I know. :-) My parents, sister and I can all attest that Zoey is a member of the family, the go to support system and has brought more joy than can ever be explained. Karma was blessed to have you and may she rest in peace. All the best to you at this time.

We really are better people for teaming up and sharing the journey with our buddies. I wish you didn’t have this pain in your heart just now, the open hole. The hole keeps us vulnerable and reminds us that it’s precisely *because* we shared and loved so much that it’s there. For without the joy and love we experienced the hole would not exist. Blessings of love and light to you, Karma, Nasa & Meaghan and all the others Karma touched.

Peter,

So sorry to hear about Karma. I know how much she meant to you based on the wonderful stories you told about her.

Hope all your great memories of her help you manage through this difficult time.

Best,

Patty

Dear Peter,
I’ve been reading about Karma and NASA for years and am so very sorry to learn about your beautiful Karma.

Having shared my life with cats and dogs, I know how awful it is to lose a beloved pet. I had to say good-bye to my cherished 12 year old dog in March. Two years before that, we said adieu to our sweet and ancient (21 years old) cat. In my experience, time doesn’t heal these wounds at all – it just grows a scab over them so they don’t feel so raw after a while.

Karma deserves your tears and your grief, both of which testify to the importance this lovely pet was in your life.

My deepest sympathy,
Anu
Long time HARO subscriber

Peter,

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Your post brought tears to my eyes. You could feel the loving pouring out of your for Karma. May she rest in peace.

Jessica

Dear Peter,

It is so hard to be separated from such an awesome companion. She was beautiful and so are you for sharing such a personal story. Thank you. Keep an eye on NASA because he will mourn too, and will look for you to find a new companion for both you and him….when the time is right.

And, I love HARO!

Best Regards,
Lisa Santos, Chief Product Evangelist at AYTM

No words can express the depth of grief we feel when we lose our beloved little furballs. My heart goes out to you and NASA. They know! I honored my cat Bizco
(Beezco) by allowing him to write his book CATS OF VELVET.

When you feel better you may want to read it and can find it on Amazon and all the major book websites in print, audio and ebook. Love to you and NASA and I know Karma is still with you. They don’t leave./

Maria Mitchell, Authot

Peter,
I’m so sorry. I had to do the same thing in March after coming home from a biz trip to Scottsdale. I still think I see her her sometimes in her usual spots, and it’s odd not to hear her yelling for breakfast (oddly, our other cat has taken up that chore?) Beanbag was 13 and she had been abandoned outside a McDonalds in Anderson, SC on Christmas eve as a kitten. Stopped for a Big Mac, left with a cat. You were Karma’s wonderful human, she was lucky to have you (and she obviously knew it). Peace to you.

Karma looks just like my Charlie, a tabby we rescued a few years ago. He came to us with a badly broken leg which we had fixed, and he is now known as “the cat with the $2000 leg”. I’m in tears as I read your/her story — you’re right, family is family and you did what your heart told you was the thing to do. Bless you for giving Karma a warm and loving home, and she’ll be waiting for you across the Rainbow Bridge. We lost my Dane girl Ethel in Jan — I’ll tell her to be on the lookout for Karma. Hugs…

Peter — what a beautiful tribute to Karma. You are obviously a great cat dad and both you and Karma were fortunate to have each other. Sorry for your loss.

So sorry to hear of your loss, Peter. As a fellow cat lover and cat-mommy, your post tugged at my heartstrings. My beautiful, purebred Bluepoint Siamese is getting up in years, too (9 years old) and I cannot imagine life without her. She, too, had a very rough early life and was found abandoned, dehydrated and starving. And, she too, is a very important and vital part of this family. RIP Karma. May you find comfort in the fond memories….

I empathize, applaud you for your care of Karma, and send sincerest sympathies.

Many tearful regrets. It is a deep sorrow when we lose our babies. My book Cats of Velvet was written by BIZCO my 22 lb. attack cat and he lives in my heart always.

Maybe when you feel better you will want to read Bizco’s CAT OF VELVET. 15 years later I still get teary. Karma is with you and Nasa.

Maria Mitchell, Author – Cats of Velvet

Thank you for sharing Peter. Those of us with pets can completely understand the emotion that goes along with this member of our family. Thanks, too, for sharing that wonderful poem. Take care of Nasa as I’m sure he’ll be at a loss for a while.

I could barely finish reading your post through my tears…

It is never easy, letting go of anyone so beloved. Non-pet people simply cannot understand the depth of connection and love we pet people receive from and share with our furry family members. I’ve loved and lost many cats and dogs through my life – it’s never easy, even when they are “getting on in years” and you know intellectually the end must be nearing – our heart never wants to let go. And the beautiful thing is, it doesn’t have to! Our furry friends live on forever in our hearts and memories.

I truly believe we are united with ALL those we loved in our lives after death, and look forward to being swamped by many balls of fur upon my own passing.

Be well. Let the emotions flow. It is healthy to be present in your grief now.

I am sorry. I’ve had many cats and dogs over the years and so have loved many and lost many to age, illness and death. It never gets easier. My heart goes out to you.

As the “Mom” to a cat named Karma (and her sister Dharma, and her brother Buddha) I can only hope my “kids” know how much they are loved. The loss of a beloved companion is never easy. Condolences on your loss.

Peter – I’m so sorry! I don’t even KNOW you but I have 6 cats, I’ve lost 3 in the past that broke my heart in pieces. But I’m a firm believer in the Rainbow Bridge and it was meant to be that you found that little furball on your doorstep. You were a great dad and she’ll always be with you…….read The Eagle and The Rose and you’ll be comforted knowing her spirit will surround you and she’ll be exactly where she used to sleep or play – all the time. They touch our lives so deeply and I wish we outlived them because saying goodbye is soooo very hard. Prayer to you!

So sorry Peter. Those of us who like you see our pets as family are better people for the years we spend with them. I cried reading your words and I respect anyone who rescues an animal from the street.

So sorry to hear about your loss, Peter. Here at The Humane Society of the United States, our mission is to not only confront animal cruelty in the many forms its manifested around the world every day but to also celebrate the human-animal bond, especially with the beloved pets that share America’s homes with us and we consider family- at last measure there are almost 94 million owned cats in the 33% of American households with at least one of these magical animals.

I’m at a point right now where the only constant companion I have is the oh-so affectionate (and mischievous) Sweet Potato, She’s a rescue as well- having been found by my (at the time) girlfriend. She was abandoned or lost, and can’t imagine who would part with such a beautiful and loving little creature. I always loved reading your refrences to the kitties in HARO from the beginning and its obvious that she played a big part in your life.

My condolences from a longtime HARO follower…

Martin Montorfano
The Humane Society of the United States

Peter,

I join you in celebrating Karma’s life and the richness she added to yours. Anybody who’s ever had to let go of a treasured friend knows the grief that comes. We all know, as well, that it gives way to happy memories that eventually come without pangs.

I made a small donation just last week to my local pet shelter in the name of my beloved Scooby, The World’s Biggest Beagle, who is now howling and chasing squirrels at the Rainbow Bridge. Just a friendly reminder to all your readers: Don’t forget to support those who do so much for so many vulnerable animals who cannot do anything for themselves.

Hi, Peter. I was very sorry to learn of your loss. Like many other posters here, I am a cat rescuer/owner and I love Mr. Grimsby (13 yo?) and Little Miss Piggy (2 yo) as much as you loved Karma.

Thank you for including The Rainbow Bridge. What a beautiful poem – I’m sure you found a lot of solace in it. I know I did…

All the best, Peter.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I teared up reading your post – it’s a day us pet owners fear and dread. Hug NASA extra tight – it sounds like you both need it right now.

-Kat

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss. Having been in your shoes I understand how hard it is. Our pets truly are our family and they bless us in so many ways. Karma will continue to bless you in different ways – just listen. Thank you for sharing your emotional story about Karma with all of us.

Sorry for your loss…it’s always tough.

I’m so sorry for your loss . It’s hard to say goodbye to a loved one and often even harder to share the news. Thank you for sharing this story. I will definitely miss your Karma anecdotes. Take care.

Peter, We are so sorry for your loss of Karma. Pets are so important in our lives and those of us who have cats, dogs, and other creatures in our families learn such important lessons from them. Today we are working on our new office space outside of our home office for the first time and wondering what New Place Pugs are doing. I had cats for many years; they are unique and very special creatures. I like to Karma just got greeted by Newty, Neffie, Shawne, Spike, and the irrepressible Mr. Cat Pye on the other side.They’ll have a lot to share about all of us, I’m sure. It’s important that we all realize that there’s a process after losing a pet and to be patient and good to ourselves.
Peace and love, Yvonne
New Place Collaborations, LLC
Pittsburgh, PA

Peter, I was genuinely moved by your writing about Karma, but even more so how you cancelled your trip to be with your beloved companion. There are not many people in this world who would cancel a business trip to care for their animal but you did and that speaks volumes about who you are. One day, long into the future when you and Karma reunite at Rainbow Bridge, she will thank you. Maybe not with a lick, or a cuddle, but with a scratch saying “what took you so long.” :-) My sincerest condolences to you and NASA on your loss. May you find peace in her eternal healing soon.

Hey, there’s nothing we can do to make you feel better, except to remind you that we know. Pets are so, so special. I’m getting choked up now thinking about my own pets that I’ve loved and lost.

Hugs.

Loss is hard. Prayers, friend.

Sorry for your loss. I’ve lost many wooly ones, big and small. It is never an easy process.

Peter, I feel so bad for you. What a beautiful eulogy to Karma. I have been through similar circumstances and I hated every minute of it…quite frankly it sucked. Isn’t it amazing how we allow an animal to become so much a part of the “family.” But the nice part is Karma continues to live with you in your heart, and all the good and bad (probably not many of those) memories. Because, Peter, you have become such an important part of the lives of so many people, we all mourn with you. I personally feel sad right now. Perhaps God will bless you with a new friend for you and NASA. God bless you in this hour of need.

Rev. Dr. Ric Morgan

:-(

Peter, I’m so sorry. Karma is still with you in spirit, though; she always will be. And soon you will hear another tiny “mew…”

Peter,
I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband and I had to put our dog to sleep last month, so I understand how utterly heartbreaking it is. Snuggle hard with NASA tonight.

oh, that’s terrible, peter. there’s really not much else to say but sorry. so, so sorry. karma will come back to you … it (she) always does.

Sooooo sorry for your loss Peter! I understand how close she was to your heart, and always will be. She is a lucky cat to have someone who cared so much for her in this life!

In our heads, we know that we are likely to outlive our pets. In our hearts, we’re never ready to lose them. Condoldences.

So very sorry she’s gone, so very happy she had you.

As many as you loose over a lifetime of having cats, it never, ever, gets any easier. Karma will have plenty of Bahner felines to greet her. Each one is precious. Just this morning, my husband and I were talking about Hemmie, our black and white girl, who enjoyed a romp around our yard on her leash shortly before we had to send her to the Bridge.

Paw pats and head butts from Dusty, Pulitzer, Tekla and Mollie.

It’s so heartbreaking….so hard to say goodbye to our furry friends. But Karma was one lucky kitty; she had a great life because of you. I’m glad you were able to be there for her at the end.

When you’re ready maybe you will open your heart and home to another kitty in need.

I gave my two cats extra love after reading this. They are both rescues/strays and are about 9-10 years old. I don’t ever want to see them go.

As the owner of 2 cats myself, and a three times a day reader of HARO, my heart goes out to you. I said goodbye myself two years ago to a cat who was likely born in 1999, I am not sure because I adopted her from the animal shelter in 2002. The two cats I now have are immediate replacements, and yes, it took two to replace all the goodness of the one that died. One of them is named Segunda, which is Spanish for “the second girl” and looks a lot like her predecessor but acts so very different. The other one, though male, looks a lot like your girl. I hope you give your other cat a special rub on its chin tonight, and in time find a way to love another feline not the same, but as much.

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so glad you found the “Rainbow Bridge” . I believe…

Warmest thoughts coming your way during this very difficult time.

Peter,

While I’ve never met you personally, I follow you on Twitter and am also a longtime HARO subscriber (just got two great hits for clients from HARO pitches! woo hoo!) As a fellow cat person, I always appreciate your stories about Karma and NASA, but seeing your note today really hit home.

My 19-year old cat passed away in Sept. 2010. He had lived with me in four states and was the one constant I had for all those years – formidable years, I might add, as I ‘met’ him when I was 21. Given he was already eight when I met my husband, Korky (the cat) never let my husband forget he was there FIRST.

Like others that have commented above, I, too, inherited him from an ex-boyfriend. We didn’t start off on the right foot, but after a year of living together he finally decided I was trustworthy enough to let in, and the rest, as they say, was history.

Anyway, I’ve never emailed or even tweeted at you before, and you’re getting a ton of responses so not even sure if you’ll see this, but I still wanted to let you know I understand what you’re going through, and I am so very sorry for your loss. Life won’t be the ‘same,’ but you’ll adjust and things will fall into place the way they’re supposed to – just like on the day you and Karma met. I think you’re right when you said you got some good Karma by saving her. And it sounds like she was just as thankful to have you as you were to have her.

Hopefully next time you do something in the Boston area I’ll be able to attend and say hi!

Best of luck,
Jenny

I am really sorry to hear about it, Peter. She was very special…very good to be around. My condolences.

The first question I’m going to ask God when I get to heaven is “Why did our pets live such short lives compared to ours?” Perhaps it’s to help us learn about loss in preparation for losing the humans we love. The loss of the pure love of a pet is agonizing, no matter how many times you do it. I’m sorry, Peter.

PS I’m also asking why flies were invented, but that’s a whole different kind of question.

:( So sorry for your loss, Peter. I just lost my Ginger after 15 years (childhood dog)… and can’t imagine the pain I’ll feel when I lose Ferris (my cat and first pet that’s “all mine”). The Rainbow Bridge helped me too. Hang in there.

I feel for you Peter. I went through a similar situation and was struck by how my cat had been the longest relationship I had had.

We went through earthquakes, moving multiple times, living in 3 different states and more. When my heart broke as she passed away in my arms I was overwhelmed with gratitude for all we had shared and the gift it was that she shared so many experiences with me and gave me her companionship. Your post reminded me of the love and lessons she gave me. Thanks.

So sorry to hear this…we love our animals unconditionally, just like they love us unconditionally. We’re glad you got to be there to say goodbye to Karma.

Your friends at Lucky Dog Creative

Peter – I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something that I could say to ease it for you. Karma was not only a beautiful cat, she was a beautiful soul and will be missed!

Your love for Karma was so clear in your beautiful tribute to her, as I sit here with wet eyes feeling your loss. You rescued her, and you earned all the good things that her name conveys during the time you shared your lives. Sending you a virtual hug, and wishing you comfort and happier days soon.

I met Karma and NASA immediately upon my arrival at your blog a couple of years ago and felt some sort of confidence in you that went beyond the usual blah-blah-super-qualified-expert type of confidence. Your cats made you more human to me—more like a regular guy who, as you say, might get on his knees and clean up cat puke because unconditional love is sometimes messy.

I am sorry that Karma passed. I am glad she went peacefully.

Peter,
I’m so very sorry for your loss…like others, your post brought tears to my eyes. I have 6 furbabies (1 dog and 5 cats) and they are all rescues. One of my cats I even stopped on the Florida Turnpike to rescue (she was all of 1 pound then).

In any case…I know what it’s like to lose a family member–I’ve put down 3 dogs in the last 2 years (one 18, one 16 and one 14) and it’s heartbreaking. They are family, like you said.

I hope you find some peace knowing that you gave Karma a wonderful life–and although I know you will miss her terribly, remember the companionship you enjoyed and keep those happy memories in your heart.

Sending you virtual hugs,
Melanie

So sorry Peter. That was a tough post to read. Another reminder of the inevitable feelings and emotions in store for our family as well…..in the not-too-distant future. All the best.

Peter…I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the post.

Very sorry for your loss, Peter. As you said, “Family is family. And you take care of your family.” She was lucky to have such a great family.

This was a lovely tribute to a lovely girl. Know that in time, the feelings of loss will soften next to the happy memories (until you read someone else’s touching tribute to their lost pet, and you cry all over again).

This hurts my heart, Peter. I’m so sorry you lost such a special friend. My thoughts are with you. I’m so glad you went home. I admire you everyday in all you do with business. Including this time…a moment you set it all down to deal with what really matters.

Peter,

Sorry for your loss. I know how loving a pet and the love from a pet that we lose can change our lives. I had to put Rocky my Boxer down a few months ago and there isn’t a day I don’t think of him. Even my Grand Daughter still will ask for him and she is 21/2 and that really hits me hard.

Take care and again I am very sorry

Those who have never had the joy of a fur baby cannot know the loss that is felt at this time. I lost my beautiful cat earlier this year quickly to a large tumor – my first cat, my number one. You did the right thing, cancelling your plans and going home. There will always be other speeches, meetings, opportunities. There was only one Karma. These family members are more important than anything else in our daily grind. I’m sorry you have to go through this.

Dear Peter, I am so sorry. Karma will always be your girl and an important part of your heart. Sending you, NASA, your parents and Meagan my deepest sympathy and wishes for a measure of comfort as you remember and cherish this sweet girl and the way she shared the gift of her life and love with you. You’ve been a good dad to her. She’s surely sending you a warm purr from the rainbow bridge.

Peter, I knew what your post was going to be about before I clicked on it. I’m sorry for your loss. You will have more funny stories and poignant ones to tell for many years. You should post more stories about her as you remember them.

I still laugh over our Fred the Cat. He loved the smell of cigarettes which he was only treated to after we’d been with friends who smoked. He was like a vampire… “I want more.” He lived a long life but when it was time for a memorial, our oldest daughter bummed a cigarette off a co-worker and made me a card filled with tobacco.

They give us good memories. Kate

Dear Peter—I am so sad that you lost your baby girl. What a wonderful life you both had together as you rescued each other. My warmest thoughts and prayers are with you and NASA. XOXOX

Peter,

I follow and participate in the daily HARO’s. Reading about Karma today and also reading Rainbow Bridge, through some tears, was hard. Like another commenter, the poem made me think of my parents whom I lost recently and also the cats that became my family for so many years. Thank you for sharing something so personal and intimate with all of us. That helps all of our healing from losses.

Now, go over to NASA and make him purr. That’ll put a grin on both your faces!

I’m so sorry for you loss. I went through the same thing last fall. I know how you feel. Hang in there. Karma had a wonderful life, and you are a great guardian.

Peter, I’ve been there more times than I like to think about. Our 4-legged family members enter our lives and immediately find a home in our heart. Your story is a beautiful one and I will be praying for you.

That is devastating news. My recommendation is to eat as much junk food as possible. I know someday I will really miss yelling at Mr. Kitty to get off the counter. He is my partner in crime – and will continue to be for as long as we live.

Hey Peter,

Sorry for your loss. We rescued two brothers (tuxedos) back in 2001. They are a big part of our lives and I dread the day we lose them. I once found a cat under my car when I was an RD at a college. I took it in and had nothing to care for it except some tuna and a shoebox that I put gravel in. the next day I took care of getting the cat spayed or neutered I forget which I needed to do. Well, I had the cat for 3 days (you couldn’t have them at the college even if you were an RD, that was actually worse) and I cried when I had to give the cat away. So I can imagine the pain of losing a friend that you’ve known so long.

Peter,

My heart aches for you and with you, I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Karma with us over the years and most importantly, for being there for her as she was for you. In her memory, I’m going to make a donation to the rescue group that introduced me to one of my current companions.

I’ve shared both the unquestioning love and the heartbreaking pain of letting go when it was time. Sending warm and healing thoughts your way,

“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, For all that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” — Helen Keller

Dear Peter, My friend Dyana Valentine sent me your post knowing I lost my dear dog and heart companion Sienna after nearly 18 years in January. I so appreciate your saying “family is family” and cancelling your speech to be with her. My heart goes out to you.

In the week Sienna was dying, I dreamed she told me she was going “to write another book.” Right after she left her body, I had an amazing experience of her “talking” to me about what she wanted to say and it resulted in a short book “Sweet Sienna’s Divine Download & Secrets of Ascension.” It is a dog’s experience of death, and I’m sure it is not much different for a beloved cat.. Let me know if you’d like me to send it to you. You can email me at gail@realspeaking.com. (Yes, friends said, well, if anyone’s dog was going to speak, it would be mine! :))

Dear Peter,

Thank you for sharing Karma with us Peter, for the beautiful words and visions and feelings from the “Rainbow Bridge.” May you always feel the loving memories and joy that you shared together. May your day be flowing in love, peace, joy, and beauty. May you walk gently on Pachamama’s (Mother Earth) soft belly in Ayni (right reciprocity).

In my work with clients I frequently journey to the place described in the poem. It is known as the Land of Animal Spirits in the Q’ero mythology from Peru. It is the 3rd level in a place called the Hanak Pacha (pronounced hah-nak pah-cha) The upper or superior world, defined by its abundance of super-refined energy or sami (life-force or prana).

In Jungian terms it is known as the Super Conscious. It is just before the 4th world, what we know as heaven. The poem describes it beautifully… it is a place where all the animals go…

In my experience she is in a beautiful place❤

Sonqoymanta,
Scott

Peter;

Your story of how you rescued Karma was all to familiar. One month after marrying in October 1987, my husband and I found Cleveland (named after Cleveland Amory “The Cat Who Came for Christmas”) at the Post Office alternately crying up at me and a shrub. We took her flee and mite ridden little self home and never looked back. She amused us with her attitude and intelligence. She, too, had style.

She was diagnosed with cancer 15 years later and after 10 months of chemo, we finally had to say goodbye. By far, one of the saddest days of my life.

She’s burried outside our living room window, beneath the honeysuckle shrubs. And I still delight in telling stories about her.

Karma was a blessing who came into your life and will be with you forever. Peace to her and to you.

When my kitty ‘Puffer’ passed away several years ago it was suddenly, even at 18 her health had been good until it failed. At that time in my life I did not have the resources to do anything more than insure she had a dignified end. I buried her between the roots of an enormous apple tree at the home I rented and prayed that the big tree would embrace her for all eternity. Years later I still drive by that tree every chance I get and writing this, I still cry. I wish I could have done more, I wish I could have given her everything she gave to me; from elementary school to marriage, she was there for it all in her quiet constant way. Several years later I had to make the decision to put down her companion, my dog, and because I knew how irreparable sudden loss is, I vowed to spend a full and fun weekend with him and say goodbye the way I should have with her. Puffer’s death taught me to never let a day pass without telling those you love (furry and smooth) how much they mean to you. My thoughts are with you and all those here describing their loss.

Peter,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. My tabby (my #one buddy) and I found each other that same year, 1999, and he just died in May. Like your cat he survived medical issues (asthma and impossibly low potassium) and was about the best catcher and sneakiest food thief in the cat kingdom. Cat pets are always there, one moment to mollify you, one to keep you humble, and another to be your baby.

Karma was lucky to have you, and I’m glad NASA will be by your side when you get home. Safe travels!!

ps- I still say goodnight to my buddy. Is that weird?

Peter,

You should read “Homer’s Odyssey,” true story about a blind cat in Miami. Karma’s life began as Homer’s did. And their journey very similar.

Hang in there.

Jen

Peter,
Thank you for sharing! Your post about Karma is another reminder for me about the cycles of life and love. Your vulnerability in sharing your life with Karma opens a space for me to cherish my new baby and family all the more. May you feel Karma’s peace my friend.

In honor,
Aura Austin

I was so saddened to read this. Thank you for sharing. Tears and hugs.

so sorry for your loss. how lucky we are to have pets in our lives.

I am so touched by your words. Especially when you say family is family. You are a good man. Karma was lucky. You created your own good Karma when you took her in.

Really sad to read that – condolences to you, Peter. It sounds like there was a lot of good karma between you two for many years. And that is something you’ll always have. Peace to you, Karma. Be well, Peter.

Sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. Karma lives on in your kindness to all.

May you find happiness in all the good times and wonderful memories of Karma. She is physically gone, but her spirit will always be with you.

The loss of someone dear is always hard. Give yourself time, healing takes much longer than we think. Keep a cheery picture of Karma nearby to remind you of her. You are in our thoughts.

So sorry for your loss, Peter. Thank you for your touching blog post. You did the right thing cancelling your business trip.

I’m so sorry for your loss. A bond between a cat and a human strings both their hearts together. I lost my Samantha after 19+ years on June 27th. I can empathize with your hurt. Sammie and Karma are over that Rainbow Bridge just waiting on us.

This is a beautifully written post. Kudos to you for being so open with your readers; writing this could not have been easy. Reading about Karma reminded me of my own cat which I lost some years ago. Still hurts when I think about it – that cat stayed with me longer than most of my human companions at the time.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. The Rainbow Bridge truly gives me hope that our babies will be there waiting for us one day and I can’t imagine anything more peaceful. Thank you for taking the time to share your story with all of us. I truly believe that pets come to us for a reason and Karma was lucky to have you … she is watching down over you with love and appreciation for the live that you gave her.

Peter,

You are such a sweetheart – always sharing the good times and the bad with this invisible HARO family you’ve created.

Lots of love as you adjust to life without your sweet Karma…

Vanessa van der Have

So very sorry to hear this, Peter. I hope over time the pain of loss becomes eclipsed by the joyful memories you and NASA share of your beloved Karma.

Peter -
Sending you love as you grieve the passing of Karma. Cats are magical little creatures who know how to capture your heart.

I lost my first cat as a kid – I remember being devastated. Cried in bed for days. I now have 3 kitties and they are the best things ever (even the one who refuses to use the litter box!).

May Karma continue to send you love from Rainbow Bridge.

Go Karma, fly up to that catnip cloud…roll in it and be so, so happy as a reward for how much love and joy you brought Peter. Purrrrr. Peter, I don’t know you but our love for our beautiful friends who wear fur binds us…I will see you two playing on Rainbow Bridge when I meet Scooter, Peanut, Fenway, Boogie, Tigger and Magellan there.

I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and NASA.

Oh Peter, I’m so very sorry. Going to give my kitty an extra hug now.

Peter,

I know Karma will be with you forever. How wonderful and rich a life you provided and have received over the years. I still miss my two “boys,” Smoke and Simba (both rescued) although I now have two “girls,” Friday and Sunday.

I know my life would be poorer without the unconditional love I have been given. I truly believe we become better humans through the strong ties to our furry soul mates. Hair balls included.

My Rainbow Bridge wishes to you and NASA and anyone else enriched by your Karma tales over the years.

Very sorry Peter, and sorry for the belated sorry. Hang in there

I just saw your post Peter and I’m so sorry for your loss. My little girl Susie passed over the Rainbow Bridge on February 15th this year. She was my girl for 16 years just as Karma was yours. We had a sweet last 36 hours together and I had the vet come to the house. Susie died in my arms at 5:00 pm. Every day since, I tweet out something that Susie inspired in me–sometimes it’s humor, sometimes a quote about life, sometimes just silliness–it’s my way of saying thank you and I love you every day even though she’s not here in front of me.

Hey Peter,

I’ve been away from my RSS reader for a couple of weeks, and I just read this post. My condolences on your loss. I’ve never owned a cat, but I quickly and easily develop strong bonds with living creatures, and believe me when I say I can feel your pain. If there was anything to say that wasn’t expressed in “Rainbow Bridge” or any of the other 269 comments above mine, I would say it, but they have covered it all. Probably much more eloquently than I could, myself.

Live. Love. Laugh. And enjoy NASA.

Peter,
I read this post and was blown away. By your grief, by your love, and by your recognition that we can and should, take time to process the loss of our animal companions. In June, we lost our 19 year old “Auntie Stinkie,” a rescue kitty who found her way into our lives with flawless finesse. On the day you lost your sweet girl, we brought home Ella. What is interesting is that Ella looks very much like your beloved Karma. I can only hope that she too, will live such a long healthy and happy life as your dear girl. I hope that you and NASA will take care.

You know that she’s still with you in spirit, Peter. Bless you for having taken such good care of her for all those years. My 23-year-old little Vixen is sleeping curled up underneath my desk right now, and it’s going to kill me when her time finally comes. She’s outlived two boy kitties and my mother, so I do understand your grief. There’s a site called GoneTooSoon where you can set up memorial pages for your departed loved ones, and a lot of people do pages for their pets there…but then, you probably already knew about that!

While I think everyone has covered all the sympathy and condolences possible, I’m late coming across this post and wanted to add how sorry I am to hear of Karma’s passing. She was incredibly lucky to have chosen your doorway to shiver in those 13 years ago, and I think you gained immeasurable good Karma along with all the joys, delight and occasional scratches that come from sharing one’s home with a cat. Blessings to you for picking up that ball of fluff and for caring for her so well through all the veterinary hurdles.

Been late in reading your posts, so I just came across this. So sorry to hear that Karma crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Nothing tugs on our heart strings like a furry four-legged animal. She was wise to choose you.